After experiencing a breakup, how can you relax and get over this relationship?

You can try traveling alone, or look for things that interest you, and you will feel relaxed in nature. Emotional matters are always complicated. You may be passionate one second, but end up breaking up the next second. The pain of losing a loved one can be overwhelming, but there are other ways we can help ourselves through the relationship.

At this time we can choose a destination and try to travel alone. For example, Tibet, Xinjiang, etc. are all places that can purify people's soul, where you can feel unprecedented relaxation and all worries will be left behind. You can also travel with close friends. The two of you can open your hearts on the road. With someone to talk to, you can naturally get out of emotional difficulties more easily. We can find things that interest us during the trip, such as taking photos of beautiful things with a camera, tasting the special food around us, experiencing cultural features, or simply finding a place we like to settle down.

Many people are reluctant to leave after arriving in Dali, Yunnan, not only because of the beautiful scenery and spring-like weather there all year round, but what is even more attractive is the leisurely life, especially for people living in big cities. It’s hard to feel this kind of experience. I believe that if you stay there for a while, the previous haze will disappear. It is indeed not easy to get out of a relationship. Although we cannot forget it in a short time, we might as well bury those unhappy things in our hearts and erase all traces of the love between two people. Time can take away everything, and it can also heal the soul, so what is needed most is to change the environment and live a good life.

After we gradually forget what happened before, we can begin to prepare for the next relationship. Find someone you truly love and get to know each other better first. As the saying goes, when there is constant separation, there will be chaos. Sometimes it's not that we can't get out of this relationship, but that we always think back to the good times of those years and don't want to forget them easily.