I want to travel behind my wife and lover's back. What should I do?

Just play with your lover once in a while. It is wrong to travel behind your wife's back. It doesn't matter if a man has a lover outside, but he must keep a low profile. Unless he meets and makes love, it doesn't matter if he meets less. It is presumptuous of you to travel abroad. There is no need to take such a big risk. Give your lover some money and let him go out by himself. Once you come out, you will feel too worthless.