Why do students refuse to come to my house to play?

Last month, David, a college classmate, came to this city with his parents 12, and wanted to stay in my home to save accommodation. I agreed without hesitation, but I didn't expect it to be thankless. Although it cost me more than 30 thousand in the end, the other party actually blacked me out.

0 1 university

David is my college classmate, but he is very different.

During his college years, he seldom contacted other students and stayed alone all day.

The students in his dormitory say that his family is from other provinces and rural areas in the north, and life is very hard. He got married in college and had two children.

He lives a very frugal life. He usually buys the worst food. Sometimes he doesn't even go to the restaurant to buy rice. He eats dry fire and steamed corn bread brought from home, and eats spicy pickles.

Every once in a while, David will cash his meal tickets and food stamps in the free market outside the school and make money at home.

David is five years older than us. When we enter school, we are usually around 18 years old. He is 23 years old and has been studying for several years.

After I noticed this situation, I felt very sorry for David. Sometimes I pretend I can't eat my own food and food stamps and give him some.

I said to David, "I have an aunt and a grandfather in the provincial capital. They often let me go to their house for dinner, so I have only these meal tickets and food stamps."

I think you often eat some dry fire there. Take these meal tickets and food stamps. Anyway, these things are of little use to me. "

David is obviously very aware of my kindness. He said gratefully to me, "beautiful, you are really a good man."

My wife is in the countryside, with almost no income, and two children are starving at home.

Thank you for your help. I will remember this kindness for a lifetime.

I was determined to be admitted to the university, so I repeated my studies for several years and finally got admitted to the university in the provincial capital.

Now I'm going to bite the bullet and go to this university. "

David said to me, "What you just told me is very inspiring.

In fact, it is not difficult to go to this university. As long as you work hard, you will have good results. "

David said, "Yes, after graduating from college, I was finally able to get rid of the uncomfortable environment in the countryside and get ahead."

I said to David, "Then let's work together."

I didn't expect David's ability to communicate with others was poor, and his learning ability was also much worse.

He failed two courses in the first semester.

Because I am the first in my class, David came to me for advice on learning methods.

David and I straightened out all my class notes and knowledge points, and then I gave them to David to make him study harder.

David then successfully passed the make-up exam.

This time, I realized why he took the college entrance examination for five years in a row, mainly because he didn't master enough learning methods and knowledge points by rote.

Every time after class, I will give David the notes I made in class, so that David can master the knowledge points he has learned in the evening self-study.

David slowly improved his course performance.

After David successfully graduated from college, the emotional communication between us was formed during this time.

02 travel

After graduating from college, David returned to a factory in his hometown as a technician, and took his wife and children from the countryside to the city.

This is also a typical example of inspirational knowledge changing fate.

In the first few years, David also wrote to me. Since everyone is busy with work in the future, there will be no contact in the future.

That was last summer, the monitor of a class in our university suddenly set up a WeChat group for our college classmates, dragging David and me in.

Our college classmates found 38 out of a total of 40 students in a class, two of whom are no longer alive.

A classmate named Xiaowen fell ill and died a few years after graduation.

Another classmate, Xiao Yuan, went to work in a chemical plant as a workshop director, but suddenly disappeared in an explosion.

At that time, the workshop exploded at night, and two people were at the scene, and even the bones were not found.

At that time, the students all donated money after telling each other. At that time, I donated 2000 yuan to the monitor and asked him to pass it on to Xiao Yuan's family and his 2-year-old child.

After David contacted me through WeChat university group, he missed our university time very much.

About a month ago, he proposed to bring his parents, wife and children to our city for a holiday and wanted to live in our house.

His idea is to save some accommodation. They are responsible for their own accommodation, but there is no definite time.

I welcomed David's plan to travel to this city and told David the exact address of my home, including the detailed building number, unit number and room number.

I was cleaning at home at 5 pm on a Sunday about a month ago when the doorbell rang.

I called home surveillance and found David leading the family, so I quickly opened the door and welcomed them to our home.

03 accident

I didn't expect that there would always be 12 people after their family came to our house.

At first, I thought David, his wife and his parents were four people.

Plus his two daughters, there are six people at most.

I didn't expect his two children and their two children and husband.

In this way, the number of 12 people is twice as much as I expected.

In addition, his two daughters are thinking about having three children.

In this way, there are always four families.

Seeing so many people, I said to David, "I didn't expect you to come soon." There are four, and the total number is 12. "

My house is a bit crowded. Let me find you a hotel. "

David said quickly, "Let's squeeze in here. I just saw that your home is 4 rooms and 2 halls. My wife and I can squeeze into the living room. "

You and I are old classmates, so don't take it personally.

If you go to a hotel, 12 people spend too much. "

Seeing that I insisted on calling the hotel, David was angry: "If you really dislike us living in your home, we will go back to our hometown by train at once."

I quickly explained to David, "It's nothing at all. I was afraid that there were many people here, so I contacted the hotel.

You can stay here if you don't mind the crowded room.

It happened that my wife went back to her mother's house for a while, and this house is empty. You can live here. "

So I asked David and his two sons-in-law to move a Simmons cushion on the bedroom bed to the opposite study. I ran to the sofa in the hall and fell asleep.

04 bad habits

But what makes me very dissatisfied is David. His home 12 unexpectedly came 10 carrot.

You came to my house empty-handed and didn't bring me a present.

David's parents are over 70 years old, and they smell like old people.

So I said to David, "We have a solar shower at home. Please let your parents take a bath, because they have a strange smell that people can't stand directly."

David said, "Why is your nose so bright? I have been with my parents for so many years, and I have never smelled anything strange on them. You don't dislike that they are rural people, do you? "

I quickly said, "This is really not true. It's just that people are old and don't take a shower for a long time, and the taste must be sour.

For the sake of your dutiful son, I suggest you let your parents take a bath to avoid making people laugh. "

David reluctantly discussed with his parents to take a bath first so as not to have a strange smell.

I didn't sleep very well, but their family watched TV in the living room until after 12:30 in the evening.

What is more exaggerated is that the two old people got up at three or four in the morning and kept walking around the living room, which made me unable to sleep directly.

When the two old people were hungry, they opened the refrigerator in the kitchen, took out vegetables, found noodles and cooked them directly.

Then they finished eating, and later invited two granddaughters and son-in-law to have dinner with the children, completely making this family their own.

It's ridiculous that they don't call me at dinner.

05 scenic spots

After breakfast, David asked me directly, "I'm not familiar with all the scenic spots in your city." Can you take time off to show us around? "

I said, "I'm surprised. It's amazing that you didn't make a good travel plan at home when you came to this city. Then why did you come to this city? "

David said, "My family goes to my parents' house for dinner every week.

Some time ago, my parents wanted to go out for a walk, but they couldn't think of any place to go at the moment.

I said to them at the dinner table, "I have a very good and loyal college classmate who is developing very well now."

He was the one who helped me selflessly when I was in college.

We can go to him, and he will arrange it for us then. "

Everyone agreed, so we jumped on you. "

I felt very funny after listening to it, but there was nothing I could do when I met such a half-fainted classmate, so I asked for leave from work to lead them to travel to the scenic spots in this city.

Because there were too many people, I borrowed a bus from my friends to take them to the tourist attractions.

I have been to these scenic spots n times before, and I let them buy their own tickets after dragging them to the scenic spots.

David came running to discuss with me: "beautiful, you see I'm coming for you." Can you pay for these tickets together? " .

Just because we are old classmates, you paid these tickets for me, and I have a good face in front of my family. "

At first glance, I didn't threaten the emperor to be a minister. I have no choice but to walk over and buy tickets for them.

At noon, David came to discuss with me again and said, "beautiful, I know you have been helping me."

I was going to treat myself at noon today, but you know I don't make much money at work now, and I really don't have the money to go out for dinner.

Inviting us to eat this meal at noon today shows that you have helped your old classmates earn enough face.

I have been praising you in front of my family and saying that you are doing well now. In fact, I can see that your life is many times better than ours, and you don't care about this meal. "

I said, "David, why does your mouth look like honey?"

If you want me to invite you, just say so. Don't beat around the bush.

Besides, when you came to this city to call me and jump on me, you were interested in me. How can I not invite you to dinner? "

So I went to the grand hotel and entertained the college students and their families from afar directly according to the standard of 180 per person.

After dinner in the afternoon, I continued to drag them to travel to related scenic spots.

After dinner, I'll take them to the food street in this city. It's my treat.

But the food street is relatively cheaper. I took them to this city to eat special noodles for less than 300 yuan.

06 host and guest

In this way, I accompanied them around the city for three days, and when I got home, they didn't regard my home as their own.

The fruit my wife bought me, 3 boxes of apples, 2 boxes of pitaya, 1 box of Sydney and 5 boxes of vogan, were all swept away, leaving only the stone and peel.

Five tubes of yogurt per tube 1 liter, six bags of yogurt, 10 boxes of small yogurt, vegetables, sausages, frozen shrimp and fish, frozen beef and pork, etc. Everything bought in the refrigerator has been eaten up.

At that time, I ate 20 Jin of pork sent by my company in the refrigerator.

Actually, I am very open-minded, because these things can't be eaten by myself in the refrigerator. If they don't come, they will definitely be thrown away when they expire.

What bothers me is their living habits.

Apart from two elderly people who didn't pay attention to hygiene when they slept, classmate David and his two daughters and children also didn't pay attention to personal hygiene.

Their habit at home is to throw things around after eating, such as peels, paper to wipe their noses, yogurt boxes, small food bags and so on.

Even the beds and sofas are full of peels and rubbish.

Moreover, these people directly turn a blind eye to my cleaning and directly treat me as a part-time job.

Sometimes I mop the floor until they sit in front of the sofa. They just let me mop the floor and put it on the ground to play with my mobile phone.

These people really don't think of themselves as outsiders.

What makes people feel speechless is that they don't flush the toilet after going to the toilet. The smell of this toilet is disgusting.

In a few days, this toilet will be ugly.

And they don't want anyone outside to influence them when they go to the toilet, so they close the window of the toilet.

They don't open the window to ventilate after going to the toilet.

So I had to keep cleaning the used toilets for them and open the windows to ventilate.

After using the toilet paper and throwing it all over the floor, it makes people feel particularly disgusting.

07 Kanpan

One night, David ran into the living room and said to me:

"Beautiful, your porcelain with a diameter of 1 meter, Jingdezhen Kanpan, very beautiful and thin porcelain safflower and yellow flower, how much did you buy?"

I said, "I bought that porcelain plate when I went to Jingdezhen on business. About 10000.

At that time, the shopkeeper said that only the right person could value him, so I bought it when it looked good. "

David said, "It's not that expensive, is it? Did someone else give it to you? "

I said, "I paid by myself on WeChat. I transferred the payment voucher from my mobile phone. Please have a look. "

When I showed David the payment voucher of 12800 yuan on my mobile phone, David's face suddenly turned white.

Then David said to me, "beautiful, I'm really sorry." My grandson just climbed onto that mahogany shelf to play and broke that dial.

I thought it was just an ordinary dial, so I cleaned up those broken dials and threw them away. "

As soon as I heard this, I quickly asked, "Did this watch hurt your grandson after it broke?"

David said, "No, no, that's because the mother didn't take good care of the child."

I was watching the children swagger, and I didn't think it was too late to stop them.

That is, the child cried when he saw that his watch was broken. "

I said, "As long as it doesn't hurt the child."

David said, "why don't you protect this watch and just put it on that shelf?" A close call.

I can't make it up to you anyway. My unit welfare is not good now. I only pay 800 yuan for living expenses, and you know I can't afford it at all. "

I said, "David, where do you want to go?

You come to my house as a guest, and I won't let you pay for the damage.

Besides, what you just said is to protect this watch, which I think is a bit ridiculous.

Because this watch is for people to see, what do you think if you protect it?

And I don't usually have children at home. If there are children, I will look after them and won't let them do the job. "

David heard that I wouldn't let him pay for the watch, and then his face gradually turned normal.

08 bracket

But what happened next made me feel speechless.

David's old father can't stay in the bedroom, because he gets up early in the morning, so he walks back and forth in the living room and kitchen.

At about five o'clock the next morning, he suddenly felt angina pectoris and his eyes were dying.

At that time, everyone in the family panicked. As soon as I saw this situation, I told them not to touch him, and then called the emergency number of 120.

Then I gave him nitroglycerin, which was reserved at home.

Because after this angina pectoris, you must not move except taking medicine. If someone touches him, you can't do it right away.

120 came, and the old man was sent to the people's hospital for emergency treatment.

During the rescue, the doctor asked the patient's family whether to put a heart stent for rescue.

I asked the doctor, "Do I have to put this stent?"

The doctor said, "It will be all right soon if the stent is put on, but you should take the medicine for life."

If the stent is not placed, the patient may die soon. "

I turned to David and asked, "Did you hear that your father must receive heart stent treatment immediately, or he will die?"

David said: "My father is from the countryside because he needs to pay for the new rural cooperative medical system. He never paid the medical insurance fee for the new rural cooperative medical system. "

I said to David, "When did you say the medical insurance fee for the new rural cooperative medical system?" .

The operation of putting a heart stent, as the doctor said just now, is completely at his own expense.

Now you have to pay your old father for this heart stent and let him have an operation quickly. "

David said: "I don't have a good unit benefit now." I can't afford a heart stent for my dad. I really can't give up treatment. "

I said, "If you don't pay for your dad, I will."

I can't watch your father die. Please sign the contract that your family agrees to the operation first, and I'll pay the money first. "

After I paid David's father 8000 yuan for hospitalization, the doctor made a heart stent for David's father.

In fact, the operation of this heart stent now does not need to be operated in the heart at all, but in the blood vessels of this thigh.

The day after the old man finished heart bypass surgery, David and his family secretly hired a car and took his old father back to his hometown.

He left me a message on WeChat.

His father got sick because he came to my house to live and travel, but my house was not good, which caused his father to get sick.

Then David hacked me directly.

09 regret

I was speechless when I saw the message David gave me and this blackmail.

In fact, his father's illness was entirely caused by David.

I have arranged for him to find a hotel to live in, which is also a good environment for his old man.

But David insisted on staying at my house to save money.

Besides, his father's illness is his own business, not mine.

I think David is just evading his responsibilities and debts.

Because I gave his father 8000 yuan for hospitalization before the operation, if he blames me for the bad house, he can at least avoid the debt of this money.

Besides, he broke 1000 yuan in my house.

In addition, treat them to dinner and tickets these days. David, this time they brought 12 people, and the total cost was about 30,000 yuan.

David has repeatedly stressed that his current unit is inefficient and can't afford to pay for these expenses.

However, since David knows that traveling costs money, if he is worried about money, there is no need to take his father and two daughters out to travel and find fault.

I am a soft-hearted person and can't listen to compliments from others.

If I had made up my mind and decided not to let David's family stay in my house, but in a hotel outside, maybe these things would have been another situation.

My friends, how will you handle this kind of thing?

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