What is the relationship between siblings?

Sister-brother love refers to a love relationship in which the woman is older and the man is younger. This kind of relationship is not uncommon in real life, but due to the constraints of social concepts and the influence of cultural traditions, it may face many doubts and obstacles. So, what does a sibling relationship look like? Will it be very tiring? Next, we answer these questions through the perspective of a person who has experienced it.

My boyfriend and I have been in love for two years. I am seven years older than him. When we first got together, I was worried that the age gap would become a bottleneck in our relationship, but as we spent more and more time together, I found that these worries were overblown. In fact, the advantages of sibling relationship are also very obvious.

The first is the complementarity in personality. Because I am older than him, I have more experience and knowledge, am more mature and decisive, and can provide him with more help and guidance. He is more lively and cheerful, and can bring me more happiness and relaxation. So we are together, complementing each other, achieving each other, and going further.

The second is support in life. Because I have several more years of work experience than him, I am financially better off. In our relationship, I can give him more support, such as helping him complete his studies and engage in a job he likes. He can take care of the trivial details in my life, such as comforting me about my emotional difficulties, watching movies with me, traveling with me, etc. The two people support each other and face the hardships of life together, which is also the process of each other's growth.

Of course, sibling relationships also have some difficulties and challenges. The first is the shackles of social concepts. Under the influence of traditional Chinese culture, people tend to prefer men to be older than women in marriage relationships. Therefore, the relationship between siblings will still face some strange eyes and doubts. However, as long as we strengthen our feelings and use our own experiences to break these constraints, we will surely be able to win support recognized by society.

Another difficulty is the cognitive gap. In our love relationship, I am more mature than him, and some thoughts and concepts may be more in-depth. This requires the two of us to find a balance in communication and understand each other's thoughts as much as possible. In addition, there may be some physiological differences in age between siblings, which requires us to have more patience and understanding to deal with them.

In short, sister-brother love, like other types of love relationships, needs to be managed and maintained. It can be said that it is both reasonable and reasonable. As long as the relationship between two people is strong enough, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome. As long as we support and understand each other enough, siblings can also have a happy future.