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Love is true, good and beautiful (4)

They agreed to go to the scenic spot to relax, but Xiao Qiji was reluctant to go to the appointment again. For the sake of her parents, especially her mother, she tried her best to bring them together. Her mother can be in front of Xiao Qi all day long, praising what a good person Cheng Yi is, good-looking, having a career and making money, being sensible, mature and steady...

Cheng Yi saw Xiao Qi's heartbeat Speeding up, he knew this was what love felt like. For every date, he would carefully choose and match his clothes, then style himself and go out happily.

When Xiao Qi saw Cheng Yi smile and pass by, she knew that this was a perfunctory matter. She was not interested in every meeting, so she just put on light makeup and looked casual.

The two of them sat in the car, silent and embarrassed. While driving, Cheng Yi secretly glanced at Xiao Qi from time to time and took the initiative to chat with Xiao Qi about daily life, interests and hobbies. The two of them talked to each other and seemed to be getting along happily, but in fact they were just saying polite words.

The boss will give you two bowls of three fresh noodles, one bowl is slightly spicy and the other is medium spicy! Xiaoqi has various flavors, no matter how spicy it is, you won’t enjoy it. The two of them finished their breakfast and continued driving to a nearby tourist area. At this time, Xiaoqi's good friend sent a message on WeChat to complain, saying that he met a strange person on a blind date and had a virginity complex. Hahaha, Xiao Qi laughed unkindly, and Cheng Yi, who was sitting aside, said, "What makes you so happy? Share it with me."

While Xiaoqi was replying to WeChat to enlighten her good friends, she was a little embarrassed to tell Cheng Yi. After all, this was a sensitive topic. Oh my god, there are people for everyone these days. A good friend of mine was on a blind date. The two of us talked for more than ten days and felt good. Later, the boy said that he had a virginity complex. My friend has been trying to explain things to no avail, and now he's asking me to help find a solution. What follows is a conversation between Cheng Yi and Xiao Qi.

Cheng Yi: How old is this boy? Are you a virgin?

Xiaoqi; I am 34 years old and a virgin. I wonder if he has sexual function problems or is a eunuch.

Cheng Yi; Hahaha, you are so funny. How do you say it? Some people are particularly concerned about such things. Maybe this boy has never been in love.

Xiaoqi: I have known this good friend for several years. She is definitely a good girl. Besides, when adults fall in love in a serious way, it is natural and true when the love is deep. If two people are really suitable, there is no need to care so much about the past.

Cheng Yi: That’s true. In today’s society, falling in love and living together is too normal. It can only be said that this boy’s thinking has not kept up with the times.

Xiaoqi: Yes, his thinking is probably stuck in 1958, before reform and opening up. People like him are suitable to go to nursing homes and be single for the rest of their lives.

Cheng Yi; Hey, this guy wants to find a virgin, and it looks like he’s going to make a reservation at a kindergarten. Otherwise it will be too difficult unless he figures it out and can accept the reality.

Xiaoqi: I personally think that girls must know how to cherish their bodies. Don't be dazzled by love and give all your love easily. For example, my friend is encountering a strange girl now, and some people think she is not a first-hand person.

Cheng Yi; As you said, love is natural and true when it comes to the depths. If a couple has a good relationship, they will do everything for each other.

Xiaoqi: Yes, you will give everything to truly love someone. Of course, you have to get along with them for at least half a year before you know whether you love them or not, and whether they are worth it.

Cheng Yi: Sometimes we are rational, and sometimes we are emotional. People who are in love are more likely to let their feelings heat up. This varies from person to person and there is no set time.

Xiaoqi: It depends on the person. Some people can be inseparable as soon as they fall in love, and some people may not necessarily live together after being together for a year and a half.

Cheng Yi: Nowadays, most people try love before marriage to see the other person’s living habits and other aspects of their character.

Xiaoqi: As long as a girl is clean and self-respecting, she is still a good girl even if she has lived with her ex-boyfriend before.

Cheng Yi: Yes, unless it is a woman who is so unruly and has a chaotic private life that men cannot accept. Normally falling in love and living together, these are actually nothing to make a fuss about.

Xiaoqi; Well, it seems you don’t have a virginity complex hahaha

Cheng Yi; I don’t, I don’t mind what happened in the past, as long as you fall in love with me and don’t cheat Just don't be ambiguous with other men.

Xiaoqi: You are open-minded. In fact, I used to be particularly concerned about the other person’s past, and felt that some things were unfair to me.

Cheng Yi; What is unfair?

Xiao Qi: For example, my ex-boyfriend was my first love. I met him when I was 22 years old, and we started a ignorant love. He had several ex-girlfriends and was not a virgin either. I think it's unfair. Do you understand what I mean?

Cheng Yi: Of course I understand that you are an innocent girl, but he is not. And you think first love is beautiful, but he has had several love experiences.

Xiao Qi: Yes, I used to have random thoughts. My love came a bit late, I didn’t meet my first love until I was 22 years old. I have only been in love once so far.

Cheng Yi: There must be many people pursuing you. You are beautiful and have a good personality. Everyone loves it when it blooms!

Xiaoqi: Hahaha, you are kidding me. There were several suitors, but I rejected them all.

I don't like to be sloppy in relationships, and I don't want to waste other people's time. Some people refused, and nothing happened, which was good for everyone.

Cheng Yi; It’s you who is dedicated to your relationship and responsible for your ex-boyfriend. First love should be unforgettable.

Xiaoqi: Yes, yes, to tell you the truth, my ex-boyfriend and I are in love. We have been together for almost three years. We occasionally argue but never say we broke up. We can’t help our parents. I don’t agree with marrying far away.

Cheng Yi; I have had your experience too. I have been in more relationships than you. I was very shy when I first fell in love in college. It was my senior sister who pursued me. We were together for more than a year, and we broke up during her graduation ceremony. days. Later, when I started working, I met a girl from Hunan who was a dance teacher. We were together for two years, but we broke up due to personality differences due to a distant marriage.

Xiaoqi: My ex-boyfriend and I fell in love more and more, but we had no choice but to break up. Marrying far away is a big gamble. Sometimes I don't dare to abandon my parents and risk my life for love. Maybe I don't love you enough now and don't talk about these sad things.

Cheng Yi; This person is here. I can accompany you out of your last relationship and let time heal your wounds.

Xiao Qi: Thank you for your kindness. What do you like about me?

Cheng Yi: To be honest, I am a sentimental person just like you. Ever since I broke up with my second ex, I have been very sad and heartbroken for a while, and I just have to force myself to come out. Time slowly healed me, especially when I met you, I felt my heart beating for the first time. I like your bright smile, your sweet appearance, and your personality.

Xiao Qi: Thank you for your like, I may disappoint you. I can't forget my ex-boyfriend, even though I know it's impossible for me to be with him anymore.

Cheng Yi; It doesn’t matter, I can wait for you. This time I will not give up, I will pursue you, I believe in my own vision. It's not that you don't like me, it's that you don't really understand me.

Xiao Qi; Maybe, just let everything take its course...

Cheng Yi: Beautiful girl, you have to be careful, I will pursue you shamelessly and take you out of the previous period Let's enter into the next love that belongs to us, and enjoy happiness forever.

The two chatted endlessly from day to night.