A mother who likes to play with her children

I was only 23 when I became a mother. At that time, I was too young, and there was still a girl living in my heart. I don't know the concept of being a mother.

At that time, we lived in the suburbs with beautiful scenery. Not far in front of us is a reservoir with picturesque seasons. We were woken up by birds in the morning. The day before I gave birth to my daughter, I was still picking water and watering vegetables in the vegetable garden, which was completely ignored.

When I was pregnant in October, my stomach was as big as a gong and drum, and there was no movement by the due date. In the afternoon, my stomach ached faintly, so my husband rushed me to the hospital. When I arrived at the hospital, I calmed down and stayed in the hospital for a few days. I grabbed my husband and asked him to accompany me to the nearby park. I didn't give birth to my daughter until after midnight.

It's hard to remember the pain. The doctor stopped in front of me with his daughter in his arms. The baby opened his eyes slightly and his head was big. I fell in love with this little guy at first sight, and she has been the most important person in my life ever since. At that time, my mother-in-law helped to take care of the children. She helped her daughter to wear a clean little cotton-padded jacket given by others, saying it was good for the child's skin.

Therefore, my daughter's childhood impression is that she has sparse yellow hair on her head and likes the image of a small village girl with a high braid and a dark blue cotton-padded jacket.

As my daughter grew up, my love for playing became obvious, and I often took my daughter running around to play. Every Sunday when I rest at home, I always take her to a beautiful place to play, which is called "being close to nature". My daughter is also very obedient. As soon as I called, she followed me like a fart.

We went to see the river and wild flowers, and our daughter was very happy. When she was six years old, I took her to climb the highest Purple Mountain in the city. Children's newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and even stop to climb and climb to the top. She walked on the steps with short legs, and everyone around her thought the child could really walk!

Close to nature, I like to take her to delicious places. Our mother and daughter chatted while tasting delicious food, and the atmosphere was very pleasant. Because my daughter was born in the second half of the year, I went to kindergarten for another year. We don't think this period of time can be wasted, so let her sign up to learn the violin for ten years.

It is difficult to learn the violin. When I took the exam, I practiced almost all day. My daughter also thought about giving up, and finally I reluctantly persisted. In addition to my husband's frequent shuttle service, I often take her to class. Every time after the exam, in order to reward her, I took her to dinner to celebrate, and then I went home happily with my violin on my back.

My daughter has grown up and is going to primary school. I am a few years older, and I gradually realize that I want to be a qualified mother and educate her. So I borrowed a lot of books on parenting from the library. At that time, my favorite book was Harvard Girl Liu Yiting. The cultivation of children's emotional intelligence in the book has given me a lot of inspiration. I went to the library to listen to several educational lectures. Education experts say that it is necessary to cultivate children's sense of sharing from an early age. We should share good things with everyone, so that children will not be selfish when they grow up.

From then on, my daughter's hard life began. When there is anything delicious at home, I always say, "Give you some." Then my daughter looked at her beloved snacks with injustice, and soon her efforts were swept away. I seldom buy her toys or snacks. I think three meals a day is the most nutritious, so I practice cooking hard and make good food for her. There was a snack bar next to our yard at that time. Every time my daughter is tired and hungry, I give her a bowl of wonton or jiaozi instead of cookies. She enjoys it.

In the second grade, every time I took my daughter out to play, I asked her to keep a diary, even if it was a few words. At that time, my mother-in-law was distressed by her daughter and said, "What diary does such a small child keep?" I said, "No! Habits must be cultivated from an early age, and language expression skills must be trained, which is helpful for learning. " Since then, my daughter has kept a diary, not every day, but at least once a week. For a time, she was more exclusive and wrote a sentence in her notebook: I am a little annoyed today. ...

It's better to write than not to write. After a long time, the advantages of Chinese appear. In primary school, her composition was always well written and often praised by teachers. I prefer reading, and I always consciously hold a book at home. Under my influence, my daughter also likes reading books very much, and her appreciation of natural characters is also strong after reading more books. Therefore, my daughter's Chinese has always been the best in all subjects, and there is no special counseling in junior high school and high school.

After high school, I am nervous about my studies and seldom rest for a week. I don't want my daughter to be so nervous all the time. I want her to relax. So every Saturday night, I accompany my daughter to walk along the scenic spot, usually for at least an hour. Our mother and daughter, like a pair of good friends, walked and talked all the way, saying what they wanted to say to relieve the tension and fatigue in their studies.

During the summer vacation, I took her out to travel and enjoy the beautiful scenery of the motherland. After coming back, my daughter is more devoted to her studies. After a busy college entrance examination, my daughter successfully passed the college entrance examination. During the period, I didn't forget the characteristics of playing, and I went to the city where my daughter went to school for several times.

At first, we sent our daughter to college. We wandered around her campus and invited her out for dinner. After settling down, we turned around and went back. Later, I went to visit classes and stayed in a hotel near her school. After school, she went to the tourist area of the city and invited her to the most distinctive restaurant to taste delicious food. Those days were particularly pleasant. There are beautiful scenery and delicious food. I rode my bike all over the scenic spots, took my daughter for breakfast, lunch and evening, and then went home contentedly.

Later, my daughter successfully took part in the work and liked to go out to play in her spare time. But now I like to go out to play with friends, classmates and colleagues. I'm a little disappointed about this, but think about it. I have been with my daughter for so many years. It would be nice if she grew up and had her own social circle. Give her full freedom!

I go out with my best friend, and of course I go out with my daughter occasionally. After going out, the long-term tacit understanding still exists. We all had a good time. I really hope we can have fun all the time.

I am a playful mother, playing with my daughter with peace of mind and watching her grow from a baby to a slim girl now. Time is still young, so we should go with love in the future.