Why do couples need to travel once before getting married to know whether they are suitable for each other?

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Perhaps many friends have heard of "pre-marriage travel" In this matter, we also believe that traveling before marriage is necessary.

So why do couples need to go on a trip before getting married to know whether they are suitable for each other?

There is a term in Japan called "Narita breakup" because in Japan, many newlyweds or couples After we got off the plane after our honeymoon, we broke up immediately. So many people now believe that the honeymoon should not take place after the wedding, but should travel together first and then decide whether to get married.

Travel is indeed a very useful weapon to test whether two people are suitable for each other. From the various preparations before the trip to the various episodes encountered during the trip, they can reflect the two people's personalities and problem-solving abilities, and verify whether they can tolerate and compromise with each other. If you can still be tolerant and considerate of each other when you are the most tired, and still don't dislike each other when you see the other person at their ugliest, then the two of you should be suitable for living together!

If there are no major conflicts when we are together, we will have more energy to deeply understand each other’s shining points, which to a certain extent can better promote each other’s feelings.

If your relationship needs to get closer to the point of talking about marriage, or you are struggling, facing a choice, and need to consider whether the two of you should still go on, then Mu Xin recommends that you have a relationship Travel. In a strange place, a series of abilities of the other party can be tested. Whether he is worthy of your trust for life, this trip may be able to give you some answers.

1 Travel planning.

We believe that traveling together is a very romantic thing. You can cultivate your relationship and relax at the same time. He is not even willing to travel with you, so , you need to communicate well. If you don’t have money, you can save money and go to places that cost less. But you only have one youth and have a relaxing and beautiful trip. This is what everyone wants.

Before traveling, it is often necessary to plan in advance. Mu Xin feels that at this time, it is a test of the other party’s meticulousness. Whether he has considered your trip thoughtfully, prepared properly, and carried out relevant Search and make a travel plan, so that you don't have to worry about it and you are only responsible for having fun.

2. Living habits

Even if two people have been together for a long time, you still don’t know some of the other person’s living habits. If two people travel together, you will know some of the other person’s past habits. Living habits that I don’t understand. For example, you can't stand the sound of his snoring while sleeping, or whether he arranges his personal belongings randomly. If you really can't stand these details, then when you live together in the future, these will be things you will face for the rest of your life.

I envy the love between my aunt and uncle.

They were graduate students at the same school and traveled to Yunnan together after graduation. In less than two days, my aunt discovered that her uncle was careless and informal in his life:

The T-shirts he changed out of were always thrown around;

He drank half of the Coke without twisting it. The bottle caps were scattered everywhere;

The suitcase also seemed to have been swept away, making it "turning upside down".

While scolding him, my aunt folded his clothes one by one, stuffed them neatly into the suitcase, and cleaned up the "mess" he had made.

The relationship between each other is heated up and strengthened through such details. Every time the aunt is careful and thoughtful, the weight of love is added to the uncle's heart.

My aunt’s diet is light, while my uncle’s food is spicy and spicy, but he is willing to accompany my aunt to eat clear soup with little water;

My aunt is afraid of heights and doesn’t like to climb mountains, so my uncle will accompany her. Tour the lake, go shopping, and buy all kinds of things she likes;

My aunt is weak, so my uncle puts all the luggage on his shoulders and watches her jumping like a child with a doting look on his face.

During the trip, although they found that there were too many differences in each other's living habits, these differences did not create conflicts and disputes between the two. Instead, they made them understand each other better, understand each other, and cherish each other. .

After that trip, the two naturally entered the palace of marriage. In their married life, there are naturally all kinds of minor frictions, but these are harmless.

Because mutual understanding and tolerance are the best lubricants for relationships.

3. Travel mood

When two people travel, they may not understand the language with the locals, have difficulty communicating, or may encounter bumpy long distances, acclimatization, and various unexpected situations. The situation will catch you off guard. At this time, if he can deal with it actively, not worry about unpleasant things, have a cold face, and take good care of your body and emotions, then the teacher thinks this person is really good.

Going to a strange place, while testing the relationship between two people, you can see the other person's ability to treat others, deal with problems, and take care of others. Take advantage of the one-month journey to get to know each other well. If you can get along happily, then the teacher hopes that you can get married as soon as possible.

You have seen the sea of ??clouds and the sunset together, shouted together on the top of the mountain, swayed in the boat together, listened to the stories of other tourists together, and been in a daze together in the cafe... the feelings that will be recalled repeatedly in the tranquility in the future. , is a beautiful lyric poem.

Traveling alone is a curiosity, traveling with two people is a legend, and a trip is like living a whole life.

If you go through thousands of mountains and rivers, and after watching the passing of time, you still regard the other person as your only one and never leave, then you will definitely support each other and share the same boat in the journey of marriage. ***Economy.