I went on a trip with my boyfriend who drives a luxury car. I paid for all the expenses. When I came back, I broke up with him. What do you think?

My boyfriend and I were classmates in college. At that time, we both studied the same major, and he was also my classmate. At that time, because we loved playing online games, we often made appointments to go to Internet cafes to play games together. Gradually, After we got acquainted, we started falling in love. At that time, I felt that he was quite talented, and he could write a lot of limericks. He was also very humorous, and he was very good at making girls happy. Being with him was so special. The feeling of relaxation. Not long after graduation, my boyfriend found a relatively good job, and I went to work as a clerk in a small company. At that time, his salary was quite high. Although we were in a relationship, except for eating together, we were separated. Live.

After working for a year, I resigned because I was not satisfied with the job. My boyfriend had a good job and bought a good car. In short, his monthly income was more than 20,000, which is about ten thousand yuan. In the middle of the month, my boyfriend proposed to go on a trip to relax. Since he was going by car, he had already decided where to go. He said he wanted to book a room on the way. I saw him driving so I booked a room by myself. When we arrived at the scenic spot, it was already afternoon. It was around five o'clock and I found the hotel. After checking in, my boyfriend said he was hungry and we went to eat. When we were paying the bill, my boyfriend asked the waiter at the hotel where there was any fun place. I saw him chatting. I didn't have the nerve to ask him to pay, so I took out the card and swiped it myself.

The next day the two of us said we wanted to climb a mountain and get in touch with nature. We were not far from the entrance of the scenic spot. Then our boyfriend at the foot of the scenic spot said he was hungry and wanted to eat something first, a bowl of fried noodles and a bowl of potato chips. At this time, he paid the money in advance. After eating, he went to ask the locals A resident asked if there was a shortcut to go up the mountain nearby, and then the old uncle took us to the scenic spot from the other side. At first, I thought the old uncle was kind enough to take us in, but who knew that it would cost 100 yuan to guide us? And it was really difficult to walk there. The bumpy shoes were covered with mud. In fact, it only cost 200 yuan to enter the scenic spot. My boyfriend actually took me to walk on such a difficult road just to save 100 yuan. I really felt very sad at the time. I was angry. I came out just to have fun. In the next few days, we went to other places to travel. Who knew that I would be responsible for all the food and accommodation? Every time I arrived at the hotel front desk, he would stand aside and talk to me. I chatted with the hotel staff and asked them what fun and delicious food there was. The chat continued until I paid for the room. Every time I paid for the room, he stood and watched me pay without saying a word. I always felt that he took it for granted. of.

Actually, I didn’t feel that I was having much fun at that time. Although there is no need to be so clear-cut between boyfriends and girlfriends, I always felt that it was not good to always ask girls to pay. , and the most expensive thing was filling the car with gas. My boyfriend said he didn’t have any cash, and then asked me to borrow a thousand yuan. I gave it without thinking at the time, and I didn’t have any thoughts for the next few stops. Originally, my salary was less than that of my boyfriend. As a girl, I only buy cosmetics and so on. I have no savings at all. However, my boyfriend, who has a stable income, actually asked me to pay for all the expenses. It can be said that I spent the most on this trip. money. I feel really uncomfortable. When I go out with my boyfriend, it’s like we’re going out with ordinary friends. Even if we’re ordinary friends, they’re all mutually exclusive. It’s not like I’m paying for everything, and it’s someone else’s house. Not only does he pay for everything when his boyfriend goes out, but most of it is paid for by the man.

After a day of playing, we went to the Miao Village. He played very hard. I looked at my pocket and felt cold. Then I booked a B&B. The decoration there was very unique. I had fun. It was almost nine o'clock in the evening, and my boyfriend drove to find a bed and breakfast. It was already midnight. I was also a little motion sick. I vomited all the way in the car. When I got to the room, I was so tired that I fell asleep. My boyfriend didn’t ask me. I originally thought it was because my boyfriend was too playful to take care of others. Who knew he was so inconsiderate? , the next day I told my boyfriend that I felt unwell and wanted to go back.

After I came back, I broke up with my boyfriend. He was reluctant to break up with me. He came to me several times later and asked me why I broke up with him. But I was really embarrassed to tell the reason for breaking up. I didn’t let him pay back the money he borrowed from me. I learned a truth from this trip. It depends on whether two people are suitable for each other. It’s actually very simple. Let’s go together. You will know it when you travel, because traveling is the fastest and most direct way to see a person clearly. After a long journey and a long journey, the other person still didn't get tired of each other, didn't quarrel, didn't feel disappointed, and only then did the two have the possibility to live together.