Should the boyfriend leave alone after a couple's illegal hiking?

I thought I should leave. I carefully reread what happened in the report. There is this description: "Later, this young man named Wei told me that on the night of the 2nd, after his partner named Chen went down the mountain to ask for help, he stayed with her girlfriend. However, there was an extreme lack of oxygen on the mountain, and he was also worried that something would happen to his partner when he went down the mountain. , so he waited until 1:30 a.m. on the 3rd before he decided to go down the mountain to seek help." Xu Guihua said. After the boyfriend found the rescue team, he returned to participate in the rescue.

I believe that the truth of the matter is this. Moreover, when Xu Guihua's son and his party met Wei, Wei's physical condition was already very poor. He came down from the mountain at 1:30 in the middle of the night, got lost and walked all night, and had not eaten, so his physical strength was exhausted, but he was determined Apply to go up the mountain with them for rescue. Xu Guihua said that Wei, his son and Captain Wang returned to the top of the mountain again, but when they reached an altitude of 4,900 meters, Wei suffered from altitude sickness and could no longer move forward. In order to ensure Wei's safety, his son Xu Xiaoyao and Captain Wang refused to allow him to continue searching up the mountain. They waited until the rescue team arrived, and finally the rescuers forcibly took him down the mountain. Xu Guihua also said: He was not willing to leave at that time, saying that his girlfriend was on the mountain, but in that case, he would be in danger if he did not go down the mountain. It can be seen that the boyfriend Wei did not think of running away alone and abandoning the suspicion of his girlfriend.

Bystanders who have not experienced what they encountered at that time may think that in the face of difficulties, friends must overcome difficulties together and must never leave. My opinion is different. I think that my boyfriend Wei must have made a choice after objectively thinking about the surrounding environment and objectively evaluating his and his girlfriend's bodies and the current climate conditions. The situation at that time only allowed him to send out a distress signal. In this way, it was possible to save the lives of the two people. Otherwise, today's result may not be the loss of a life.

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The controversy on this topic is: when he left alone, did he deliberately protect himself and abandon his girlfriend? Just imagine, if Wei came out and rescued his girlfriend in the shortest time, would the result of public opinion be different? Therefore, in the face of other people's incidents, bystanders must have a clear and calm mind, and an attitude of holding and understanding, instead of taking things out of context and showing a terrible "righteousness". What I saw was that the boyfriend Wei was trying his best to save his girlfriend’s life, but his rescue method was not to die tragically together, but to rescue himself first and send a distress signal at the same time; while his girlfriend’s rescue was delayed, It was only related to the weather environment at the time. I didn't see any human factors.

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