Why travel with children? Because the best education is on the road, what do you think?

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I took my two kids out to play last weekend. Many mothers admired the courage of our parents-in-law, because they either left the kids at home or only took care of the older ones, like There are basically no standard features of this kind of "kiddie version".

It is said on the Internet that going out alone is called traveling, and going out with children is called practicing. All I can say is that sacrificing your own "happy time" in order to fulfill your child's "happy time" is not asking for trouble. This is called "true love"!

Some people say that the baby is still young and does not understand anything. It will be forgotten in two years, so there is no need to take it out. In fact, this is just like showing your baby black and white cards, talking to him, and reading picture books to him when he is born. It is a process that continuously stimulates his brain development and increases his knowledge. It is just that one is in the book and the other is on the road. . But many mothers would rather spend tens of thousands of dollars a year on early education for their children than spend thousands to take them on trips.

There are several reasons for this:

1. The child is too young. You can’t remember anything you read, it’s a waste of money and energy, wait until they are older;

2. Afraid that your children will get sick. During the journey, I am afraid that the child will not be acclimated to the local environment, and that the child will get sick if he does not take care of the child properly and does not have enough rest;

3. Afraid of being tired and troublesome. Taking children out is like moving. The adults have to take care of the children. Playing with the children is too tiring and not fun.

It is said that Chinese mothers will give everything for their children. Now I find that this is a very one-sided statement. Many mothers are only willing to spend money, but they are not willing to spend energy and time. Sending the baby to a training class, regardless of whether he or she has learned anything, is that it saves trouble. While the baby is studying hard inside, the old mother can comfortably lean on the sofa outside, blow on the air conditioner, and brush the brush. Isn’t it much easier to hold a mobile phone than play and read with you?

Accompanying your children to grow up is like your own life returning to its original happy time. This is something worthy of our gratitude. Don’t always complain about how tiring it is to take care of children. Change your thinking. You will see a different scenery!

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I once saw a summary about travel online:

Older single women (men) basically travel overseas;

Married people without children basically travel to Britain, the United States and Europe;

Married people with one child travel to the beach for leisure;

Married people with two or more children basically travel It’s watching other people travel in the circle of friends.

This should express the sentiments of many mothers. After having a child, it feels like the whole person is being hollowed out. How can I still think about traveling?

Some time ago, I saw a message from a friend in WeChat Moments: From now on, I will never take my baby out again! This is not tourism, is this killing me?! Then added a lot of crying faces. Did I say that? Her daughter is now in senior class and can take care of herself in basic daily tasks. I said, "You are tall and strong, and you are not like a flower in a greenhouse. How can you be so vulnerable and pretentious!"

Two days later, I saw another travel photo posted by a mother of two in Moments: It lasted 18 days and traveled nearly 10,000 kilometers, passing through Fujian, Jiangxi, Shandong, Beijing, Inner Mongolia, and Hebei. , Jiangsu, Anhui, Jiangxi. It’s tiring, but seeing the old man’s happy smile and the children having fun on the grassland is all worth it! ?With two children, the younger one is just over a year old. This mother looks weak and frail, but she didn’t expect that there is huge potential in her body.

Why are children raised by optimistic and open-minded mothers generally more positive? This is the difference. A family's concept has the absolute most brutal and direct impact on children.

The breadth of a person’s life determines his or her excellence, and the journey from childhood is the starting point for expanding the breadth of life. Travel is also the best and most intuitive way. It not only broadens children's horizons, but also enriches their discovery and understanding of new things.

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A famous photographer once said: The scenery I saw as a child will always stay in my mind. When we face the bifurcation of life as adults, what gives us encouragement and courage may not be what someone has said, but the scenery we have seen. ?

It can be seen that traveling with children is of great significance.

1. Give children the opportunity to explore the world

When children are young, although they may not remember where they have been, this does not affect them at all through the experiences they travel. See what you hear and learn to see the world from a different perspective.

The boss will have countless questions when he goes out. On the road, he will show great interest in new things and study them repeatedly. He will cheer for interesting scenes, sincerely marvel at the dazzling scenes, and be amazed by the big things. The miraculous workmanship of nature expresses curiosity. Every moment of this is the most valuable experience in growing up. How can you say: Children are young and don’t understand anything?

2. Cultivate children’s adaptability

Traveling is actually a good opportunity to exercise children’s adaptability. Go to different places and experience different lives, from unfamiliar environments to unfamiliar people, allowing children to participate more, appreciate different cultural landscapes, and strengthen their adaptability.

On the other hand, the work, rest and diet will be disrupted. If the child can adjust and adapt quickly, he will be able to quickly integrate into the new life in the future, which will be quite helpful for his future life. of.