Is it a good thing that boyfriends love to travel?

Travel is the easiest way to see what kind of person a person really is. If you really know the true face of your boyfriend through travel, it is quite different from the usual communication, so you can choose to break up.

I believe this sentence very much, so the year before last, I proposed to travel abroad with my predecessor, with the purpose of seeing him clearly. So on the way, I deliberately took some small things to get angry with him to see if he would still take care of me and comfort me when he was tired from traveling.

As a result, he was not gentle and considerate at all. He kept a straight face and felt particularly cold. Later, I didn't go to several scenic spots that I agreed to see, so I was particularly unhappy and even quarreled. After that trip, he and I naturally broke up, crisp and neat. The other party has no intention of saving it.

finally, I can't help asking him why he has such a bad temper when traveling. He said: "traveling is the best way to see a person clearly. You can lose your temper when you travel outside for a little thing, which is particularly difficult to serve. This is not like you usually do, and I finally see it clearly."

what is this ..... during the journey, it is inevitable that the situation will continue; More importantly, when people are away from home, the mode of getting along with each other has broken away from the quiet days of daily life, and those who have been busy for more than half a year will inevitably relax their normal nerves.

When a moth comes out several times, you can see everything from communication style, emotional management ability to problem-solving skills. Compared with those strangers who form temporary groups, intimate relationships are facing more tests, and the truth of a friend in need is upgraded. Once you slack off, your previous decency is so unreal, and those partners who are mature and secure are more likely to gain the other's affirmation. Travel is full of accidental factors, and it may not be wise to rush to define your partner's behavior.

Therefore, traveling is not necessarily a relationship curse. The accidents that everyone wants to avoid during the trip may also become a turning point in the relationship. The key is whether to pay attention to each other and take care of each other's feelings, or to put too much emphasis on ourselves-not that I am traveling alone, but that "we" are traveling.

Perhaps the safest way to keep a wait-and-see attitude towards intimacy without disappointment is not to throw your perfect assumptions about life and your partner into a hasty trip at one time.