"You can marry Phoenix Man if you want, but you can't marry the wedding room." Is Phoenix Man Worth Marrying?

Phoenix man, originally refers to those who were born in poverty, admitted to the university through their unremitting efforts, and have their own place in the city through their own efforts after graduation.

Originally praised for their unremitting efforts, now Phoenix Man has become a terrible existence that everyone can't avoid in marriage.

A netizen once sent me a private letter about the story between her and Phoenix Man.

Xiaoli and Xiao Wang (Phoenix Man) meet freely. They fell in love at first sight and confirmed their relationship in the process of getting along.

Xiaoli's family is superior, and her parents have factories. However, Xiao Wang's family is not superior to Xiao Li's. Xiao Wang's parents are out-and-out farmers. They have worked hard to raise Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang also knows his parents' bitterness and is determined to get a place in a big city and keep his parents away from rural life.

When two people were still in love, Xiaoli was attracted by Xiao Shenshen Wang, and the reason was because she saw Xiao Wang's persistence and his filial piety to his parents.

As time went on, both Xiao Wang and Xiao Li reached the age of marriage, but Xiao Li's parents opposed their marriage. The reason is because they see that Xiao Wang is a phoenix man and that their family is feudal.

Xiaoli's father learned these things through learning. Because Xiao Wang's family was poor, Xiao Wang couldn't afford to go to school when he went to college, but Xiao Wang's father married his daughter in order to let Xiao Wang go to college and let his son get ahead, in exchange for Xiao Wang's college expenses. In Xiaoli's father's view, there is a serious son preference in Xiao Wang's family. In order to make his son get ahead, he will sacrifice his daughter's happiness for life.

Not only Xiaoli's father opposed the marriage, but also Xiaoli's mother disapproved. But Xiaoli likes Xiao Wang very much and always thinks Xiao Wang is the one she wants to marry.

Seeing her daughter so stubborn, Xiaoli's father finally took a step back. He said to Xiaoli: If you want to prove that he is the one who deserves everything, then you can tell him that you can marry him, but my parents said they wouldn't give us any support. If he still wants to marry you without hesitation, then I will allow the marriage between you. ?

In order to prove that she didn't see the wrong person, Xiaoli told Xiao Wang her father's original words.

But when Xiaoli said this to Xiao Wang, Xiao Wang was no longer as gentle as before. He became anxious and irritable. He asked Xiaoli impatiently, your family is so rich, why didn't your father accompany you to a wedding room when you got married? Where will we live without accompanying you to the wedding room? Where do my parents live? How to solve the problem of my sister's children going to school?

When Xiao Li heard Xiao Wang say these words, Xiao Li understood that the other party was not as good as she imagined, nor was it the prince charming in Xiao Li's mind. Finally, it broke up in discord.

After reading the story of Xiao Wang and Xiao Li, we actually have a problem.

Are all Phoenix men unworthy of marriage? Phoenix men are all capable people, and they can achieve something through their unremitting efforts. They have suffered a lot and know that some things are hard to come by, so they will naturally cherish everything they have, including you.

Moreover, Phoenix men's thoughts are often more traditional, but although their thoughts are more traditional, they are mostly devoted people in life, especially for love.

In fact, Phoenix man can't marry because he has a heart to honor his parents. They know how hard their families have worked to succeed. They just want to help their families as much as possible.

Maybe Phoenix Man has been misunderstood by us. They are more pragmatic and reliable than anyone else. They don't have the same background as others. They can only rely on their unremitting efforts. What we can see in them is perseverance and reliability that ordinary people don't have.

Conclusion: The more people who have experienced difficulties, the more cautious they are in choosing spouses and things. They will be objective and will not be confused by external things. Perhaps the most precious thing about Phoenix Men is the sincerity they have gained in their long struggle, which is enough for them to reap their own happiness.