The couple are going to go on road trip, and my sister-in-law has to attend. What should I do?

Brother-in-law and sister-in-law have been mentioned, both mysterious and obscure. If the brother-in-law does not handle the relationship with his sister-in-law, it will affect family harmony and other unpleasant things.

Here I tell a story, a true story that happened to a donkey friend. When I was an outdoor leader two years ago, I took a team to climb mountains. One of the men is with a girl. The man is humorous and caring, and the woman is quiet. She doesn't talk much along the way. These two people joined me when they were doing activities in the outdoor group, and then contacted me to sign up.

Because I want to buy insurance for the players, I need their ID numbers, male 88 years, female 92 years. At first, I thought they were lovers. Later, when I climbed the mountain, I felt that girls were a little shy, so I always deliberately avoided boys. The hiking route is a bit difficult, and we have to climb many slopes along the way. The other players brought trekking poles, but neither of them did. The girl climbed very hard. The boys who went with her stretched out their hands to pull her many times, and she shyly refused.

When you arrive at the hotel at night, you should assign rooms to the team members, and men and women should sleep separately. Because couples often ask them to live together when they are divided into rooms, I asked them if they want to live in a room. Unexpectedly, the girl suddenly said that she wanted to live with other girls, but the man tried his best to persuade the girl to live together and pulled her aside to comfort her. The girl couldn't stand the man's soft grinding and hard foam, and finally agreed to live together.

I don't know what happened that night, but later I learned from a donkey friend in the group that it was the boy's sister-in-law who climbed the mountain and slept in a room! It turns out that this buddy's wife is always on a business trip because of work, and his wife's sister happened to live in their house during that time! I don't know what happened to them, but I always feel that something will happen if this goes on!

The question is about the couple going on a trip, and my sister-in-law wants to attend. I think this is okay. First, it is important to have a wife. Second, it is important to get along well with my sister-in-law. Just don't do too much. If my sister-in-law occasionally asks to travel together, I don't think it is necessary to magnify the problem or think wrong. If she often asks to travel together, or has the habit of relying on her brother-in-law, she should be on her guard. If this state is allowed to spread, it will be a matter of time before the family breaks up.

Be sure to remember, never take your wife and sister-in-law to travel alone! It is best to keep a proper distance, neither too enthusiastic nor too unfamiliar. Daily care is still important, not too much.

There used to be an old saying that "a sister-in-law is a brother-in-law's half ass". What do you mean by that? I think the first explanation should be that there is a kind of "natural" intimate relationship between sister-in-law and sister-in-law, so it means "natural" and "should be divided". That is to say, if you don't "get the moon first", wouldn't it be "leaving the river and not washing the boat"? Another explanation may be that there were many such things between sister-in-law and sister-in-law in the past, so there is a kind of "habit" meaning.

Is the above explanation right or wrong? Let's leave him alone. Now let's talk about the problem that your husband and wife travel by car and your aunt should follow. Why is she following? I can't think of more reasons than this: First, you have a good relationship. Not only does she treat you as an outsider, but she actually treats you as family. Second, she may not have a boyfriend around now, and she wants to go out with her when she sees you going out to play. Third, there is a big gap with your age. In front of you, I think of myself as a child, which means a little "coquetry". Fourth, I am young and earn less, and your economic conditions are relatively better. Can traveling with you cost her money? ! The last reason, it really may be that I have a crush on you. what do you think? Besides "Long live understanding", you are also "considerate" to her sister. In her eyes, you are mature, stable, successful, well-read, and most importantly, you are very considerate! If that's the case, let alone a sister-in-law, even if there are three or five of them, they will go with them!

All right, cause analysis is over. Let's talk about the results first: yes or no? I mean, if her sister doesn't object, can you make a fuss here? Just "why not"!

Otherwise, there are only two reasons why you don't want to take others: First, you are a "hard money". Second, your heart is already unclean. ...

Enough jokes! Answer!

Good thing! Sister-in-law is gentler and cuter than wife ~

I guess so.

I don't think it will make any difference if my sister-in-law travels with her brother-in-law occasionally. First, both husband and wife are tired of traveling, and they generally don't want to do anything when they sleep in hotels. Second, it's more fun to have two sisters with you. Even if three people sleep in a room, it won't be too embarrassing.

It seems that you made your sister-in-law comfortable and stuck to you. Take her. Is it bad to serve you? Others will cast envious eyes to see what this boy can do to his wife!