Will you really have an affair while traveling? Many people have asked me this.

Yes, in fact, the so-called "encounter" during travel is an encounter. What story will happen next depends on your personal needs or the needs of the other party.

“Encounters” often happen to us, so what is different about encounters during travel, and why do they turn into “encounters”? Mainly because of our curiosity during travel and our situation in a certain environment. We need to help others or be helped by others, or "hug together for warmth." Looking at each other a few more times like this will make a difference.

We have arrived in a strange place and need to understand and help. It just so happens that someone walks into your field of vision at this time. We look forward to and rely on each other, so we play together, eat together, and finally become friends. , if it develops further, it will be an "affair".

If we don’t go out, we won’t have such opportunities to strike up conversations and make friends, or we won’t be able to easily make an impression on each other. But it’s different when we travel. We need each other’s help, and we need relative safety and dependence. , it is easy to let go of your inner reserve and become generous and magnanimous.

When I travel, I often see friends of the opposite sex who play together temporarily. Most of them are in Tibetan areas or Vietnam and Thailand in Southeast Asia. Many travel companions who play well together have only known each other for a few days. We don't even know each other's real names.

Once in the early years, I was in Seda, western Sichuan. While I was parking my car, a girl came over and asked if I could take a ride. I said yes, and she said it was two people, and I said that was okay. She waved, and a boy ran over not far away, and the two squeezed into the back seat.

I took them for half a day. At first, I thought they were lovers when they looked at each other. Later, I found out that they had only known each other for three days. They wanted to hitchhike all the way to Tibet, and they discovered the advantage of having a girl to stop the bus. , they used it three times and it was successful. One of the two people is from Beijing and the other is from Quanzhou, Fujian. At this moment, they are one.

Some people say, isn’t it said that there is an affair in Dali, Lijiang? In fact, this may refer to going to a bar to get drunk, or some kind of entertainment occasion. Forget such an affair, it can be done in the city, and there is nothing to look forward to.

In fact, most of the "love encounters" during travel are for "beginners". For "experienced drivers" or the current travel self-media, they don't have much expectations. My "travel" is very purposeful, and I have a clear travel route and a strong heart. I don't need much help from the outside world, and I don't have too many expectations during the trip.

On the one hand, early travelers were cautious and full of curiosity, but on the other hand, they were particularly eager to meet by chance and have someone to strike up a conversation with...