What should primary school students do if their blind date is rejected?

What if primary school students are rejected?

Sister Zhang, I hope you can give me some advice. I'm worried now!

I work in a substation. A month ago, someone I knew in the surrounding village introduced me to an object. She is a teacher, teaching in a township central primary school. I was in 87 and she was in 86.

When I contacted, I found that I was still a primary school classmate. After that, we contacted each other by cell phone. Personally, I feel that everyone is chatting happily, at least half an hour every day.

After the summer vacation, she said that she would travel with her best friend. Before the trip, I asked her to come to my house to play. She seems a little embarrassed. Later, I thought I'd go to her place to play. The matchmaker introduced at this time was very kind and made me feel embarrassed, so I didn't go. The matchmaker sent a message to both of us, and the other party intended to solve the matter. My family agrees, but her family opposes. She feels that everyone meets too little, and needs to strengthen understanding. I hope the water will keep flowing. At that time, she joked that I was not her boyfriend yet!

However, when she came back from a trip, I often called her every day, but I couldn't get through for several days. She didn't reply to a text message until very late. I think the situation is different, so just tell her I'm going to her house! At this time, she sent me a message saying that a man she used to date blocked her around her house and had been in contact with him these days.

I was very indignant when I heard that. I immediately said that I wanted to talk to the man face to face, but she wouldn't tell me the man's information. She also said that she had made it clear to me that I was not her boyfriend. I really felt desperate for a moment, so I insisted on telling her and wishing them happiness.

As a result, she immediately sent a text message explaining that she didn't really like that man, just because she met his parents these days, so she wanted to keep in touch with him. They didn't even hold hands. I was very emotional at that time, so she refused to come to my house before I asked her. As a result, I met the man's parents a few days later and refuted her. She didn't reply.

I stayed up all night that night. I called her again the next night 12 later. Her mother got a call. She told me that her daughter actually felt very ordinary about me at first. I'm completely discouraged. At noon on the third day, I called her to be completely separated. As a result, she said that mom was wrong. At first, I thought she was ordinary. Contact for a long time, she feels good about me. It was because I didn't take the initiative in her summer vacation that such a strange thing happened.

After listening to her words, I felt strongly unwilling. Would it be much better if I took the initiative? How about I text her and say I'm chasing her again? She said let nature take its course. I thought there was still a chance, and then I tried to force her to dump that man, but she wouldn't. To get to know that person better. A few days later, I was in a hurry, so I simply found her mother and asked what was going on.

Her mother told me that the contact between her daughter and that man really happened these days, and that man came to see her. I told her in detail about my contact with her daughter during this time, and she asked me to give her daughter some time to think about it.

I told her that I was looking for her mother, and she made it very clear to me that she knew I really liked her, but these days she made it very clear that she just wanted to keep in touch with that man. We broke up again in a rage.

My mother said that she was probably angry with me on purpose, and later raised my hopes, so I contacted her again. But now she won't answer my phone or return my text messages. I think it's over. In order to do any irrational harassment in the future, I simply deleted her contact number from my mobile phone.

Sister Zhang, I don't understand. Why is this happening?

I have been working for a first-class builder recently. I can't rest assured until this matter is solved. I can't let go. I have been insomnia for three days.

My answer is:

She refused you, mainly because you didn't take the initiative on the day of the blind date, and the girl had to send it home. It's not enough to chat every day. We have to meet two or three times a week. After all, this is just the beginning. I stopped your classmate shamelessly on the way. If your classmate doesn't like him at all, he won't go to see the other parent, and they begin to cultivate feelings.

Her mother told you that she didn't lie to you because she thought you were average. She told you again, but she actually felt good about you afterwards. That's the rhythm of making your spare tire. She never said that you were her boyfriend, because you didn't meet her mate selection requirements, or you weren't active enough.

Generally, if you don't contact each other for two days, even if you break up automatically, it's like two years of different rooms and automatic divorce. How many days did you not contact her, which led to Cheng's intervention? If it's more than two days, then you should be interfered. After all, that's how women see things. She thinks you should put everything down before you get married. What face and dignity, work, parents, everything is the biggest for girls. If you don't contact on the grounds of busy work, you will be miserable. There is no job that you need to do for 48 hours. There's always a minute or two to squeeze in. Busy is an excuse.

You have to negotiate with Cheng. You are ridiculous. In what capacity are you going? You're just one of the people she dated and turned down. This is not a duel. Whoever wins will go, but she met the man who took the initiative to like her. In the eyes of women, he loves her more than you do, that's all. Why not meet your parents, but meet his parents, that is, she doesn't like you.

It's even funnier if you have to ask her mother, who can't decide which man for her daughter? It is even more impossible for a mother to influence her daughter to marry you, and you have not made her mother think that you are very suitable to be their son-in-law.

When girls say let nature take its course, they don't give you the opportunity to pursue it, but they don't want to say it too hard. Naturally, if she breaks up with Cheng, she will be single, and you will become excellent, so you may have a chance to be a spare tire. You don't know your identity. You think she can consider you. You don't have a stable position yet, so you want to be a real boyfriend and run on the man she likes at present. A little too fast. Your story shows that a man only has the desire to conquer the woman he lost. When people give you a chance to contact you every day, you can not take the initiative in the summer vacation. To pursue again, it is better to go on a blind date and then fuck another woman, so don't make the same mistake again. This classmate's psychological resistance to you is already very serious. It's okay if you don't answer the phone and it's not dark.

If I were this girl, I would reject you directly. I call you for half an hour every day, and there are still a few days in between. I can't feel that you like me. Like a person, eager to meet, have endless words, not half an hour.

I hate it when someone directly contacts my parents and asks me about my attitude towards you. It's no use using my parents to pressure me. I have my own opinion.

When you say to this girl, let's break up. The girl really wants to tell you, have we ever been in love? Have we ever dated? Thank you very much for not bothering me.

You have an interesting personality, and the kindness of the matchmaker makes you embarrassed to go, but you still have the face to force the girl to terminate the relationship with others, and you still have the face to contact the other mother to discuss it. Don't cherish the opportunity when you have it. If you lose it, you want it back. That girl doesn't belong to you. Don't worry. It's like a duck flying before it is cooked.

Remember to ask every day when you fall in love next time, wife, what are you doing? Honey, I miss you. Honey, I'll pick you up. Honey, what do you want to eat? Your wife and grandmother are with you. ...

Anyway, good women marry shameless men. If you want to hit your face, you can slap yourself. The meaner a man is, the cuter he is. Learn slowly. If you really like a woman, no matter how far away or how busy you are, it is no reason not to contact or meet. True love is being together. No matter how hard it is, she won't feel that you love her. Naturally, you are out.

Besides, you don't love her, you just don't want to. Give up, love can't stop contacting. If she loves you, she will take the initiative to contact you, and they will never lose news of each other.