What should my boyfriend do when he travels with my ex behind my back?

What should my boyfriend do when he travels behind your back with his ex? In this case, you should find your boyfriend and have a showdown with him. If you still can't accept it after hearing him explain everything, then break up. After all, such a thing happened, and no matter how whitewash it, it can't be redeemed, because it has caused serious harm to you.

First of all, your boyfriend did it, not only didn't confess, but also kept it from you. Nine times out of ten, such behavior is in the dark. Maybe he will explain to you "I'm afraid you are angry" and "I'm afraid you disagree" or something. These are all nonsense. Since he knew you would be unhappy and wouldn't agree, he did it without telling you, which shows that he didn't take your feelings seriously. Can such feelings continue?

I just don't tell you when I travel with others. The key is that this other person is not an ordinary person, nor an ordinary friend of the opposite sex, but his predecessor, so the seriousness of the problem will be great. Will that man have no shadow of his predecessor in his heart? After all, his predecessor also accompanied him for a while. There is affection between them, and it may be very strong. Some people say that it is impossible for a man to forget his predecessor, which is not unreasonable.

On the whole, this man not only lied to you, but also lied to you in principle. He lied to another woman he loved, and this woman is also his predecessor, and she is probably obsessed with it. What is more frightening is that he accompanied her to travel. During the trip, the beautiful scenery he saw and the mood he shared were not with you. You don't know what they said or did. It's scary just to think about it. How can he forgive such a thing?

Therefore, the attitude towards this matter is to make it clear before breaking up, unless there is any special reason, such as the ex-husband's terminal illness, and ignore other reasons. Long pain is better than short pain. Once this happens, there will be a second time, and the next time may be gone. It's better to put it down earlier than to make yourself suffer.