What topics can you chat with girls about?

01 Talk about eating, drinking and having fun

Eating, drinking and having fun are essential things in life. They happen every day. Therefore, this is the most common topic in daily chats, including food, music, movies, activities, wine, coffee, etc. The content is very wide.

When you are with a girl, of course you cannot say: "Hey, I ordered takeout today, and it took an hour and a half to arrive. I had a rice bowl with rice, which was expensive and tasteless. I’m all hungry now.” Before you say this in such a chat, you should think about how the girl will feel when she hears this, how she will react, and how she will reply to you.

Faced with this situation, I am afraid that the most common responses received are "Oh", "Hmm", "Then you eat more". You have finally picked up a topic, but find that you can't continue the conversation after one sentence, and you have to change the topic. The subsequent chat will be relatively difficult.

When talking about eating, drinking and having fun, the most important thing is to have something to remember.

No matter which topic you choose, it must be different from ordinary daily chats so that people can remember it. So how should we talk so that we can remember it? Let me tell you. For example, in a small bar that I like very much, I would say this to her:

Male: I have been exhausted from working overtime recently. I must go out and relax after work.

Female: Yes, everyone is very busy.

Male: How do you like to play during your free time?

Female: blablabla...

Male: I haven’t been to Taikoo Li for a long time. I used to like to go to a high-altitude private bar on the 45th floor of Langyu next to me at night.

Female: Being so high, the field of vision should be very good, right?

Male: The location is very high, the view is very good, and the boss is very nice. In the past, when friends came over, I would often take them there, order the signature Long Island Iced Tea, and sit by the floor-to-ceiling windows, chatting about everyone’s current situation. When I turned around, all I could see was the bright night view of Taikoo Li, and the Sha Mao Street next to it. The traffic is busy, and the Chengdu TV Tower is dazzling in the distance. You feel like you are in the hustle and bustle of the city, with a rare sense of leisure. Looking back, the quiet room is accompanied by soothing music. Put on the wine glass. The cocktail looks particularly clear under the dim light. Clink a glass of Duang to stimulate your taste buds and slowly enjoy the beauty of the night.

Female: Wow, there is such a good place in Taikoo Li, I didn’t know about it before.

With memory points, girls’ interests can be stimulated.

When you express these memory points in reasonable language, girls will naturally be attracted and interested, and they will naturally be willing to continue chatting with you. If the conversation goes well, it won't take long for you to make a vague invitation to prepare for your date.

02 Talk about travel/tourism

Travel is also a good chat topic. Girls nowadays like this way of leisure. Therefore, you should take a good look at the information displayed by the girl, her circle of friends, the photos she posted, etc., to understand where she has been and where she wants to go.

If you find a place that she wants to go but you have been to, as soon as you tell her about it, she will naturally want to ask you how you feel in that place, what is delicious, what is the best way to play, etc.

If you find a place where you both have been, you can talk about your special experiences or folk customs in this place, which can also trigger her memories and past. If it is a place that neither of you has been to, it can also arouse excitement and let you go and yearn for it together.

There are many such places, and they don’t have to be high-end, as long as they are interesting, interesting or meaningful. Of course, you can ask her about different feelings about traveling, such as: What is the coolest place you have been to in the past few years? She was naturally happy when she answered about her unforgettable experiences.

03 Chatting with friends

When chatting with friends, you can chat about your friends or her friends. It would be better if you have gay friends, and everyone will have more knowledge about sex.

For example, you can talk about some characteristics, interesting things, scandals, etc. of one of your friends, which are all good choices. For example, you said: Just talking about this, I suddenly thought that a friend of mine had a similar situation, blabla... In this way, it naturally started to open up such a topic.

04 Talk about experiences

Everyone has different experiences, including crazy experiences, unforgettable experiences, regretful experiences, ups and downs, joys and sorrows. So, sharing your past experiences will also remind her of her own past stories.

Of course, some friends will think that I feel very ordinary and ordinary, with nothing to say. Then, you should take a good look back at your past. From childhood to adulthood, among the many things that happened, you will definitely be able to find quite a few. It’s not that there are none, but you haven’t thought of them yet.

You can share this experience with her yourself, or you can ask her: What is the craziest/most adventurous/coolest thing you have ever experienced? What's the funniest thing you've ever seen? What is the thing you most regret not accomplishing while in college?

05 Talking about hobbies

Talk about hobbies is also a good topic, and since it is a hobby, you must not simply understand it, at least you should know a little bit about it. Well, in other words, I am familiar with and proficient in it. It is often easy to talk about such topics.

For example, many girls like to raise cats and dogs. If you know a lot about dogs, you can talk to her about raising dogs, such as the classification characteristics of various dogs and what kind of dogs are good. You can raise her, what kind of dog is obedient and fun, the feelings generated by raising a dog, etc., she can have a buzz with you, and she can also increase her understanding and learn from you, so she can naturally have a good communication.

Of course, you can also talk about each other’s quirks and hobbies. If you can start a conversation, you can quickly get closer to each other. Such as mysophobia.

Because some fetishes are unacceptable to some people, if you can accept and express your approval, she will seek a sense of approval. You are one of the few people who support her, and she will be very happy and will pull her out. Close your psychological distance.

Of course, if you tell her about a hobby, she may not be able to accept it and may think you are a weirdo. Therefore, before you talk about this topic, you should have a clear understanding of whether others can accept it to avoid negative impacts.