101-year-old grandma Feng Linxiu started traveling at the age of 91. Why did this grandma do this?

Grandma feels that she is getting older, so she tries to see and play as much as possible every time she goes out, because she doesn’t know when she will be able to come next time. Why does grandma’s behavior attract so much attention?

The reason why grandma’s behavior attracted so much attention is because she subverted people’s perceptions.

In people’s perception, the elderly either stay at home and take care of their children, or they are still working to earn living expenses when they are older, or they are sitting in a nursing home basking in the sun. In short, there are thousands of living conditions for the elderly, but none of them include traveling. So when this grandma is still traveling at the age of 101, she has surpassed the imagination of the general public. Just like there was an aunt who left her family behind and went on a self-driving trip. She got so much attention because she didn't conform to people's perceptions. How should the elderly arrange their elderly life?

In fact, what is more worthy of discussion behind this incident is how the elderly should arrange their lives. The elderly have been making contributions in the first half of their lives. When they reach retirement age, or even older, can they just wait quietly for the end of their lives? I don't think so.

Take the aunt who traveled by car as an example. She completed her worldly responsibilities and obligations, and when she was relatively free, she dared to leave her past behind and start a new life. During this journey, she may encounter a lot of criticism, but she is more at peace with her past self. Not only was he much happier, but his mental outlook was also different. Although she will eventually return to her home, her entire life will be different because of this journey.

What about other old people? They also have dreams and want to leave their own land and see the outside world. But because of the fetters in real life, they can only immerse themselves in life and forget about their distant dreams. Therefore, when children accompany the elderly on their final journey of life, they might as well ask the elderly what they want to do, instead of arranging the elderly's life according to their own ideas as a matter of course.

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