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What should parents let their children know when traveling?

Warm spring in bloom is a good season for an outing. Presumably, many parents are ready to take their children out to play, especially the May Day is coming soon, and most parents should have planned their holiday trips. But there is such a news recently, which has aroused the dissatisfaction of the majority of netizens.

Children's indifference to civilization has a great influence on themselves. First, children don't understand public order and good customs.

Parents are the best imitators for immature children, so many children imitate their parents' behaviors and actions when they are young. And this uncivilized behavior of parents without quality will also be imitated by children. Children regard their parents as the most authoritative people and don't realize the mistakes of their actions.

After a long time, children may take this uncivilized behavior as correct. Even when they grow up, their characters have been stereotyped, and even if they know that this uncivilized behavior is wrong, they cannot be changed.

Second, children will pass on this uncivilized behavior.

We all say that family education will affect a person's growth. For a child, family education is more crucial not only to affect the child's personal growth, but also to affect the growth of the child's next generation. If you grew up under the wrong education of your parents, your children will naturally bring this kind of education and thought to their children after they have the next generation.

Third, children will eventually be abandoned by society.

Growing up in this environment, uncivilized behavior is a matter of course, children's personality has been distorted, there is no correct moral concept and moral bottom line, and finally they will not make the right friends and get the right help in the process of study and work.

What is even more frightening is that when children regard their unqualified behavior as correct behavior, they become extreme and distorted, and finally they can only end up abandoned by society.

It can be seen that the influence of parents on their children is enormous. During the tourist season, parents take their children out to play, which can help their children to increase their knowledge and greatly help their growth, but at the same time, parents should also tell their children these truths.

Parents should let their children know this when they take their children out for a trip 1. Appreciation comes from the eyes.

Appreciating beautiful things is human nature, even children have their own aesthetic views, so parents must tell their children that appreciation is from the heart.

It is most important to keep the appreciation of beautiful things in your heart and the feeling of appreciating beauty in your heart for a long time. Instead of picking flowers and enjoying the beautiful scenery for a while, it will make the beautiful scenery lose its vitality. Parents should tell their children that beautiful things are beautiful because they stay in the present environment. If you take them home, they will not be beautiful.

2. Strictly abide by the regulations and emphasize the importance of the regulations to children in advance.

There are always many parents who don't care about emphasizing the importance of regulations with their children when they take them out to play. In fact, this behavior is very bad. Because for some specific places, the regulations protect not only the creatures and environment of the place, but also the tourists themselves.

For example, according to the regulations of the safari park, tourists can't get off the bus, but every year, many people get off the bus in the forbidden area of the safari park, regardless of the regulations. In the end, these people were severely punished for their unruly behavior.

Many tourists will definitely visit the panda base when they go to Chengdu, and in the panda base, all kinds of unruly adults and children can be seen everywhere. Throwing things at the panda park, it is forbidden to slap on the glass window, but there are still children slapping on the glass window. These things are clearly defined, and parents should seriously repeat their importance to their children.

We can't imitate the uncivilized behavior of others.

Sometimes parents believe? Mind your own business? Many parents are always worried that their meddling will cause conflicts and bring danger to their children, so most parents will turn a blind eye to the uncivilized behavior of others.

And this kind of blindness, in fact, from the perspective of onlookers, we have no position to blame. Therefore, when parents take their children out to play, they can see uncivilized behavior. Even if they don't go forward to discourage and stop, parents must tell their children that the other party's behavior is wrong and uncivilized, so as to prevent children from following suit.

It is normal for parents to want to protect their children. Parents can tell their children to mind other people's business and not to accuse others of uncivilized behavior, but at the same time, they must tell their children that what others do does not mean that they can do it themselves.

Don't let your children become? Bad luck? How do children teach them to be civilized people? In fact, we should start with the little things around us. Parents should set an example to educate their children, such as not spitting, not littering, not talking loudly in public places, not destroying objects in public places at will, and so on. Parents should educate their children from these little things, understand civilization, and let their children become civilized people.

In fact, there are more people with quality than those without quality. In order to set a good example for children, many parents will pay special attention to civilization and quality, especially in front of children. These are all very good ways to educate children. After all, the influence of family atmosphere on children is enormous.

However, a few parents who have no quality may give their children a big wrong demonstration. In such a big environment, even if parents make such mistakes, they will be corrected immediately. However, for parents who are not qualified and blx, netizens may have some ways to correct them? Violence? Yes

Therefore, the most important thing, of course, is that parents themselves should be aware of this, and parents themselves should have a moral bottom line in order to better educate their children. Some parents have no quality and become a habit, so naturally they teach their children this wrong way of life and the habit of dealing with others.

Are there really such parents for children who can't choose their own birth environment? Bad luck? Yes Coupled with some wrong behaviors of unqualified parents, a child's life may be delayed like this.

Educating children is not just talk. Parents must always pay attention to their words and deeds, and also pay attention to the adverse effects that people around them may bring to their children. Because for children who are still in the growth stage, the surrounding environment has a great influence on them. If the people around you have no quality, the children will follow suit.

In fact, some parents should feel uncivilized embarrassment, but because of their age, they chose to ignore the advice of outsiders. But think about it, the child is still young, and there are many possibilities in the future. If you change a child who could have become excellent into your character just because of his own shortcomings, how innocent is this child?

Therefore, we hope that every parent can reflect on whether they have some shortcomings and problems that will lead to the deterioration of their children and take the initiative to correct them. Don't wait until one day, after you find these problems in your children, then push them? Genetic genes? . The May Day holiday is coming soon. We hope the old trees will blossom, but we don't want to see them again. Open? Out of Xiong Haizi and parents bear!