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Etiquette is naturally emitted by our inner temperament, respect is the greatest etiquette, and inner beauty is the most powerful charm.

Cheng Congzheng, secretary general of China Image Design Association, believes that etiquette is an applied art. In the initial study, I suggest that you train according to the established methods.

After mastering the method skillfully, you will enter a new realm: the goal of elegance is not to pursue those one-stroke forms, but to achieve a realm of pleasing yourself and others.

The Chinese nation is one of the cradles of human civilization with a long history of 5,000 years. Our etiquette is inherited the essence of the Chinese nation. Paying attention to all aspects of etiquette can show the face of China people, enhance the self-esteem, self-confidence and self-improvement of the Chinese nation, strengthen friendship and exchanges with people all over the world, enhance China's international status and prestige, and carry forward its excellent cultural traditions.

In business or enterprise communication, the individual represents the whole, and the image of the individual represents the image of the enterprise.

Personal words and deeds reflect the overall image and culture of the enterprise.

It can make the team more United and fully reflect the overall image and culture of the enterprise.

You can also improve your self-cultivation and quality, and your manners will be exchanged for others' manners.

The ancients said

Ceremony-(Xunzi) Rude people are not born, rude things are unsuccessful, and rude countries are restless.

There is also a famous saying: no manners, no position.

Etiquette is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, which has a long history since ancient times.

Learn to be a man before you do anything! The Analects of Confucius said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can stand without a way.".

In other words, if you don't learn etiquette, it will be difficult to have a foothold.

So what I recommend to you today is: "If you don't learn manners, you won't stand up".

This is the true religion left by our ancestors. Only by treating people with courtesy can we convince people with reason! "Kong Rong makes pears" —— A familiar story.

Four-year-old Kong Rong is admired by everyone because he knows how to be modest, how to make others happy, and how others' happiness is his greatest happiness.

A highly educated person is also a useless person to society if he doesn't know manners.

Because morality can often fill the defects of wisdom, but wisdom can never fill the defects of morality.

So let's all be polite people.

Appearance-refers to appearance, appearance and manners.

Etiquette is not a form, but a heartfelt sense of respect for others.

Etiquette can win everything without spending a penny, win the friendliness of strangers, the concern of friends and the respect of colleagues.

Etiquette, like the spring breeze, moistens people's hearts, communicates people's emotions, resolves contradictions among people, and makes people pay attention to each other and understand each other.

Etiquette seems to be only a small thing in daily life and work, but it represents a profound moral guidance, which can subtly influence everyone.

Manner is a comprehensive beauty, a perfect beauty, an overall expression of the coordination of all parts of the body, and also includes the harmony between a person's internal quality and appearance characteristics.

Instrument is a person's appearance, which generally includes his appearance, clothes and posture.

Appearance, mainly refers to people's appearance, is an important part of appearance.

Appearance is the external embodiment of a person's mental outlook and inner quality.

A person's appearance is often closely related to his life mood, ideological accomplishment, moral quality and civilization.

dress etiquette

1, wear work clothes to work, don't be too casual, work clothes can enhance our corporate image and personal temperament.

Pay attention to the neatness of the collar and cuffs, and keep the whole fixture stiff.

Pay attention to check whether the buttons are complete, loose, wireless and stained when wearing work clothes.

2. Shoes are a part of work clothes. Wear suits and leather shoes on formal occasions such as work, and be sure to keep your shoes clean and bright.

Don't wear white socks or socks with holes in the upper.

The color of male employees' socks should be coordinated with the color of shoes, and black is usually the most common.

Female employees should wear clothes with similar skin color.

3, to wear a good work permit, wear work clothes to wear a work permit, no matter which specific department employees, should wear a work permit on the left chest.

Men's etiquette

4. Pay attention to the suit dress.

First, it should be matched and decent.

In formal occasions, it is generally required to wear a suit, and it is best to choose dark color, which gives people the impression of being steady and mature.

The collar of the suit should be close to the collar of the shirt, which is 1-2 cm lower than the shirt.

The suit should not be too long or too short. Generally, it is advisable to just cover your hips, and don't show your hips.

The sleeves of a suit should not be too fat. General cuff to wrist 1 cm.

According to traditional customs, when assembling a suit skirt, women need to make the suit shorter to fully reflect the curvy beauty of women's waist and buttocks; If it goes with pants, you can make the coat longer.

Western skirts or trousers, no matter what form, should generally be the same fabric.

When wearing a suit or skirt, it is not advisable to wear floral socks, and the mouth of the socks should not leak outside the pants or skirt.

B. wear a shirt.

Shirt collars should be fashionable, crisp and clean.

White shirts are generally more suitable, and white shirts look steady.

The hem of the shirt is clamped in the pants, and the cuff of the shirt is slightly longer than the cuff of the suit 1-2 cm, so the cuff button should be buckled.

The underwear inside the shirt should be thin, and the collar and cuffs should not be exposed.

C, pay attention to the button button.

Generally, you should button your suit when you stand, and unbutton it when you sit down.

If the suit has two buttons, just button the top button (if there are three buttons, just button the middle button).

When you wear a double-breasted suit, you should button all the buttons.

D, pay attention to the overall coordination

No matter what the occasion, you should not wear bell bottoms or wool socks in your suit.

You must wear leather shoes when you wear a suit, but you can't wear cloth shoes, travel shoes, sandals or sports shoes. It is wise to wear dark socks.

In principle, things should not be put in the pocket outside the coat. Wallets, business card boxes, etc. are best kept in pockets inside your coat. A handkerchief with a harmonious color can be inserted in the left breast pocket outside the coat. Badges should not be used indiscriminately, but should be decorated less.

E. Pay attention to the choice and wearing of ties.

Tie is an important decoration of a suit, and the collocation of a suit with shirts and ties is very particular.

The color matching rules of ties and shirts are: black suit+silver gray, blue or black-red striped tie+light color or white shirt gray suit+brick red, green and yellow tie+white shirt+preferably ivory suit+preferably red tie+gray shirt dark green suit+silver gray, light yellow and red-and-white tie+silver gray or white shirt dark blue suit+blue deep rose.

If you want to use a tie clip, his correct position is the fourth button from top to bottom of a 6-button shirt.

The tie clip should not be too high, especially not intentionally exposed to other people's vision.

5. Note: You must wear a tie when wearing a suit. Cuffs and trouser legs should not be rolled up, and the hem of the shirt should be tucked into the trousers.

Wear leather shoes and dark socks when wearing a suit.

Both men's and women's clothes should adhere to the principle of "underwear is not exposed".

Lady dress etiquette

1. Women's professional clothes are mainly dresses, so dress etiquette started with dresses.

(1) fabric selection

Choose two words for fabric: high quality and pure natural.

Jackets, skirts and vests must be made of the same fabric.

Use fabrics that are wrinkle-free, lint-free and pilling-free, and the fabrics are balanced, smooth, soft, rich, drape and feel good.

(2) Color

Should give priority to with cool color, so as to reflect the wearer's elegance, dignity and stability.

It is also necessary to keep a certain distance from all kinds of "popular colors" that are popular for a while to show its tradition and prudence.

Don't have more than two colors in a dress, or it will look messy.

(3) Size

The change of the overall shape of the dress is mainly manifested in its length and width.

At one time, the dress of business ladies was required that the top should not be too long and the hem should not be too short.

Usually, the jacket in the skirt can reach the waist at the shortest, and the skirt can reach the middle of the calf at the longest.

The skirt hem just reaches the fullness of the wearer's calf, which is the most standard and ideal skirt length.

(4) Dress appropriately

When a professional woman wears a formal dress, all the buttons on her coat must be buttoned.

Don't untie it partially or completely, let alone take off your coat in front of others.

The collar of the coat should be turned over completely, and the cover with the bag should be pulled out to cover the pocket.

Don't put a coat on your body, and don't put it on your body.

The skirt should be upright and aligned up and down.

The hem of the shirt is between the petticoat waist and the skirt waist, and it must not be stuffed into the petticoat waist.

It is generally believed in the world that socks are part of underwear, so they must not be exposed.

In order to avoid this kind of embarrassment, ladies either wear thigh-long stockings or simply * * * socks, but they just can't wear those socks that are half long and not short.

(5) Decoration

It is not advisable to add too much embellishment to the dress.

Generally speaking, dresses decorated with stickers, embroidery, lace, gold thread, colored stripes, chains, sequins, pearls and leather are not suitable for working girl.

When wearing a dress, you can neither wear makeup nor make up.

You are not allowed to wear jewelry related to your personal identity, nor are you allowed to wear earrings, bracelets, anklets and other jewelry that may be too ostentatious.

2. Business attire

Wearing professional clothes is not only a respect for the clients, but also gives the wearers a sense of professional pride and responsibility, which is a concrete manifestation of dedication and happiness in clothing.

The requirements for wearing professional clothes are neat, clean, crisp and generous.

Clean and tidy.

Clothing must fit, sleeves should be wrist-length, pants should be foot-length, and skirts should be knee-length, especially underwear. It is advisable to insert one finger into the collar of the shirt and five fingers into the waist of the trouser skirt.

No sleeves, no pants, no buttons, no buttons; Necks of ties, bow ties, streamers and shirts should be compact and not crooked; If there is a work number plate or signboard, it should be worn directly above the left chest.

Clean.

Clothes and trousers are free of dirt, oil stains and peculiar smell, especially neckline and cuffs.

Stiff.

Clothes and trousers are not wrinkled, they should be ironed before wearing and hung up after wearing, so that the coat is flat and the trousers are straight.

Generous.

Simple and generous style, natural and smooth lines, convenient for later reception service.

appearance etiquette

Cleanliness is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette.

No matter how beautiful clothes and luxurious clothes are, if the whole body is covered with dirt and smell, it will inevitably destroy a person's aesthetic feeling.

Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, wash their faces and feet after going to bed and getting up, brush their teeth in the morning and evening and after meals, wash their hair and bathe frequently, pay attention to neatness and change clothes frequently.

Don't "clean personal hygiene" in front of people.

For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt and so on. These behaviors should be avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others.

When talking with people, keep a certain distance, don't speak too loudly, and don't splash on the population.

Face:

Men should pay attention to keep their faces moist and clean, clean their faces every day, wash their hair and shave, and trim the hair in their nostrils in time.

Pay attention to cleaning the inside and outside of the nose, at least don't let people see the "black and liquid" nostrils.

If you have a runny nose, wipe it with a handkerchief or paper towel in time.

Don't blow your nose, pick your nose, play with it or smear it with your hands in public, and don't try to suck it back naked. This is unhealthy and disgusting.

Be sure to clean it in a deserted place, with handkerchiefs or paper towels as an aid to avoid too much noise. Used paper towels should be consciously put into the trash can.

Usually, we should also pay attention to trimming the nose hair frequently, don't let it "show" outside, and don't pull it out in public.

The secretions in the corners of the eyes should be cleaned up in time and pay attention at any time.

If you have infectious diseases such as pinkeye, you should avoid going out.

You can wear glasses if you have poor eyesight.

Glasses should be scrubbed at any time, and no dust can be left on them.

Make up/make up/make up/make up/make up/configure/make up/make up (a bed)

It is necessary to adapt to the times and adapt to local conditions.

Make-up to achieve "thick makeup is always appropriate", we must pay attention to different times and occasions.

Civil servants should wear elegant work makeup and a little make-up to make them fresh and natural.

Especially during the day, you can't wear heavy makeup.

Too thick foundation and too bright lipstick are not in line with work etiquette, which will also lead to misunderstanding that too much attention is paid to makeup and not to work.

When public servants attend social occasions such as dinners and parties in the evening, they can appropriately use evening dresses and wear fashionable clothes with strong artistry, outstanding colors and styles.

But it should not be too out of line, and it is better to be generous and elegant.

Some young women didn't give it.

Make-up looks simple and natural.

But in formal occasions, it is best to put on some light makeup, especially to participate in some foreign affairs activities, because in foreign countries, it is considered rude and impolite not to wear makeup in formal occasions.

You can't make up or touch up your makeup in public.

You can't put on makeup or touch up makeup in public.

Professional women should not make up or touch up their makeup during working hours or in some public places.

For some women, it is common to touch their eyebrows and draw their lips in front of the mirror whenever they are free from work. This is a rude behavior, which neither respects oneself nor hinders others.

Make-up before going to work or participating in activities, during which make-up needs to be carried out in the bathroom or dressing room, and it is not allowed to perform live in public.

Etiquette and manners

Smile:

It is an international etiquette, which can fully reflect a person's enthusiasm, cultivation and charm.

A really sweet but unprofessional smile is heartfelt and natural.

True and kind.

Keep smiling face to face with each other, be brave to face each other and accept each other's eyes. Smiling should run through the whole process of etiquette.

Eyes:

When talking to people, look at them most of the time. The right eyes are born. You shouldn't look around or stare at each other.

When you say goodbye or shake hands, look the other person in the eye.

Standing posture:

Hold your head high, hold your chin, tuck in your abdomen, lift your hips, and naturally hang your shoulders.

Man: feet apart, slightly narrower than shoulders, hands crossed, placed in front of abdomen or behind body.

Lady: Stand in a V-shape or T-shape with your feet together, and put your hands in front of your abdomen.

Sitting posture:

Sit down gently, occupying two-thirds of the chair, and lean back gently.

Knees naturally close together (male can be slightly divided), head straight, chest out, shoulders clamped, waist upright.

If you sit up for a long time, you can cross your legs and pay attention to recycling your legs.

Posture:

Lady, hold your head up, chest up and abdomen in, swing your hands naturally, walk lightly, and feel like you are pulling up.

Man, steady pace, natural swing arm, full of confidence.

Gestures:

It is a necessary auxiliary means of conversation, and the amplitude and frequency should not be too large. When gesturing to a person or direction, use your palm, not your fingers.

When beckoning someone to come over, use your palm, palm down, never palm up.

General etiquette

Bowing etiquette:

The body bends down at an angle of 30 degrees, there is a line behind the head and neck, and the eyes fall in front of the body 1 m.

Used to greet guests, introduce themselves or exchange business cards.

Open the door:

If you drive outside, knock on the door first, hold the door handle and invite the guests in first.

If you open inward, enter the house by yourself, side the door and invite the guests in.

Elevator:

There is someone in the elevator. Press and hold the "On" button to let the guests get on first and then get off.

When no one is around, press the "On" button first and invite the guests in. When getting off, please let the guests get off first.

Shake hands:

Five arrivals-physical arrival, laughter arrival, hand arrival, eye contact, greeting arrival; Shake hands for 3-5 seconds with moderate intensity.

Follow the order of VIP priority, elder priority, host priority and lady priority.

Introduce etiquette:

When introducing others, palm up, back down, four fingers straight and close together, thumb open, wrist and forearm in a straight line, axis joint as the axis, whole arm slightly bent, palm up to shoulder height, pointing to the introduced party, smiling, looking at the introduced party and taking care of the guests.

When introducing yourself, put your five fingers of your right hand together and straighten, and press your palm against your left chest.

Look at each other or everyone when introducing, and have a kind and calm expression.

Be careful not to point your thumb at yourself or point your index finger at others.

Business card etiquette:

Put two thumbs on the two corners of the business card, hold the business card in the palm of your hands, face the word, lean slightly toward each other, and simply say "take care".

Peer etiquette:

Two people walk together, the right is honor, three people walk together, and four people can't walk together.

Applause etiquette:

Applause means welcome, approval, congratulations, thanks and encouragement.

Clap the palm of your left hand with the palm of your right hand when clapping. You shouldn't pat your left palm with your fingertips.

meeting etiquette

Etiquette of participants

Participants should dress neatly, be generous in appearance, enter the venue on time, enter and leave in an orderly manner, be seated according to the meeting arrangement, and listen carefully during the meeting, without whispering or whispering in private. At the end of the speech, the speaker should applaud and leave the meeting quietly without affecting others.