Why do you say that traveling with your boyfriend is the time to see your boyfriend's true character?

? Travel in real life always tests the lovers;

For young couples who have never experienced the life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, the question of "whether the toilet lid should be turned up or put down" in daily life can easily be amplified as "whether your worldview matches mine" during travel.

1, about the travel division of labor between couples, some people think that the most ideal division of labor is that boys carry boxes and girls wash clothes. At that time, traveling was more than just washing clothes and moving boxes. Therefore, the ideal solution is that both sides should have a clear positioning of themselves. One is the shopkeeper and the other is an idiot. For foodies and road idiots, just open your mouth when eating and shut up when giving directions.

Travel is a big test of living habits.

At ordinary times, they may just have different cold and hot constitutions, and they will quarrel several times for air conditioning. However, during the journey, the speed of travel, whether the hotel shampoo should be used or not, and whether the dirty clothes should be washed or taken home on the same day have all risen to a philosophical height.

3. Travel will magnify shortcomings.

Because it takes 24 hours to stay together, everyone's shortcomings and advantages will be exposed at this time. At this time, any little thing in life may become the fuse of your quarrel. In the process, you begin to wonder, is this person really the one I brought out the other day?

4. Travel also tests emotional intelligence.

The plane is late, the restaurant is full of potholes, the mountain road is full of dangers, and swimming burns, which especially tests a person's emotional intelligence during the trip. When many unexpected situations happen, some people can easily start Monday morning quarterback. At this time, if your other half can calmly and orderly face all kinds of unexpected situations and difficulties, rather than blindly Monday morning quarterback and blame, and can lead everyone out of the bad situation, then he must be a responsible and reliable person in life.

? 5. Consumption habits

Usually, it is difficult to spend money every minute like traveling, so consumption habits are an important factor to test travelers. Do you want to take a bus or a taxi? Youth travel or express hotel? Should I eat at a roadside stall or go out? At this time, we will be surprised to find that people are subdivided into many groups by their respective consumption habits, and whether you can write a partner who will live together in the future is also a very important determinant.

? 6. World outlook or aesthetics

? Seeing the big from the small means that the difference between a scenic spot controller with a big brochure in his heart and a person who likes to sit in a local specialty cafe and drink coffee may be fundamental. It is also difficult for a person who likes outdoor projects and a person who likes to watch the stars in hot springs to live together, because everyone has different definitions of the beauty of life. For example, you are ecstatic to buy a pair of earrings that can make your face smaller and sharper and full of personality in a foreign night market, but your male ticket tells you that these earrings can really be worn in daily life?

Travel can not only let us see the world and ourselves, but also help us understand our partners. Whether each other is suitable for a lifetime, we will find the answer on the journey.

It is strongly recommended to travel together before marriage! ! !

We just went out to travel on May Day. He arranged everything, and I was labeled as an idiot, so I listened to whatever he said, let me get on the bus, and I changed lanes when I changed lanes.

Food, clothing, housing and transportation are the most challenging things for people. Because he is used to getting up early the next day, he will get up and wash the clothes he changed the night before, and then wake me up patiently (I am in bed with terminal cancer). This really tests people's patience. If it were me, I might start cursing. If he eats, he will fully respect my opinion and basically focus on local characteristics, but he will remember what I eat and what I don't eat. Yes, he will make a reservation in advance. Ok, the traffic is basically correct. Some scenic spots are temporarily closed for maintenance, which is unexpected, but they can be changed to nearby scenic spots soon.

When going out to play, Sun insisted on carrying his bag. Even though his back was soaked with sweat, he didn't give it to me until I insisted on it again and again, but it won't be long before he asked me to return it, and I will insist on letting his clothes dry before lifting it. His back is covered with sweat, and he easily catches a cold. I will massage his back when I get back to my place at night.

Respect and understand each other on the road and think from each other's point of view. Don't feel like a woman, you can do whatever you want, and you must let the other side make way for yourself.

See people's hearts for a long time, and see people's character in deeds.

For boys, it is easy to resist sexual impulses when hugging their girlfriends for the first time. Love rat can't wait in bed. Even boys with good conduct will have sexual impulses, because you are attracted to the opposite sex, that is, sexual impulses.

Boyfriend's behavior in bed is the first test for girls. You can test it carefully, but you should respect your girlfriend's wishes. If a boy behaves too casually, his girlfriend will think that this is a love rat who has read many books, and even goes out to travel just to cheat Pao.

The second test is spending money. Girls will habitually want to know whether this man is willing to spend money for himself. Most women will think that men are willing to spend money for her because they love her, even if she has enough financial ability to pay the bill. Generally, the ideal consumption mode is a rich boyfriend and a small girlfriend.

In addition, this is also a test of the boyfriend's economic strength from the side. The two people who just got together don't know the ins and outs of each other. Questions involving money are not easy to ask directly, but can only be tested through consumption.

The third test is the boyfriend's ability to handle affairs. Traveling, buying tickets, finding restaurants, finding roads, and finding hotels are easy to be slaughtered if you are not careful, so you need to be fully prepared before you leave. If you are not prepared, the journey will inevitably be not smooth, and even lead to quarrels. Traveling is an interesting thing. If you suddenly get lost on the road or get caught in a storm, you are really in a big mood. If you can't travel, your relationship will fail!

A trip can really tell a person's character. Tell me about a man who was chasing my best friend. During the May Day holiday this year, my best friend asked me to go to Xiamen temporarily and said that the person who chased her would accompany me. Then I agreed in a bad mood, and then she bought me a plane ticket. I took a bus to her city in the evening, and she told me that she had already refunded her plane ticket because the man said that their plane ticket had never been issued (my best friend called the man 2500 before going to play and asked him to help me buy the plane ticket, and the round-trip plane ticket was only 1500). Finally, in the evening, I found that the man had not been buying a plane ticket and had been fighting for it.

Then he said not to go to Xiamen, but to Beihai, and that man drove us there. At nine o'clock the next morning, the man called to ask when we were leaving, and we said it was ok now. Then we waited for the man from nine o'clock until noon, and he didn't answer the news or return. At this time, he was very angry and didn't want to go, but at 12: 30, the man contacted us and said he could go, so we went anyway. He didn't answer the phone for several hours because he suddenly received a job and wanted to finish it quickly and take us out to play, so he didn't answer the phone. Think about it, shouldn't you send us a message first when you suddenly look for a job? Therefore, this man is already very unreliable in terms of integrity.

Sure enough, if many things don't go well at first, don't do them right away. We had an accident on the way to Beihai, and then we spent 12 thousand yuan on towing and maintenance. The man said he had no money, so my girlfriend let him go first. The man said he would give it to my girlfriend at the end of the month and said he owed me 10 thousand yuan. Then we went to play, and we didn't mention many things in the middle. They are not happy anyway. Then at the end of the month, the man didn't return my best friend and disappeared. Finally, the three girls share the cost themselves. My girlfriend bought a plane ticket for a man before, but he didn't pay back the 2500 yuan. Anyway, he went out to play with a man for nothing. After the accident, he borrowed 1000 yuan from my girlfriend, saying that he would give it with the ten thousand yuan at the end of the month. Good thing I didn't give it to him. It's terrible to think about such a man now.

It's also time to learn a lesson, because before going out to play, the man's performance was quite good. Help my girlfriends open the sewer and change the faucet for cleaning. Anyway, I don't see any problem, but I think it's quite reliable. It's really time to go out and see your character.

Traveling once and eating once can witness the character of the man and the woman. There are many scenes in the whole journey: ① whether you have a humble attitude when getting on and off the bus, whether you know how to take care of the weak, whether you know how to take care of your feelings in the car, whether you strictly abide by the safety management regulations on the plane, whether you are curious and whether you touch the safety facilities at will; 2 shopping, whether to live within our means, whether to have a unique vision, whether to be generous, whether to consider the other family when buying tourist souvenirs; (3) In terms of diet, whether you only eat what you like without considering, whether you take care of each other's tastes, whether you are mainly vegetarian, whether you are kind to animals, whether you are rude to waiters loudly, whether you put food waste neatly, whether you speak loudly with your mouth full, whether you consume napkins excessively, and whether you order food reasonably; (4) sightseeing, whether to abide by the order, whether to respect the work of cleaning staff, whether to understand historical allusions; ⑤ When staying in a hotel, do you know basic etiquette, keep quiet, keep clean sewage stains when using sanitary ware, whether the man urinates everywhere, whether the garbage generated is littered, whether the bedding is arranged the next day, whether the personal belongings are stored in an orderly way, what kind of programs you like to watch, whether the programs consider each other's preferences, whether the air conditioner considers each other's feelings, whether it is ventilated in the morning, whether it is exquisite to sleep in pajamas, whether it is sleepwalking, and whether it is frequent to get up at night. 6 For the man, is he in a hurry to have sex with the woman, and the woman disagrees with whether to respect her choice, etc. ⑦ If you are tired and hungry during the journey, can you not be impatient, take care of each other, give them to each other first when food is scarce, show enough sympathy once you are injured, know how to compose and match photos, what kind of interests you have, travel in a civilized way, don't scribble, and don't climb historical sites; (8) Whether two people communicate honestly in the process of traveling, and judge each other's knowledge, cultivation, family education and moral character through communication; 9 Whether the clothes changed during the tour are cleaned in time, whether underwear and socks are cleaned daily, whether they are wrapped in plastic bags when they are too late to clean, whether effective measures are taken for those with heavy body odor, such as using antiperspirant lotion, perfume lotion, frequent bathing, etc., and whether the smelly socks are thrown away or cleaned by the other party when returning to the hotel after the tour; Attending whether driving on the road is quarrelsome or not, and whether it is rational to deal with bumps. From the above ten points, you can basically understand a person in an all-round way, regardless of gender!

Tell a true story of my best friend. She broke up with her boyfriend when she came back from a trip. You can see that your character is true when you travel. I suggest that every couple who want to get married should go free before marriage.

The best friend talked with her boyfriend for more than a year, and her parents met and were about to get engaged. When they came back from their trip, they parted noisily. I can't help wondering, what happened to my best friend?

My best friend firmly said that they had different views, and then said a lot of "accidents" in travel. She gave several examples:

So when he came back from the trip, his girlfriend felt that his character was not good and his three views were inconsistent. They are not fit to get married. Is that so?

In fact, tourism is just a small microcosm of life. Judge a person's character not by what he does in prosperity, but by what he doesn't do in adversity. A trip, some people give surprises, some people give fright. So, when traveling, from what aspects can we gain insight into personality?

First, do you know how to control your emotions on the road? At this time, everyone is very tired and anxious when they encounter problems. They have no extra energy and physical strength to disguise and restrain themselves, and it is easy to show their true character.

Is he trying to find a solution in the crisis? Or are you angry and complaining about yourself and the environment? Is it fun in pain, regardless of accidents? Or do you feel hurt and sulk all the way?

It seems that these are common trifles in travel. Can you tell me something about the personality and attitude towards life reflected by these emotions?

Imagine that a person who is prone to anger and swearing when he encounters something unsatisfactory during his trip will know how to tolerate you on the long road of marriage; A person who sulks alone and doesn't know how to take care of your feelings when he encounters unexpected injuries will know how to think from your standpoint in his later life.

Therefore, a person who knows how to control his emotions, is calm, organized and solves the problem of unpleasant journey is a top partner. Even if he has no money, at least in the future, you won't suffer indignities with him.

Second, do you know how to take care of your feelings properly? Like my best friend, two people travel together, the boyfriend is not spicy and unhappy, and the best friend eats lightly. If her boyfriend lets her choose food, her best friend will choose one that suits her taste this time and one that suits her boyfriend's taste next time. For another example, two people, one likes a comfortable hotel, the other likes a youth tour that is close to the people, and finally choose an apartment-style homestay. Is it comfortable and close to the people?

Everyone is an independent individual, and it is normal to have different ways of thinking and living habits. At this time, how to balance these small conflicts can be said to be the touchstone of their relationship. I want to ask, during the trip, can a person who only cares about his own happiness and ignores your feelings still expect to take care of his family after marriage?

Third, whether there is a sense of responsibility and planning in consumption.

Some people say that money is a mirror of human nature. You know, a person who knows how to spend money for you doesn't necessarily love you, but a person who doesn't know how to spend money will have problems more or less.

Of course, I think girls in love can't always ask each other to pay for their bags, but can take the initiative to bear a small part of the expenses. After all, whether it is love or marriage, it is not a person's business. Do everything according to your ability, even if you pay less, it is at least an attitude. Boyfriends will also feel warm.

However, a boyfriend who always wants to be AA with you, or a boyfriend who cares about the ratio of gains and losses, is likely to have conflicts on the concept of money in your later life. If you find it during your trip, you can examine whether this relationship is what you want.

Let's talk openly. As for whether to stop loss in time or continue to get along, the decision is up to you.

Fourth, are there any opinions and plans on the itinerary? The person who made the itinerary became the object of complaint, and you said you were angry. Most of these complaining boys have no definite opinions and no expected plans for travel. If you live together, you should be prepared to be a "nanny" and not fall behind. Girl, it is very likely that you are not marrying a man, but a "giant baby to be fed".

Therefore, traveling with my boyfriend can not only conform to my personality, but also "predict the future marriage in advance" Through a short trip, I magnified a person's strengths, weaknesses and bad habits, and also reflected the trend of a relationship. Finally, I hope we can see the truth during the trip, have fun and chat happily!

I just went out for a trip with a male ticket. Actually, I am a travel expert, but this is the first time we have gone out together, so I left the general direction to him. Although I have been to that place many times, no one has spent money and there is no aa, so I paid for it conveniently. Generally speaking, he spends a lot, and our economies are both good. At least the travel expenses are not a burden for us. Accommodation, discussion, a lot of times I will follow him, because I really don't care about that, and he doesn't care about that, so whatever. During the trip, we took care of each other. He felt sorry for me, but he was too tired. I will still persuade him to let me drive. I drive longer than he does. We lived together all the way, covering each other with quilts at night, pouring water for each other and taking care of each other's feelings. Generally speaking, it was pleasant, and we didn't find anything unpleasant. So, we are quite suitable, right?

When I was in college, I fell in love with my boyfriend and went to Phoenix, Hunan. It is also the first trip in our respective lives that we say we will leave. We have never had the experience of two people going to a strange city alone like this, and the test came with anxiety.

It was already dark when I arrived in Phoenix on the first day, so I had to drag my luggage to find it because I didn't book the inn in advance. In the middle of the night, two people went to the inn one by one. I was a little upset and wrote it on my face.

Boyfriend is not angry. He just walked silently, looking for the inn. When I complain, I am quiet, like a child who has done something wrong. My anger subsided when I found a place to live. Looking at the street lights and beautiful scenery of Fenghuang ancient city, I feel comfortable and regret losing my temper.

The next day, I began to visit the ancient city of Fenghuang. Qingshiban Road, the water of the ancient city and the city walls with a sense of time are all dazzling. The two of us are getting along better and better. We walked across the stone bridge on the river, took a group photo together, and walked into the shallow water area of the ancient city to feel cool, like two children who simply returned to nature, facing each other with their truest selves.

On the third day, when I went to see the waterfall, there were many people in a long line. We had an argument again. My boyfriend said he would take a picture of me, but he was not satisfied with the picture of continuous shooting. He asked me to do some actions, and I did it several times, so I got a little angry. I felt that he accused me in a public place where people came and went, and his expression was stiff, so I got angry and ignored him without talking.

Two people walked in silence. 10 minutes later, he approached me and explained to me: I just want to take more beautiful photos for me. Maybe my tone is not very good, and I don't blame. Let me not be angry. I happened to meet another scenic spot, and he silently helped me to take a good position and let me take pictures. My anger naturally subsided.

On the last day of leaving Phoenix, we all felt very sad and really happy to go out to play. Although we have also seen some weaknesses of both sides, such as laziness, ignorance of the road, occasional tantrums, inability to plan, and understanding the difference between "poor travel" and "rich", all these crises have resolved us, and what remains in our hearts is beautiful until we got married for five years today.

The advantage of traveling with your boyfriend is to know him better and be more sure of how much you love him. You can observe him from these aspects:

1. Love needs respect. See if he respects you, respects your suggestions and wishes in terms of itinerary, funds, accommodation, etc., and does not force you to do things you don't like or do inappropriate things.

2. Know how to take care of girls. Whether there is discomfort during the trip, including psychological and physical aspects, depends on whether he is careful and knows how to take care of people.

Who will bear the travel expenses? On the issue of funds, can he take the initiative to bear, even if you are going to AA with him, but on the cost, he should not haggle with his girlfriend, otherwise he will look like a chicken thief, and the boys who play with his girlfriend will not be able to get it.

If there are contradictions and differences during the journey, does he take the initiative to make peace instead of turning around and leaving? When traveling, the most taboo thing is to turn around and leave the girl alone on the road when she is angry. This is a very irresponsible performance. It can also be said that he doesn't love you enough, otherwise he won't abandon you.

Maybe he is all right, but during the trip, you found that you have different views. When I grow up, I find that there are too many difficulties to overcome in the combination of two people. First of all, your living habits, consumption concepts, values and family values are different. If you want to live together, you must converge your abilities and understand each other, so that you can be harmonious and happy. On the way to travel, you may find something you can't stand. Maybe you just don't fit in.

After couples travel together, some go their separate ways on the way, and some enter marriage sweetly. Both love and marriage temper people, and "walking together" is an opportunity to "test" each other. Travel will completely relax people, take off the mask in life, and let you see the truest him, the most complete him, and the unknown other side of him.

Last year, I went to Shenzhen on business with my boyfriend and played around. This is our first time to go out to play.

He doesn't have any travel plans. It was not until he arrived in Shenzhen that he began to think about where to play. At that time, I thought it was not worthwhile not to visit around here. He wanted to go to Zhuhai, but he didn't agree. He thinks Zhuhai is similar, and there is nothing wrong, so I am still very.

Then I went to a seaside in Shenzhen and forgot my name. It is said that you can still see Hong Kong.

We were ready to live by the sea that day. I have never slept in a tent, so I decided to live in a tent. I just came to my physiological period, so I can only watch his waves on the beach. I was very angry.

A sunny day suddenly changed in the middle of the night. It rained cats and dogs in the middle of the night. Rain hit the tent hard, and some water seeped in with sand. The sound of the waves outside is wave after wave. I was so scared. What should I do in case of a tsunami? Forgive me for being an ignorant inland. . . The most terrible thing is that the wind is particularly strong, and I feel that the tent will be blown away and the rain will follow. It's a nightmare to think about it. .

At this time, the aura of the male ticket finally came out. He blocked the tuyere with his own body and covered other air leakage places with his hands and feet. I looked at his back and fell asleep very touched. Haha, later he asked me why I could sleep in this situation. Forgive me for being so sleepy. .

For his pity, forgive him! Ps: Never sleep in a tent by the sea! !

Unfamiliar environment can expose human nature best.

A friend met her boyfriend on a blind date. At first, I thought my boyfriend was humorous, and they had endless words, so they got together. Later, during the National Day holiday, the two discussed and traveled to Chongqing.

During this trip, my friend found that her boyfriend is a very impatient and complaining person. There are really many people during the National Day holiday. Chongqing is originally a small place, and the roads are all detours. Every time I can't find a place to eat, I find many people waiting in line. Every time at this time, my boyfriend is losing his temper, always complaining about why he wants to travel on National Day, or why he must eat this family's food. The friend endured and kept coaxing him, but the more he coaxed his boyfriend, the more he pushed his luck. I keep losing my temper as long as I have a little trouble.

Originally, they booked a hotel for six days, but their friends endured until the fourth day. They left the room early and booked tickets to go home. The moment I left high-speed railway station, my friend calmly said goodbye to my boyfriend.

Later, my friend said that in fact, when we dated before, we found that he was impatient. For example, if she tries on clothes in a shop for a long time, looks pale or is late, he will complain. But friends are very gentle, and I always feel that my boyfriend may be a little impatient. I didn't expect a trip to show my friend clearly that he was not impatient, but really bad-tempered. Two people are in the same situation, and my friend thinks that he will not be like him anyway, but he has been losing his temper, complaining and saying nothing. After careful consideration, my friend found it really hard to tolerate him. So let's break up.

Unfamiliar environment, especially crowded and noisy tourist attractions, can really inspire evil in human nature and expose a person's original hidden character. If you have seen him at his worst, I am glad to find that he is still in your expectation. If you can't stand it, it's good to be apart.