What reasons caused your originally planned trip to fail?

When I didn’t have children, I would think about money. Now that I have children, I have to think about children and money.

For example, in my latest planned trip, I originally wanted to leave my children at my grandparents’ house for two days, and then I would drive to the beach with my husband, my best friend, and her husband. The drive takes about 4-5 hours. After arriving, we can have lunch and rest, and then go to the beach in the afternoon. Very nice.

But why didn’t I go? My husband thinks the weather is too hot and it’s not good to leave the kids at their parents’ house. Only the bedrooms have air conditioning. If the kids want to go out to play, they will be exposed to the sun. It’s uncomfortable to stay at home. The child is not good. In fact, I think he doesn't want his parents to take care of the child. If I asked him to take the child with him, he should be willing. But when I have a child, he is such a little kid, and I have to take care of him when we get to the beach. How can I enjoy the sea? I went there to relax, not to take care of the kids. So, we didn't agree.

I have been talking to my best friend for a long time and planning for a long time. In the end, it ended like this. My best friend was also very disappointed and said that I couldn’t even go out to play now.

I remember that in the past, even if I had no money, I could go to the free scenic spots in my city in a short time by bus. There were also beaches and lakes, trees and flowers, which were very beautiful. As long as I had time, I Just go. But now, what is time? What is freedom? I don't know anymore.

However, I think it’s okay to wait until the child is a little older, and then we can choose a parent-child travel route. I comfort myself and save money now. There is still time for everything, I am still young.

There will always be travel.

Just purple.