People, no matter how bitter and annoying you are, don't tell everyone.

Wen | I'm Tian Miaomiao

Two weeks ago, after I came back from the hospital, I was very depressed. Because I found some problems in the hospital, I checked online and the whole people were more worried, so I chatted with my girlfriends on WeChat.

after I poured out a lot, I found that my mood didn't get better, and my best friend simply comforted me a few words, and then turned to continue to do my own thing. At that moment, I had a feeling that I was not understood.

Yes, human joys and sorrows are not connected. Who has the obligation to understand your inner anxiety and pain? As the actor Yang Mi said: "No one has the obligation to understand your hard work, because everyone is hard."

people, no matter how bitter and annoying your heart is, you don't have to tell anyone. Because most of the time, it is useless to talk. Chattering like Xianglinsao will not only affect the mood and state of people around you, but also convey your negative energy, which will make people stay away from you and even dare not approach you again.

I remember a time when a Younger had emotional problems and kept coming to talk to me. At first, I answered and comforted him very patiently every time.

but later, I slowly found out that he is such a stubborn character. No matter how you comfort her, there is no way to dispel the prejudice in her heart, and no matter how you persuade her, she can't free herself from her inner imprisonment.

I spent a lot of time trying to persuade her, but at the same time I felt that my time was occupied, but it didn't help at all. Later, when Younger came to see me again, I stopped responding to her messages enthusiastically and devoted all my time to what I was doing.

This is the truth of life. Everyone is very busy and tired, and has their own life, work, family and other trivial matters to deal with. No one will have so much energy to take care of your emotions and appease your anxiety.

people always rely on themselves. Bad emotions have to be mediated slowly by yourself, and negative energy can be solved slowly by yourself. Things that you don't understand will make you figure it out slowly in time.

It is actually a kind of kindness not to pass on too many negative things and emotions to people around you.

If you talk too much if you are annoyed and bitter, people who care about you will worry and worry for you, and people who don't care about you will look down on you and even laugh at you behind your back.

It's like a scar that has been abscessed and festered. It will always heal in time, but you are anxious to lift your clothes and show the festering wound naked in front of others. Then others will only feel sick and uncomfortable, and you won't get much sympathy from others yourself.

In fact, not many people in this world really want you to have a good life. Never expect others to fully understand you. No one can ever understand how hard and tired you are.

Even the people closest to you may sometimes misunderstand that you are a big setback for yourself, but it is just a light sentence in others' ears. So it is better not to say, keep your mouth shut, and silence is golden.

You know, people who can really live a good life are not complaining, but strong. Your attitude determines your future. The more difficult it is, the more you have to correct your attitude and be positive, and your future will be bright, and people around you will be influenced by you, thus becoming positive and optimistic and full of hope for the future.

In this world, everyone has unpleasant things. If you show your worst side to others every day and tell your misfortunes and pities like Sister Xianglin, your life will be miserable even if you breathe.

Most of the time, mentality determines a person's state. A wise person should know that no matter what life gives you, you should continue and work hard, play a bad hand well and keep playing a good hand better.

No matter what gift fate gives you, if it is a setback, you should regard it as an opportunity for growth; if it is a difficulty, you should cross it; if it is a good thing, you should enjoy it gladly.

If you are so calm and calm, then you won't be influenced by the gossip around you, and you won't let your troubles and pains rock the boat.

On the contrary, you can go to exercise, temporarily distract yourself, or stop things, have a good sleep, travel and have a good rest. Difficulties will always pass and life will eventually be beautiful.

Of course, life is short. Every day we live, we should constantly give ourselves chicken blood and drink chicken soup. Fortunately, chicken soup is also very nutritious. It can not only make our bodies healthier, but also make our hearts healthier. Just like mindfulness meditation in yoga.

If you imply that you can do something, then there is a high probability that you can do it. If you think it is bad, then the result is likely to go the way you think.

So no matter what you are facing at what stage, first of all, we can't give up our hope for life. Second, we don't have to tell everyone about our troubles and anguish, or even others.

People who keep a low profile, do things seriously, make a fortune with silence, know how to be alone, know how to accumulate their own strength in difficulties, and know how to precipitate and dormant will be the real winners in the end.

After all, no matter how his life goes, he has his own self-abased mood and a calm and firm pace.

I wish you to be a smart person, not telling everyone about your pains and troubles, not handing over your weaknesses to others, keeping a little mystery and keeping your dignity and dignity.

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