Why “leftover women” are not a concern and “leftover men” are the crisis?

Nowadays, more and more young people are unwilling to get married and have children. As they grow older, these young people gradually become "leftover men" and "leftover women". Most of the hot topics in society are now "Leftover women", but in my opinion, leftover women are not a concern, but leftover men are the crisis.

First, because our country is a country with a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women. Since the older generation, there has been a saying that there are only men who cannot marry wives, and there are no women who cannot marry. For a girl, no matter how old she is, as long as she expresses her desire to get married and lowers her sights appropriately, there will be a lot of boys waiting to marry her home. For a boy, if he wants to marry a wife, he does not just get one if he wants to. He must have enough material foundation to pave the way for a girl to be willing to marry him. Second, most of the leftover women in our country now belong to those with high income or high income. High education, high income, good looks. In other words, the remaining girls were not selected by others, but because they were too good, they took the initiative to become leftover girls. In our country, a girl is already twenty-four or five years old after receiving higher education. If she wants to continue her studies, she will be nearly 30 years old by the time she graduates. However, according to the traditional concept of marriage in our country, girls are generally 20 years old. You have to get married and have children when you are more than 10 years old. This is considered complete. Basically, if you don’t get married in your 30s, you will be called a leftover girl. But these girls already have the capital to choose the life they want, and they also understand themselves better. What exactly do you want, and for these women with good looks, high education, and high income, as long as they want to get married, they can definitely get married. Third, except for a small number of men who are unwilling to get married, most of the remaining men are selected because they do not have sufficient material foundation and economic conditions. It's not that they don't want to get married or have a wife, but because their own conditions are not good enough, no girl is willing to marry him. Therefore, left-over women are not a cause for concern. Left-over men are the crisis.