Bear travels around the world-curing every child who loses something he loves.

"What should I do if my child's beloved things are lost?"

This is a problem worthy of attention.

After all, most people know that "losing" may start with losing a toy.

The answer to the question, I recommend the lost &; The Chinese version of The Adventures of Caramel Bear in Love Series is translated as:

This book was selected as a wonderful book by the French Fifth Art Bookstore on 20 17- 10.

Its unique thinking and perfect form can guide children to look at "loss" positively and find that the original loss can be as beautiful as having it.

"caramel bear travels around the world", a long name, like caramel's long journey.

The protagonist Carmel originally lived in the south of France. Deeply loved by young master Emily. However, during a trip, caramel fell into the forest and was discovered by Lucas.

Lucas likes caramel, too, and takes it with him everywhere. Who would have thought that when they visited Paris together, caramel was forgotten under the Eiffel Tower.

The new journey has begun again. Caramel meets one master after another.

Everyone loves caramel in his own way, and in distraction or haste, caramel's trip around the world has been promoted. So, where is the end of the caramel tour?

Children's world is small, and a toy can fill their hearts. Once it's lost, it's a big deal, and it's hard to estimate how long it will take to recover.

Zhihu shared a warm story on @ Chen Qin. My daughter lost her beloved doll in Disney, and my father bought the same one, and did the old treatment with his wife. He found the staff in the lost and found office of Disney and asked them to help him and return the little doll to his daughter. ...

I think it is very difficult for most parents to do this. When a child loses something he loves, many people's first reaction is that they don't want the child to be sad, and they may be a little panicked. When comforting children, they don't express their feelings and avoid importance. When they looked back afterwards, they didn't know what they had said. Others will think, do you want to buy another one for your child? I have a vague feeling that this is not appropriate. So many people go online to find answers, and there are various explanations, but not many are really useful.

Why is everyone so embarrassed? Because we forget that we used to be a child. As long as people who have had similar experiences know that their beloved things are lost, there is no way to buy another one. Even if it is brand-new, it can't replace the original. To lose what we love, what we need is not a "substitute", but something that can soothe our sadness and regret. This thing can't be embodied, but it is also a spiritual level and a guide.

What should I do? I think I should read a book. Adults can read some methodologies, and children should read some stories. "The caramel bear travels around the world" is a typical story. After losing caramel, Emily burst into tears like all the children, but the author did not rush to comfort the little master, but shifted his focus to caramel and arranged a trip around the world for him. Caramel has experienced six owners from southern France to Nagasaki, Japan, and then to the African grassland. Obviously, it is separation again and again, but it is full of hope. You even secretly expect and guess the next stop of caramel. Because, the author told this story too gently and sincerely.

Just pick two sentences from the book:

In the author's speech, as an adult, I can't help but believe that the toys I lost as a child will have the same journey as caramel. As a result, the sadness and regret that have been lost have become blessings and hopes.

Of course, in the process of reading, smart children will not only be comforted, but also open their inner horizons: in the face of loss, they will not be trapped in emotions, but think as outsiders, so that the moment of loss will bring them more growth than sadness. This is what many people have to learn all their lives. After all, life may lose more than just a toy.

In addition, at the end of the story, the author also designed a silent ending, which pushed the whole story to a climax and gave the children who were losing or had lost a thought. There is a suspense here.