As a mother with a nanny at home, are you tired of raising a baby for two people?

I took my baby to play on the slide yesterday afternoon. While sitting on a chair to rest, I heard a pair of strangers chatting. One was a young mother with a nanny holding her child, and the other was a grandmother who was alone with her two twin grandchildren. They met unexpectedly in the children's play area of ??the community. The young mother was very interested in the twins and struck up a conversation with her grandmother.

The topic at the beginning was that the young mother was curious about whether the twins had different personalities and whether the middle child was more delicate. Later, while chatting, she learned that this old man was the grandmother of the two children, and she began to praise her: You are so awesome. We are already very tired with one child. How tired you are with two children. Grandma also continued to talk. He said: Yes, I am very busy every day.

The young mother asked curiously: Why are you taking care of the child? Where is the child’s grandmother? Grandma said: Grandma is looking after another son's child in her hometown. She has no choice but to take care of one of the two sons. The young mother went on to say: If it were me, I would be reluctant to let my mother take care of my child. Of course, my mother won’t let me take care of the child either. You must be doting on your daughter, so now you have to be responsible for her child. Grandma said: Yes, of course my daughter is favored. At this time, the young mother said disdainfully: If you dote on me, you will have to bear the consequences. I felt a little miserable. I was exhausted from taking care of the child. My grandma nodded repeatedly and said: Yes, yes, yes.

The topic ended here, and the young mother went home. During the whole process, she was never seen holding the child. The nanny was always holding it. After she walked away, the grandma said to the person next to her: The nanny does everything, why should she be tired?

I also had this question after listening to their conversation. The nanny does everything, so how can she still feel tired? As someone who has always taken care of my own children, I have never enjoyed this kind of treatment, so I don’t understand how tiring it is.