In life, why do some people say that traveling with the other half can test true love?

How do you know if a man is right for you? Some people say that traveling together is the best way. Is it really that reliable? It may take careful analysis to judge whether this conclusion is really reliable.

1. Overcome difficulties in real life together.

Travel always tests the love between the two sides: for young couples who have never experienced oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, the question of "whether the toilet lid should be turned up or down" will be magnified at every turning point of their travel. "Does your worldview suit me?" So we still have to look at this issue objectively and calmly. They went hiking together, encouraged each other, overcame difficulties and surpassed themselves during the hiking trip. Under the baptism of natural scenery, their lives have become more mature and comfortable.

2. Performance in conflict situations.

Travel is not always sunny and snowy. There will be many differences between you, such as two people want to go to different places, the taste of food, sleeping habits and so on. There are no couples who don't quarrel. When there is disagreement, how do you solve the problem, what is his attitude and what role will he play in your later life. Think about whether you like the way he handles differences, etc.

3, you can observe whether he has any qualities you like.

It's not his height and condition, but what makes you feel comfortable. Many girls don't have this consciousness. Sometimes they think men are sociable and kind, and sometimes they want men to be calm. They come and go just to be themselves. This is to prevent you from pushing the person under investigation. It doesn't matter if you really don't know.

4. How to face difficulties.

There is a proverb that a man should be judged by what he has done in times of difficulty, not by what he looks like in times of prosperity. Fortunately, there are many "difficulties" in long-distance travel, and you will always encounter problems, such as not knowing the local dialect/foreign language, getting lost, booking hotel tickets, stopping the plane, he or you being injured, you not eating the right food, you getting dysentery, and so on. If you are not in a familiar environment, it is easy to have various situations (to be honest, this is also the reason why many people like to travel). At this time, whether your partner can solve these problems is directly related to many abilities of this person.

From a philosophical point of view, it is very arbitrary to judge a person only by one thing or one action. People are very complicated creatures, especially if you want to find a suitable person, the best way to judge is whether you can breathe freely with him. You don't have to travel long distances to judge this.