Is it unreliable to rent a boyfriend or girlfriend to go home for the New Year?

No.

A craze for renting out men and women has begun again on the Internet. Some marriageable people, especially older singles, have to plan to rent out men and women to take home in order to cope with their parents or relatives and friends. It is understood that the rental fee on the market ranges from 500 yuan to 2,000 yuan. If you require voice calls or viewing photos, you need to pay first.

To be honest, it was really embarrassing for them. They worked so hard just to avoid urging marriage and make their parents happy for a moment. So the question is, is it reliable to rent a boyfriend or girlfriend back home?

In fact, the risk of taking someone home without any feelings and understanding of the other person’s character is very high. It is recommended that the majority of marriageable or older singles should be cautious when renting boyfriends and girlfriends to take home. Let’s not talk about dangerous things. More importantly, such behavior is deceiving parents, and I personally do not support it.

I remember last year a good colleague had the experience of renting his girlfriend home. He was also in his thirties, and was forced by his family, so he had no choice but to make this move. He roughly told me the general situation, and I will share it with you below.

He posted a post on a blind date forum, the content of which was roughly the following: I want my temporary girlfriend to go home for the New Year, and I want to negotiate the rental fee. Not long after the post was posted, there were private messages from girls applying for the job. When he received the message, he was really happy, thinking that he no longer had to be forced to get married.

So, he carefully added the girl’s WeChat account and started chatting slowly. He took the initiative to mention the rental fee to the girl. He said: "I went back with him for three days, and the rental fee was 200 yuan per day. He paid for all food, accommodation, and travel. She stayed in a hotel. She didn't own any of the red envelopes given by her parents. She didn't require any physical contact except holding hands."< /p>

After hearing what he said, the girl felt that it was quite reasonable. She wasn’t going home to celebrate the New Year anyway, so it was good to treat it as a trip. In the end, she readily agreed to my colleague’s request.

Before the Spring Festival, the two made a private appointment to confirm the situation and check their IDs. If there were no problems, they could go home as soon as the time was up.

Well, on New Year’s Eve, he drove back in a private car, took his fake girlfriend, and packed all the bags, and ran all the way home. He was so happy that he couldn’t express his feelings in words!

As soon as he got home, his parents saw his girlfriend and laughed from ear to ear. He could see that his parents were really happy for him, but he felt extremely guilty in his heart. The girl is also very easy-going, cheerful and enthusiastic, and cooperates seamlessly with him. Her mouth is sweeter than honey, and she calls her aunt and uncle one after another. He was really dumbfounded, and his acting skills were so good. However, this is good, as it avoids embarrassment and loopholes.

His parents really treated her as their future daughter-in-law, and he even began to feel that he was being left out by his parents! He could only console himself that we were all just acting, because girls were not his type.

On the first day of the new year, his parents gave the girl big red envelopes, and it was obvious that she was very happy. Overall, renting a girlfriend home finally made his family happy for a while.

On the second day of junior high school, she dealt with three aunts and six wives. They all liked her very much when they saw her. Everyone joked: "It's finally time for your wedding, so hurry up and serve the wine."

This made him anxious. It's really uncomfortable to deceive others. Fortunately, the girl was relatively stable and was not discovered. But after all, I still feel that I have deceived so many people who love him.

In a blink of an eye, the three-day deadline came and the two people returned to the city where they worked. The girl didn't take what happened in the past three days seriously, and then said goodbye with a smile, and went their separate ways without contacting each other again. But his parents had no idea about this farce and often told him to be nice to girls, take them home to visit them and seize the time to get married.

Later, he could only use all kinds of lies to smooth things over. Half a year later, he told his parents: "After the two of us got to know each other, it was inappropriate for us to break up." Both parents expressed their confusion as to why such a good girl was so inappropriate. Woolen cloth? When I asked him why, he couldn't tell me anything. He knew that his willfulness had disappointed and saddened his parents again.

Now it is the Spring Festival again, and he still has not found the right person to marry, but he will not rent his girlfriend home again and hurt his parents' hearts again. After he experienced it, he found that it was only a temporary solution, not a long-term solution to help him get out of singleness or make his parents feel at ease.

So, I personally think that during the Spring Festival, everyone should not rent a boyfriend or girlfriend home to celebrate the New Year in order to avoid being forced to get married. In fact, it is a rare reunion once a year, so we should really go back and visit them. Everyone should learn to think like this, how happy it is to have so many people caring about your marriage, so that you won't feel distressed.

So, how should singles of the right age or older face the urge to get married? Let’s take a look at the following tips!

01 Sincerely tell them that you will work hard to find a partner

When faced with family pressure to get married, you must listen carefully to their opinions and have a correct attitude, so that they will also treat you Increase trust and stop pushing too hard.

02 Tell your parents that you have grown up

Parents often urge you to get married because they think you have not grown up yet, are not sensible, and do not know that marriage is an important thing. Keep urging. So you have to tell them seriously: "Mom and dad, don't worry about me. I can solve all your life-long problems and will bring you a wife back soon."

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Finally, I hope everyone will be cautious when renting men and women go home, and don’t hurt the parents who love you most just for a while. The New Year is coming soon. I hope everyone can think about things and get out of bed as soon as possible. one.