Reflections on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness

"Just Right Happiness" puts forward "happiness" as a positive outlook on life, and leads readers through a long night with words as warm as candlelight. Let me share with you my views on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness. Welcome to read!

After reading Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness, 1 Her rich life experience is a long and unforgettable story. When I was young, I worked as a military doctor in Yili, Xinjiang, and later as a psychologist. I started writing literature slowly, and then traveled around the world. She was praised as "angels in white of Literature" by Wang Meng. She is Bi Shumin.

Like her, like her happiness.

I can't forget that sentence: if we talk deeply, we will talk shallowly, and we will walk slowly on the long road.

She is such a person who experiences life, feels her heart and interprets happiness and life in words. Doctor, counselor, writer, these titles, I don't want to call her. I should be the leader of happiness and help you build a map of happiness.

I have bought her book "Just the Right Happiness", but I thought it must be a book of chicken soup for the soul, so I put it on the shelf.

When I pick it up now, it is covered with dust, but the faint green cover and the quiet and warm picture of the country yard still attracted me in an instant and made me want to read it.

So, read it all at once.

It was from this moment that she broke my prejudice against such books. People who originally wrote happy books also had their own moments of helplessness and sadness. Only those who have a profound experience of life and feel the smallness of human beings and the vastness of heaven and earth can take you to knock on the knocker of happiness and uncover the password of happiness.

Why do I trust her so much?

I think this is her writing style, that kind of calm writing style, but it can make your mind magnificent. The simple and sincere prose language tells a person's unforgettable understanding of life and eternal love for life. Even though some words seem to pour out pessimism, embarrassment and sadness, the words in people's hearts are the flash of wisdom and humanity.

Many words in the book can be recalled repeatedly in your mind. When you read it, you will get enlightenment and full understanding.

I like the sentence at the bottom of the book best: Let us always have the courage to be independent. It is neither too warm nor too hot. I will extricate myself from my memory and spread hope in every inch of time.

Reflections on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness (II) On the topic of "happiness", CCTV once made a question "Are you happy?" It has aroused widespread concern in society. A migrant worker replied: "I work in a foreign country, don't ask me." But when the reporter asked "Are you happy" again, his answer was "My surname is Zeng". With the accelerated pace of work and life, rising prices, difficulties in buying a house and seeing a doctor, people often feel "under great pressure", and the feeling of happiness seems to be far away from us. In contrast, British newspapers have collected "Who is the happiest person" awards from the society. The results show that the first type of happiest people are mothers who have just bathed their children and held their babies; The second is a doctor who cured the patient and watched the patient leave the hospital; The third kind is children who pile sand on the beach. This example reminds us that happiness can be seen everywhere as long as we look carefully. It has no uniform standard and is not directly proportional to wealth, status and reputation.

Bi Shumin said that people who are not easily influenced by happiness often have "unreasonable expectations" about things. If you see a good house, imagine that you can get married and have children in this house; When you see a luxury sports car, you imagine that you can drive it at high speed; Seeing other people's wives, I think my future partner must be in love with the country; Seeing others live to be 90 years old, they are eager to catch up with 100 years old ... if they don't, they won't be happy. In fact, expectations are not as high as possible, and expectations need to be "just right". The house doesn't need to be big, just enough; The main function of a car is a means of transportation, not a medal showing financial resources; The other half doesn't have to be gorgeous, but they have the same values and the same language, which is the fairy companion; You don't have to pursue perfection for health. There are small arrows up or down on the physical examination form, which can be corrected in real time. The height of life lies not in its length, but in its fullness and depth. When we have nothing, we can say that I am happy because we still have a healthy body. When we no longer enjoy health, brave people can still smile and say, "I am very happy because I still have a healthy heart."

Bi Shumin said that happiness is often hazy, vigorous happiness is not common, and most happiness always comes to us quietly. We should always remind ourselves of happiness and say to ourselves, "Please remember this moment", and happiness will accompany us for a long time.

Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness is a book with a little philosophy. This book tells us that happiness is a person's inner wealth, not measured by the amount of material, but by the effort; The feeling of sharing and love. Just right, it is the combination of here and art, which represents openness and calmness, and is the corridor in front of happiness. Walk slowly through it and you can knock on the door of happiness. This book also tells us that we must be sincere and not hypocritical; We should cherish our own touch, and cherish our own touch is to cherish our own life; Be true, don't pretend to be B, because if you are true, everyone will be safe. It also tells us that all human activities are three inevitable relationships: the first is man and nature; The second is man and self; The third is people and others. I also understand that loneliness is a precious attribute of wild animals, showing a unique self-confidence and courage; Knowing that it is very important for us to face our fellow travelers and our descendants; Happiness is often hazy and simple, not vigorous; Suffering, like happiness, is divided into many levels, like a long step; I also understand that there are three things in the world that cannot be thrifty: the first thing is to study, the second thing is to travel, and the third thing is to exercise. These three things must not be frugal. I also know that gentleness is sometimes more powerful than rudeness; It is not easy to communicate between people; The tension is not strong, but a cowardly old trench coat painted with camouflage; Appreciate being loved in love, and there will be double gains; When a person can't accept himself and get along with himself, he can't get along with others. When people are resting, don't let go of fleeting pain easily. ...

The truth in this book is far more than that. Smart students look in books!

Reflections on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness 4 I recently read Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness. The reading cycle of this book is very long, because it takes a long time to think and digest after reading a section, and "just the right happiness" is not so easy to feel and find.

The content of the book is not full of talk, chicken soup, or condescending preaching, but tells every story in a plain and delicate tone. From the author's own experience and feeling, when reading, the mind seems to be comforted and calm. Like Spring Breeze and Rain, the author talks about the profound problems of life and happiness, which naturally makes us think about the meaning of life and feel the true meaning of happiness.

After reading this book, I am deeply touched. We are busy with life, running around to make a living, and our happiness seems to be getting weaker and weaker. We are used to seeing tall buildings and dazzling things, and our hearts are full of material and impetuous, and the moments of getting to know each other are getting less and less. There have been countless times when I wanted to escape from the city and go to the deep mountains and forests. It seems that there really is a magical power to purify the soul in the depths of Shan Ye, but actually it is only a short-lived escape from the world. Back to the normal life track, everything is back to the original. So what we really need to change is the attitude towards life, get rid of the shackles of life, know how to reconcile with ourselves, talk to the soul, reconstruct and define the understanding of happiness. Reading each chapter carefully will refresh my view of things and admire the author's attitude towards life. Like "be honest with yourself". We seem to have two selves. We always want to behave better than our actual situation. According to secular standards, there are always more and more. We always present our unreal self to others, while the real self is always hidden and covered up. Over time, we will become a divided person, suppress our emotions and hide our true thoughts. Actually very tired. If you think you are not perfect, make yourself perfect. Instead of perfunctory, cover-up, cheating, it is better not to waste energy to repair an unreal self, save more energy to do more things, and maybe get twice the result with half the effort. And "patience in the face of uncertainty." We are always worried about some uncertain things, such as rising house prices, whether we can afford it, such as more and more work, whether we can finish it within the prescribed time limit, such as whether the child is so naughty, whether he will have a bright future, etc ... We will always add some troubles to ourselves involuntarily, so why waste our energy on some uncertain things, as the author said, "I'm not sure when I will die, but I'm sure I'm alive." Uncertainty is temporary and certainty is long-term.

Happiness is mostly simple, it is not vigorous, it is a long stream of water. The perception of happiness needs us to learn slowly. There are many hardships in life, and it is always easy for us to remember the feeling of pain. We always say that happiness is hard to come by, because it seems to come slowly and go quickly. In fact, we don't know how to perceive happiness and enjoy it. Happiness needs to be experienced slowly with a peaceful heart. It is the abundance of the mind, not measured by quantity. This is a feeling of giving, sharing and love. People live in different environments, but when fate depends on each other, it is bittersweet. As long as they are calm, look down on gains and losses, actively explore the beautiful side of life, do not compare with others, and are not upset, they believe that the feeling of happiness will follow.

Bi Shumin has always liked Bi Shumin's writing style, which is simple and profound. Perhaps her experience has shaped her writing style.

She is also a medical student, just like us. Reading Bi Shumin is not as good as reading just the right happiness. There are many of her works in this book, all of which are so profound and philosophical. She likes to talk about happiness, sincerity, kindness and calmness, and also criticizes some falsehood, evil and ugliness. I like such a writer.

Back to the happiness mentioned in the book, happiness is a kind of spiritual abundance, not measured by the amount of material, but the feeling of giving, sharing and loving. Just right, it is the crystallization of philosophy and art, it represents openness and indifference, and it is the corridor in front of happiness. Walking through it, you can knock on the door of happiness.

Happiness was once a social topic, and the great discussion about happiness once caused quite a social sensation. Everyone is busy running around, slowly destroying in order to survive, and have long forgotten the feeling of happiness. "My surname is Zeng" is not a farce, but a tragedy. In the definition of ordinary people, the standard of happiness is often tickets, houses, cars and seats, but the happiness we really need in our hearts has been forgotten. Our souls are no longer rich and even a little tired, so many people start to drink chicken soup. But chicken soup for the soul has no nutrition and will bring you a short-lived feeling. Why is it short-lived? Because in this era of fragmented reading, our brain capacity can no longer leave room for them, and the messy things around us have occupied too much ideological space. People's energy is only 4, that is, you can only do four things at the same time at most, not 4K, 4G or 4M, but 4. We'd better do one thing wholeheartedly, which is the most efficient and effective.

Since chicken soup can't save our hearts, it's time to remind happiness. Happiness is very bad and naughty. Don't say hello when you come, it's very frustrating when you leave. So when happiness comes, we should remind it.

When we have nothing, we can also say: "I am happy because we have a healthy body"; When our bodies are no longer healthy, the bravest people can still smile and say, "I am happy because we have a healthy heart"; Even when our hearts don't exist, the best molecules of mankind can say, "I am happy because I have lived." Happiness needs to be reminded, and it will be more cherished if it is reminded.

That's why I want to recommend Bi Shumin's prose to you. Her writing makes people unconsciously quiet down. It is not easy to understand her work. Wash away impetuousness, calm down and think, calm down and study, and then gradually become a quiet person.

Of course, there are also discussions about suffering and the meaning of life in this book. The road of life will not be smooth sailing. Reading a good book is to communicate with the wise and touch the heart, which may bring strength, inspiration, good luck or a little warmth to our progress. More or less, we feel that in this impetuous world, it is difficult for us to settle down and study. Maybe you can try. On a quiet weekend, picking up Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness and feeling everyone's thoughts and souls will make you less impetuous. Of course, this is my humble opinion. Whether it is really useful or not requires "clinical observation".

Reflections on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness Chapter VI Reading is an art of self-improvement. "Jade is not cut, it is not a tool." Reading is a learning process. A book has a story, a story tells a life, and a life reflects a world. "Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road" is exactly the truth.

I want to use a magic book that hits the soul directly to sum up my overall feelings about the book Just Right Happiness, and I have a feeling of love and admiration for the author Bi Shumin. Although I like some writers, I prefer Bi Shumin. She showed readers profound problems such as exploring life and happiness with delicate and plain language, and infected readers' feelings of saving the world like spring breeze. Compared with the atmosphere of splashing ink, I prefer the softness of moistening things and the touch of the soul. Bi Shumin's own working experience in the snowfield in northern Tibet made her experience the greatest suffering that life can give, and at the same time, she was exposed to the vast mountains and the vast starry sky, thus feeling the smallness of life. It is this life experience that makes her see life and happiness so thoroughly. The words flowing from her pen tip, like a clear stream, slowly flow into people's hearts, and are worthy of being praised as "angels in white in the literary world" by readers.

After reading her book, I have many ideas. I think that even though we may not experience the fragility and insignificance of life sometimes, we must know the value of life and cherish it. Happiness in life can be obtained, not wanted. The more you deliberately pursue happiness, happiness will die in your palm like quicksand. In fact, happiness is a state of mind. When you are optimistic, you can feel more happiness. But when you are pessimistic and disappointed, happiness will quietly leave you. So when you are happy, you should cherish it and never add desire, otherwise it will be counterproductive. When you feel unhappy, you should be optimistic, because sometimes you will lose the mulberry in the east corner. Just the right happiness is the highest level of happiness. The road of life is so long, we should treat happiness well and cherish it!

Happiness, these two words make me have countless associations. How can happiness be called happiness? What is happiness? Bi Shumin told us this truth and answered our questions. Everyone needs happiness, but just right. We don't lack happiness in life. Sometimes there is too much happiness.

The book "Just Right Happiness" is a truth that Bi Shumin told us. He once said: "Happiness is a kind of spiritual abundance, not measured by the amount of material things, but a feeling of giving, sharing and loving. Just right, it is the crystallization of philosophy and art, it represents openness and indifference, and it is the corridor in front of happiness. Go forward, and you can knock on the knocker of happiness. " And I think happiness should be just right to be true happiness. The book also wrote: "The alcohol concentration should not be too high. After that optimal value, the result will be counterproductive. Happiness is the same, don't be insatiable. "

Just the right happiness, as long as you put your heart into it, can still be seen in peacetime, just like ordinary things. If it's deeper, say it briefly. We walked slowly on a long road. There is already happiness in it!

We should learn to face ourselves sincerely, otherwise how to accept that happiness.

Someone asked, how many colors does happiness have? Bi Shumin said there are countless kinds, countless. Others say there are only seven kinds. But I prefer the former statement. Different people feel that the color of happiness is not necessarily the same when facing happiness. There are so many people in the world that it is impossible to feel that happiness has only seven colors.

Some people just misunderstand the meaning of the word "just right". Because I happened to see a nice house, I fantasized that I could get married and have children in this house in the future. When you see a luxury car, you fantasize that you can drive a luxury car. When I knew that the birthday boy would live to be 90 years old, I vowed that I would live to be 100 years old ... which is simply unreasonable expectation. If you set your sights too high, you will violate the principle of "just right".

We don't need to aim high, just do what we can. It was a great success. Isn't this the happiness we want? It just needs us to be moderate.

Happiness, in my eyes, is to live a life that you want but not too much. Just don't be greedy.

Just walk through this unusual corridor and you have reached the door of happiness. You can tap on the knocker of happiness and get the happiness you dream of.

Reading Bi Shumin's "Just the Right Happiness" changed my outlook on happiness. I am not as demanding as before.

Only the right happiness can be called happiness. Know how to cherish happiness and don't let it slip away from us.

Reflections on Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness 7 Bi Shumin is the vice chairman of the Chinese Writers Association and holds a master's degree in Peking University. His position in China can be imagined.

Her writing is fresh and elegant, concise without losing charm. Like daisies swaying in the spring breeze, the balcony is fresh and small, the Yue Hui is shallow, and daisies are scattered. Like a lotus fairy in bud on a hot summer day, it is graceful, clean, but not muddy, clear and not demon. Like autumn wind and red leaves, silver candle and Qiu Guang drew a cold screen, and a small fan fanned against fireflies. Like wintersweet in winter, a white jade tree with cold wintersweet belongs to Lincun Road and Xiqiao. The snow in Mei Xu Xun is three points white, but the snow has lost a kind of plum fragrance.

Her words are like coffee to be tasted slowly, which makes people intoxicated and unable to extricate themselves for a long time. All her words are true, but intangible and invisible things are priceless. She taught us how to love and be loved. If a person never lies, it is the most ridiculous lie and joke in the world. She told us a lot, and I admire Bi Shumin's writing.

Her writing style has the beauty of Ding Limei, the philosophy of Liang Heng, the heroism that Xin Qiji can only use lanolin soft pen instead of sword, and the elegance and boldness of Li Bai, but it is unique. Her words are petite but as fragrant as osmanthus flowers, making it difficult to find them.

After reading Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness, I read many books in my summer vacation, among which Just Right Happiness is the one that impressed me the most.

Just Right Happiness is one of the series of Wen Run Happiness of Bi Shumin's collected works. Most famous books have a brief introduction to the author, and I know it is a good book after reading it.

When I first saw it, I was fascinated by Bi Shumin's wisdom. The articles in the book explain or tell one philosophy after another in the form of their own experiences, stories or questions and answers, which has benefited me a lot.

The second time I saw it, I was fascinated by Bi Shumin's wisdom again. I found that the articles in the book are not just the philosophy of life I thought at first, but all the articles are centered around a theme-happiness. For example, it is obvious that the first two books of the book are just right happiness and the seven colors of happiness; There is also the article "Research Sincerity", as stated in the article, "Sincerity is hierarchical and can be divided into constructive and destructive". If each of us contributes more and more to this less beautiful world, isn't this happiness? Still the article "Be Honest to Yourself", if we can pretend in front of others, others are real in our eyes, isn't that still happiness? ...

When I read it for the third time, I began to think: happiness should be just right, and what else should be just right? Suddenly thought of a dream. Dreams should be just right to provide people with motivation to move forward. Dreams are out of reach or within reach, the former will lose motivation and the latter will become lazy. I remember when I was a child, my teacher asked me what my dream was, and I always replied: to be a scientist. At this time, the teacher will give me a little red flower, but when I grow up and mature, I find that this dream is so far away from me that I begin to lose my enthusiasm and motivation. This is because my friend asked me to make some small dreams on the road of being a scientist. These dreams should be just right. I tried and succeeded. Therefore, our dreams should be just right, so that we can March forward bravely on the road of dreams.

Dream is a beautiful and desirable word, and just the right dream will lead us to grow.

After reading Bi Shumin's Just Right Happiness, I liked prose very much at school. The first book I came into contact with was a collection of essays by teacher Bi Shumin. It was very green at that time, and I felt very comfortable looking at those beautiful words. So I recite every morning reading, which is more serious than reciting the text. As long as I meet a good clip, I will record it in the manuscript. Whenever I enjoy a manuscript, I am very happy. I often copy Bi Shumin's articles in the self-study class. I have been working for many years now. At that time, the habit of going to school was gone, but I still couldn't put it down when I saw her prose collection.

When I saw the title of Just Right Happiness, I was attracted by it. Since adults have to struggle on their own, all kinds of pressures follow. Running between home and company for a living every day, I feel very tired and always feel that life is so hard. I kept repeating that I was going back and forth on the road. It seems that I have forgotten the beauty of life and am not moved by happiness. I work in a hurry day after day and work hard after work. Life seems to be a process. When I opened this book, I suddenly found my long-lost joy and inner peace. The feeling and love I had before have penetrated into my bone marrow and integrated into my life.

This book is a soul reading full of warm power. Even if there are ten million houses and there is no bed to sleep at night, even if there are ten thousand acres of fertile land, you only need three meals a day after all. Happiness is a kind of spiritual abundance, not measured by the amount of material, but the feeling of giving, sharing and loving. Just right, it is the crystallization of philosophy and art, it represents openness and indifference, and it is the corridor in front of happiness. Walking through it, you can knock on the door of happiness. There is a saying in Buddhism that "there is no obstacle or fear". You might as well borrow it. People who need less things have less trouble. Because there are few necessities and the restrictions are light. People can walk faster and fly higher.

Teacher Bi Shumin led the readers through the long night with words as warm as candlelight, and put forward "happiness" as a positive life value, teaching you to establish reasonable expectations, learn to face happiness, grasp the scale, find a balance between desire and reality, and gain a fruitful and happy life. Are you happy?

Happiness is a life experience and an interpretation of life. In this troubled and complicated society, we still need to keep our own pure land. Don't constantly embarrass yourself for the material conditions of the garage. Living in comparison and envy every day, life will be eclipsed, and being too hard on yourself will be painful and just right.

Heart without pen and ink, belly with poetry. I like this book very much and set myself a second goal: Bi Shumin's Save the Breast. I hope I can grow up and be more and more calm. Be a faint and fragrant woman.