A poem about leaving calmly (a poem about leaving)

1. Poems about parting 1. We said goodbye to each other sadly, and our two officials took opposite paths. However, as long as China keeps our friendship, heaven will remain our neighbor. (Wang Bo:&; lt； Farewell the viceroy to his post in Shu.

Oh, my friend's prince, you left again, and I heard them sigh behind you. (Li Bai:&; lt； Send a friend away >

The grass turns green again in spring, but what about you, my friend's prince? ? (Bai Juyi:< gives Gu Cao a farewell >)

It is rainy and dusty in Weicheng. The green willow in the guest house is new in color. I suggest you drink more wine. There is no reason to go out of Yangguan in the west. (Wang Wei:&; lt； Send Yuan Er when Anxi >)

It's freezing, rainy and rainy, and it's late at night. Pingming sends tourists to Gushan Chu. (Wang Changling:&; lt； Break up with Xin Jian at Furong Inn >

6. Mochow has no confidant in the future. Everyone knows you, (Gao Shi:&; lt； Not big >)

7. Peach Blossom Pond and Three thousands of feet. Not as good as Wang Lun. (Li Bai:&; lt； To Wang Lun >)

8. Sailing alone, the blue sky is exhausted. Only the Yangtze River flows in the sky. (Li Bai:&; lt； See you on the way to Yangzhou, Meng Haoran >

9. We watched him walk eastward through the tower gate, leaving only hoofprint behind him (Cen Can:&; lt； A song "Snow White Farewells Tian Shuji Wu to Go Home" >

10. Outside the pavilion, beside the ancient road, the grass is blue. The evening breeze blows the willow flute. The sunset is beyond the mountain. The horizon of the sky. A corner of the sea. Close friends are half separated. The rest is a spoonful of turbid wine. Say goodbye to Meng Han tonight. (Li Shutong:&; lt； Farewell >)

Send Li Duan to see Lu Lun.

My hometown is full of hay, and my friends are really not sad.

The way you walked into the sky, when I saw the snow falling at dusk, I came back again.

When I was young, my father and I traveled abroad, and I had no time to meet you in many difficulties and hardships.

Looking back at the direction you are going, hide your face and cry. See you in the war years, I don't know when.

On Li's Evaluation of Wang Changling

It is difficult to leave the Modaoqiu River, and the boat will be in Changan tomorrow.

The slow dance of black-bone chicken makes you drunk, and the green maple is white and cold.

In early autumn, I recalled Jin Jun's two younger brothers, Zhang Jiuling.

When the autumn wind comes to Zhu Jiang, I will leave my hometown.

Lonely clouds are far away, and one leaf knows the depth.

Worry and joy taste the same domain, flying and singing in different forests.

Looking at the northwest of Qingshan, it can be regarded as a white-headed song.

Xin 'an presents Liu Changqing.

Nine times the publicity room called, Wan Yi and his party.

Things go straight to heaven, but things happen later.

The material body is restored, and the sacred eyes are still bright.

Leaving the cold river, you will feel affectionate.

Liu Yong Yulinling

It's too late for Changting.

At the beginning of the shower, the doors are empty, the party is lingering, and the blue boat is urging.

Holding hands and looking at each other, tears swirled in my eyes until there were no words at last, and a thousand words stuck in my throat and I couldn't say it.

Thinking of returning to the south this time, this journey is another road. Thousands of miles away, it is misty, and the night sky is a vast night fog.

Emotional parting has existed since ancient times, and it is more comparable. It is also a cold autumn festival.

Who knows where I am when I am awake tonight? Fear is just the edge, facing the sad morning wind and the setting sun of the waning moon.

This is a long time, people who love each other are not together, and I even expect to be satisfied with the good weather and scenery in name only.

There are many kinds of customs, who can say!

Que Tazhi Feng Yansi

In autumn, the banana wind is half cracked, the pond is chaotic, and the rain is falling.

Build by laying bricks or stones around the grass to rest, and learn to worry about lilac knots.

Looking back to the southwest to see the late moon, the lonely goose choked when she came.

There's nothing to say before. When will Guanshan leave?

2. With regard to the calm and famous ancient poems, I am anxious about "setting the storm, don't listen to the sound of beating leaves through the forest"

Song Dynasty: Su Shi

On March 7th, it was raining on Shahu Road, and all the servants with rain gear left. The same people felt embarrassed, but I didn't think so. The rain gear comes first, and the peers are in chaos. I didn't know it at first, but when I found out, I pretended to use this word.

Don't pay attention to the beating rain in the forest. Mei sings a long whistle and walks leisurely. Bamboo poles and sandals are more dexterous than riding horses. What's to be afraid of? A raincoat and hemp fiber, despite the wind and rain, still live my life.

The coolness of spring breeze awakens my wine, and the cold begins to be cold, and the peak of the sun is the sun, but it is satisfied in time. Looking back at the place where I met the wind and rain, going back, for me, there is no wind and rain, but it is still sunny.

On March 7th, Hu Sha was caught in the rain, and the servant with rain gear left early. People in the same company feel embarrassed, but I don't think so. After a while, it cleared up, so I made this word.

Ignore the rain beating on the forest and leaves, why not let go of your throat and sing quietly. Bamboo poles and sandals are more agile than riding horses. What is there to be afraid of? No matter the wind and rain, I will live in hemp fiber all my life.

The spring breeze is cool, wake me up, it's cool, but the sunset in Chu Qing on the mountain is timely. Looking back at the bleak place when the wind and rain came, I walked home, whether it was raining or sunny.

This word is a work that a person expresses his feelings when he is drunk and meets the rain. Despite repeated setbacks in adversity, the poet's behavior of walking in the rain shows his stubborn character and broad-minded mind. The whole word is emotional and humorous.

Extended data:

1, writing background:

This poem was written in the spring of 1082 (the fifth year of Yuanfeng in Song Shenzong). This is the third spring when Su Shi was demoted to be the deputy envoy who should stay in Huangzhou (now Huanggang, Hubei) forever because of the Wutai poetry case. The poet and his friends went out in the spring when a storm suddenly came. Friends were deeply embarrassed, but the poet didn't care, took it calmly and walked slowly.

2. Introduction to the author:

Su Shi (1037 ~110/) was a writer in the Song Dynasty. The word Zi Zhan, the word He Zhong, the number Dongpo lay man. Meizhou Meishan (now Sichuan) people. Su Xun's eldest son. 1057 (the second year of Jiayou) Jinshi. In addition to the Chinese book Sheren, Hanlin Bachelor, Duanming Temple Bachelor, and the history of the Ministry of Rites. He was successively sentenced to Hangzhou, Zhimi, Xuzhou, Huzhou and Yingzhou. 1080 (Yuanfeng three years), Huangzhou was demoted by the new libel law. Later, he was exiled to Huizhou and Danzhou. Song Huizong, forgive me. Died in Changzhou. Chasing Wenzhong.

He is knowledgeable, versatile and good at writing, engineering poetry and calligraphy. Yu Ci is "uninhibited and uninhibited, and doesn't like to cut and follow the rhythm", with rich themes and broad artistic conception. He broke through the traditional barrier of "Ci is a colorful subject" since the late Tang Dynasty, the Five Dynasties and the early Song Dynasty, and took poetry as his ci, which created an uninhibited school and had a great influence on later generations. Dongpo and Dongpo's Ci have seven episodes.

Baidu Encyclopedia-"Set the storm, don't listen to the sound of leaves in the forest"

3. I want to express my helplessness, so I leave my sorrow and cut the poems of Mei Li Qingzhao.

Red lotus root fragrance can last forever, and Luo Shang can go to Orchid alone. Who sent the brocade book? When the words come back, the moon is full of the West Building.

Flowers from Shui Piao to water, one kind of acacia and two kinds of worry-free. Nothing can eliminate this feeling, and then I frowned and came to my heart.

Meet in

Hualin thanked Chunhong and hurried away, but the cold rain came early and the wind came late. When you are drunk, you should be heavy. Natural people hate water when they grow up.

Banquet garden Bai Juyi

Frequent trysts with elegant ladies and gentlemen, fighting and killing. When he said this, he flew away for a while, frowning. Helpless, helpless, two hearts always stay.

The young mermaid Feng Yansi.

The jade hook bends the column to tune the parrot, and turns around to leave a spring message. Yunping left the empty painting hall, and the cold in late spring was helpless and out of the wind. Swallows fly low in the curtains and dance in the mirror. I don't know who will wear a double knot tonight when the moon is bent.

Yuhubai

Martyrs bump into jade pots and cherish their old age. Three cups of sword dance autumn moon, suddenly singing and crying. At the beginning of the phoenix, purple mud appeared, and the emperor called it a royal banquet. Praise the Lord for nine days, stir up red waves and green sages. Turn the dragon into a dragon and give coral a white jade whip. The world doesn't know that Dong Fangshuo, the great hidden Golden Gate, is a fallen fairy. Xi Shi Ying smiled and frowned, and the ugly girl was tired. Although the king loves moths and eyebrows, there is nothing he can do to kill people in the palace!

Play tricks on Li Yu

Deep courtyard quiet, small courtyard empty, intermittent cold anvil, intermittent wind. But people can't sleep at night, and the sound of the moon reaches the curtain.

He Zhu —— Boxing in Northern Song Dynasty

Light makeup is polymorphic, more beautiful and more frequent. I know Qin Xin has promised first, and I want to ask for a double belt. I still remember the painting hall, which was romantic, smiling and helpless. Facing the sleeping duck stove, in the fragrant screen, I am ashamed to untie the fragrant Luo. I haven't seen anything since I burned the lamp.

On several occasions, with the profound meaning of Shuang Yan and Ding Ning, we hated the curtain. When shall we meet again? It's only spring, and people are always bored when they are free. Tired from sleep, there are flowers in the sky. There is nothing to do, flowers bloom and fall, and it seems familiar that Yan returns. Small courtyard incense trail wandering alone.

4. Poems related to the indifference to friends' parting. We said goodbye to each other sadly? We two officials run counter to each other, and China keeps our friendship? Heaven is still our neighbor. (Wang Bo? Say goodbye to the viceroy and go to the post in Shu.) Youjun, did you go again? I heard them sigh after you (Li Bai? Farewell to friends grass turns green again in spring? But my friend prince, will you? ? (Bai Juyi? "Farewell to the ancient grass") advise you to drink? There is no reason to go out of Yangguan in the west. (Wang Wei? "Send Yuan Er Shi An Xi") Cold rain into the night Wu? Fujian Chu (Wang Changling? "Parting Xin Jian at Furong Inn") Mochow has no bosom friend? Everyone knows you "Don't be big") Peach Blossom Pond Three thousands of feet? Not as good as Wang Lun. "To Wang Lun") Alone sails far into the blue sky? Only the Yangtze River flows in the sky. Say goodbye to Meng Haoran on the way to Yangzhou) We watched him go east through the tower gate? Leaving only his hoofprint. (Cen Can? "Bai Xuege farewell field secretary Wu home") outside the pavilion? By the ancient road? The grass is blue and the sky is blue. Can the evening breeze blow the flute? The sunset is beyond the mountain. The horizon of heaven? Horn of the sea? A bosom friend is half broken. Is a ladle of muddy wine enough to make you happy? Say goodbye to Meng Han tonight. (Li Shutong? "Farewell") Friends get to know each other, why do you want to kiss each other? -Han Yuefu folk songs Husband aspires to the four seas, and Wan Li is still close to the Three Kingdoms. Knowing and yet, China holds our friendship, and heaven is still our neighbor —— Wang Tangbo knows far and near, and Wan Li is near —— A new knowledge of Zhang Tang's youth music in 1990. Begging for the neighbor and being virtuous-Tang Zuyong's friendship in life is going to end, so it is not for the ups and downs in the middle. -Tang Helan entered the Ming Dynasty. There are no people in Xian Yi, young and old. Why should we have the same tune first? -Tang Du's paintings need to be flat, and the mountains are as flat as paper-Qing Weng Zhao folded flowers to welcome the post. Send it to the leading family. There is nothing in Jiangnan? Give a spring through chatting. -Poems written for Ye Fan by Lu Kai, a Southern Song Dynasty poet.

5. What are the poems about "parting" 1? Life is naturally infatuated, and this resentment has nothing to do with romance. -Ouyang Xiu's "Yu Lou Chun Zun Qian intends to return"

2. Affection has been hurting since ancient times, even worse than the cold and autumn festival! -Liu Yong's "Yulin Chills"

3. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you. -Gao Shi's "Two Poems of Biedong University"

4, the moon has gains and losses, flowers bloom and fade, I think life is the most difficult to leave. -Zhang Mingshan's "Pu Tianle Chanting Poems"

5, laugh and watch the sky go out, my generation is Artemisia. -Li Bai's "Nanling children don't go to Beijing"

6. Declining Lanfujian Xianyang Road. If there is love in the sky, it will be old. -He Zhu's "It's hard to walk with a tiger's hand tied"

7, the old love is reduced, which is not good for other wines. -Xin Qiji's "Magnolia Slow Chuzhou Send Fan Biao"

Petals fell like tears, and lonely birds sang their sadness. -Du Fu's Hope for Spring

9, drunk can't wake up the west building. Spring dreams and autumn clouds are easy to gather and disperse. -Yan "Death, drunkenness does not wake up the West Building"

10, hard to meet, easy to say goodbye, beautiful as snow. -Wei Zhuang's "Ying Tianchang, Don't Come to Le Shu for Half a Year"

1, "Lou Yuchun is interested in returning money"

Song Dynasty: Ouyang Xiu

Original text:

I'm going to talk about the date of return before I respect you. I want to talk about spring first. Ah, there is love in life, and love is in the depths of madness. This is not irrelevant to hate-the wind overhead, the moon in the sky.

Before the farewell party, Mo sang a new tie. This song has a sad feeling. It's easy to see all the flowers in Los Angeles at first.

Translation:

Before opening the bottle, I plan to set a return date and long for a drink. When I want to say, the beauty has nothing to say, such as the charming face of the spring breeze, I will mourn myself first. Ah, life is sentimental, and it doesn't matter if you don't hate it-the breeze on the roof and the bright moon in the sky.

Don't sing new songs and clear songs before farewell, which has made people sad. Ah, at this time, you only need to see all the peonies in the city, and then you can travel with me, so that you can bid farewell to the spring breeze less sadly.

2. "Yulin is chilling."

Song Dynasty: Liu Yong

The cicadas in autumn are so sad and urgent, facing the pavilion, it is in the evening and a sudden rain has just stopped. Farewell outside Kyoto, but not in the mood to drink, reluctant to leave, the people on board have been urging to start. Holding hands and looking at each other, tears swirled in my eyes until there were no words at last, and a thousand words stuck in my throat and I couldn't say it. Thinking of returning to the south this time, this journey is another road. Thousands of miles away, it is misty, and the night sky is a vast night fog.

Since ancient times, the most sad thing for sentimental people is to leave, not to mention the bleak autumn, how can they stand the sadness. Who knows where I am when I am awake tonight? Fear is just the edge, facing the sad morning wind and the setting sun of the waning moon. This is a long time, people who love each other are not together, and I even expect to be satisfied with the good weather and scenery in name only. Even if it is full of emotions, who can enjoy it together?

Translation:

After autumn, cicadas are so sad and in a hurry. Facing the pavilion, it was at night and a sudden rain had just stopped. Outside Kyoto, farewell dinner, but no mood to drink. When I was reluctant to go, the people on board had already urged me to start. Holding hands, looking at each other, my eyes were full of tears, and I couldn't speak until the end, and I couldn't say a thousand words in my throat. Thinking about going back to the south, this journey is another journey. Thousands of miles away, there is a wave of smoke and the dark night sky is endless. Since ancient times, the most sad thing for passionate people is to leave, not to mention this bleak and cold autumn, how can this parting stand! Who knows where I will wake up tonight? I'm afraid only Liu 'an faces the sharp morning breeze and the waning moon at dawn. It's been a long time since I left each other, and people who love each other are no longer together. I think even if we meet fine weather and beautiful scenery, it just seems like nothing. Even if it is full of affection, who can you enjoy it with?

3, "Don't Dong Da Liang"

Tang dynasty: Gao Shi

Like a bird, she still flapped her wings and felt sorry for herself, leaving Beijing for more than ten years.

A gentleman is poor, who wants to meet today without paying for drinks?

Thousands of miles are dark, dark and faint, and the north wind blows snowflakes and heavy snow.

Don't worry about the road ahead, don't know the king of the world?

Translation:

Thousands of miles away in Huang Yun, the sky and the sun are dark, and the north wind is blowing snow. Don't worry about having no friends ahead. Who doesn't know you in the world? Like a bird vacillating and feeling sorry for itself. It has been more than ten years since it left Luo Jing. A gentleman is determined to win when he is poor, but he can't afford to pay for drinks when he meets today.

reference data

Yu Haidi. Complete works of Tang poetry appreciation. Beijing: China Overseas Chinese Publishing House, 20 10.

6. Farewell poem 1, Luo's "Give someone a unique skill in Yishui" If you don't go to yan dan here, a strong man will break his wrist. Everyone left before, but today the water is still cold. -It is a kind of agitation to respect the integration of ancient and modern Jing Ke, omit branches and vines and go straight to historical events. The last two sentences are full of feelings, and there are contrasts in the scenery. Jing Ke's spirit still exists for thousands of years, and the poets are right. "Pure" is a work that expresses feelings and praises ambition, and it is the first to open the atmosphere. 2. Wang Bo's Don't Xue Hua has been sent to many different roads, and he has always been interested in it. A thousand miles of sadness, a hundred years of wandering heart. His career was bitter and bitter. Whether he is going to live or alive, he is a dreamer. Poverty and independence are vivid pens, and they go all the way. Writing about life experience and political frustration without paying attention to farewell failed to shake off personal sadness. Across the wall of Sanqin, across the fog of five rivers, we two officials who run counter to each other say goodbye sadly. However, when China keeps our friendship, heaven is still our neighbor. Why do you wander at the fork in the road and their children * * * touch the towel? -When Du Shaofu took office, they were all guests. Don't be sad, wash away the sad and sour state of parting, with an open artistic conception and bright colors. The second part of Two Farewells on a Moonlight in Jiangting is full of smoke cages, and the bright moon flies south. Loneliness is hidden in the pavilion, and the mountains are cold at night. -Written by a guest who lives in Bashu, through the description of the scenery, he indirectly expressed that after seeing off his friends, he looked around the pavilion, looked up at the bright moon and overlooked the mountains and rivers. The feeling of desolation and loneliness naturally emerges on the paper, and the night is deep and cold. With this word, the realm has come out. 3. Meng Haoran's "Farewell to Wang Wei" I waited slowly and reluctantly day after day. Until now, I have to go. The flowers on the roadside are so sweet. If they don't mean goodbye, the lords of the old friend kingdom are very strict with us, and the people who handle affairs are not our own kind. You should just be lonely, and I will close the door of my old garden. -there is bitterness in resentment and sincere feelings. There are neither beautiful pictures nor gorgeous words. The sentence is plain, almost spoken, and the duality is extremely natural. Wang Changling's Farewell to Xin Jian at Furong Inn has a deep aftertaste. 4. It's cold and rainy in Wu, and it's plain and clear in Chushan. Friends, if Luoyang friends ask me to come; Just say that I still bing Xin Okho, adhere to faith! -the first sentence was written in the bleak autumn, which also rendered the bleak atmosphere of parting. Chill is not only in the storm of the river, but also in people's hearts. The second sentence is openness and loneliness-setting emotions, that is the scene. You answered, "I'm not satisfied", and then rested at the foot of Nanshan .. But when you return to Mo, the clouds are gone. -sending a friend to retire seems dull, but under close reading, it is simple and full of leisure. My friend, I have been watching you go down the mountain. Until now, I have closed the door of the thatched cottage in the dark, and the grass has turned green again in spring. But, my friend's prince, have you seen it? ? -Don't write farewell, unique, different from his poems. Taking farewell as a dark field, but writing the feelings of loneliness, disappointment and sadness after farewell, it is often thicker and thicker when the sun sets the next day after farewell, but it is only expressed by Gai Chai Fei. Picking up seemingly ordinary materials from life and expressing deep and sincere feelings in simple and natural language are often tasteless and fascinating. The green willow in the guest house is new in color. I advise you to have a glass of wine. There is no reason why the west should not go out. -A friend was ordered to go to Anxi and say goodbye in Weicheng. The first two paragraphs show the time, place, environment and atmosphere, and the scenery is fresh and clear. It was an affectionate parting, but it was not fascinating. On the contrary, it is light and full of emotional appeal. Three or four sentences are moments with rich connotations. Wen Daolong applied for five rivers. I am worried about the bright moon, and I will go to Yelangxi with you. The first sentence describes the scenery and seasons, and Yang's rules imply the feeling of autumn. The second sentence says that there is no sorrow in the five rivers, and the meaning of sorrow is self-evident. After crossing the five rivers, I saw the desolation and the difficulty of the road. After two lyrical sentences, it is difficult for people to meet each other, and the bright moon is thousands of miles away, so I sent it. Nobody understands, so we have to rely on the bright moon. Second, only oneself and friends in both places can see the bright moon. Third, there is no other way to get rid of your troubles except relying on her. Through imagination, you can turn the heartless month into a bosom friend and give your feelings to objective things, making them equally emotional, that is, personalized. This is a major feature and advantage of thinking in images. When poets want to express strong or profound feelings, they often use this technique to achieve the desired effect. In To Wang Lun, Li Bai was about to leave by boat when he suddenly heard a song on the shore. Peach Blossom Pond is deeper in thousands of feet than in Wang Lun. -The first two sentences are narratives, and the last two sentences are lyrical. Through the comparison of things, sincere and pure affection is vividly expressed. It is ethereal and sighing. Natural and true. On the way to seeing Meng Haoran off to Yangzhou, the Yellow Crane Tower went west, and fireworks went down to Yangzhou in March. Sailing alone, only the Yangtze River flows in the sky. -Different from the strong parting of a teenager in Biography of Shu and the affectionate and poetic feeling in Chengwei Qu, it is the parting of two romantic and chic poets. Parting is also related to prosperity, prosperity and prosperity. In the happy parting, there is also the yearning of the poet Li Bai. Fireworks were added before March, and the atmosphere of the poem was smeared in the farewell environment, which was particularly rich, beautiful in artistic conception and beautiful in words. The last two sentences seem to describe the scenery, but they contain a poetic detail, which friends still watch after they leave. "A Farewell to Jingmen" sails from Jingmen Ferry, and soon you will be with people in the south. It is the end of the mountain and the beginning of the plain. The river winds through the wilderness and the moon is lifted like a mirror. Yun Sheng meets Lou Hai. The water brings you the feeling of home and makes your boat travel 300 miles. -the first couplet tells the whereabouts, and the second couplet is appropriate. This landscape contains the poet's cheerful mood and youthful vitality. Neck couplets wrote distant views and close views, while tail couplets were attached to fellow villagers without missing them. Instead, he said that the water in his hometown was reluctant to go all the way, and he was affectionate and showed his homesickness. Words are endless and artistic conception is lofty. The image is fantastic and the imagination is magnificent. 1 1, Gao Shi's Don't Move Big, thousands of miles away in Huang Yun, the north wind blows geese and snow. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and everyone knows you. -Generous elegy is a poem from the heart, painted with heroic and handsome colors with sincere friendship and firm belief.

7. The ancient poem Bodhi has no trees.

The mirror is not a stage.

There's nothing,

Where is the dust?

Face the suffering calmly.

The past has become the past. Don't look back. When you encounter bumps, you will inevitably look back. However, in this case, it is easy to produce negative emotions.

Former US President Nixon has been in politics for many years. He was the first president in American history in the 20th century who was forced to resign because of Watergate. In his eighties, a sad thing happened to him, and his wife left him forever. Facing the misfortunes in his career and personal life, Nixon said with emotion: "The secret of longevity is not to look back, but to look forward. You have to find something to live for, or it's the end of your life. " Because of this, he buried himself in writing after leaving office and has written nine books so far, seven of which are world bestsellers. In his view, too many memories will only bring sadness to one's mind and make one's mood greatly tense.

From a psychological point of view, memory is a source of psychological stress. Of course, the taste of memories varies from person to person and from scene to scene, but when memories come to mind, there is always a different taste. Whether it is a glorious past or a gloomy past, memories will not be a kind of beautiful enjoyment. Sweetness will fade with the passage of time, and bitterness will become astringent because of old scores. So, don't recall the past, your mind will be much easier.

Everything has two sides, don't just stare at the bad side.

Everything has two sides, both advantages and disadvantages. There can be neither advantages nor disadvantages. Smart women know which advantages are big and which disadvantages are small, so as to "choose the big and abandon the small". Everyone should seek advantages and avoid disadvantages when making a choice. It's just that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages As long as this is the case in the long run, we should give up the temporary "superiority" and "small interests" and pursue the potential "big interests" with development prospects.

If there is a "criterion" in psychology before choosing: pros and cons are real reality and pros and cons are quite good, then you will not be lost because of loss, nor will you be arrogant because of gain. Facing life like this, we must be open-minded.

Sadness is a personal feeling. Try to imagine a worse situation.

In psychological trauma, sadness is undoubtedly the culprit. If you want to get rid of this "killer", you can take the method of "fighting poison with poison".

There was an English businessman who was heavily in debt because of business failure and never recovered from it. One day, when a disabled person who lost his feet and walked on a wooden board with wheels happily said "good morning" to him, he was so ashamed that he came home and wrote these words on the mirror that he could see every day: "I have been depressed because I have no shoes to wear; Until I was in the street, I saw a man with a missing leg! " From then on, he regained his confidence, worked hard, and finally paid off all his debts, and his business grew bigger and bigger.

When sadness strikes, you can imagine a worse situation than you, and maybe your sadness will be dispelled. This kind of psychological self-defense actually adopts the method of "fighting poison with poison". When you realize that there are more difficult situations in the world than you, your mind will be suddenly enlightened.

8. What are the poems that express "feelings of parting"? 1, Parting with Xin Jian at Furong Inn?

Tang Dynasty: Wang Changling

Misty rain enveloped Wu's day overnight; Send you in the morning, lonely and sad in Chushan!

Friends, if my friends in Luoyang invite me; Just say I'm still Bing Xin Okho, and stick to my faith!

The cold rain spread all over Wudi River overnight. After seeing you off in the morning, even the hazy distant mountains seemed lonely! When I arrive in Luoyang, if my relatives and friends in Luoyang call me, please tell them that my heart is still as crystal clear and pure as ice in a jade pot!

2. "Send a friend"

Tang Dynasty: Li Bai

Green mountains are located on the north side of the city wall, and the sparkling water surrounds the east of the city.

Here we say goodbye to each other, and you, like losing your father, are floating in the wind and traveling far away.

Floating clouds are like wanderers, like wandering, and the sunset slowly goes down the mountain, which seems to be nostalgic.

With a wave of his hand, he will be separated from now on, and his friend on horseback will carry him on a long journey, blowing a long wind, as if reluctant to leave.

Castle Peak stretches across the north of the city, and the sparkling water surrounds the east of the city. Here we say goodbye to each other, and you are like a lonely tent floating in the wind, traveling thousands of miles. Floating clouds are as erratic as wanderers, and the sunset slowly goes down the mountain, which seems to be nostalgia. He waved goodbye frequently and left, and the horse hissed to say goodbye.

3. "Line, line"

Han Dynasty: Anonymous

You walk, walk, walk all the time, thus separating your life from mine.

Since then, you and I have traveled thousands of miles, I am in heaven, and you are in heaven.

The road is so dangerous and far away, when I meet you, can I know when?

North Malaysia is still attached to the north wind, south birds fly north, and nest in the south branch.

The longer they are apart, the wider they become and the thinner they become.

Wandering clouds cover the sun, and wanderers are reluctant to return in foreign countries.

Just because I want you to age me, another year will soon end.

There are many other things to say, just wish you take care of yourself and don't be hungry and cold.

You keep walking and walking, thus separating you from me. From then on, you and I are thousands of miles apart, I am at the end of the day, and you are at the end of the day. The road is so difficult and so far. Do you know when it is time to meet? North Manan is still connected to the north wind, and southern birds fly north to nest in the south branch.

The longer we are apart from each other, the wider our clothes are and the thinner we are. The wandering clouds covered the sun, and the wanderers from other places didn't want to return it. Just because I miss you, I am old, and another year is coming to an end. There are many things I won't say. I only wish you take care and don't be hungry and cold.

4. "Yulouchun intends to return before respecting"

Song Dynasty: Ouyang Xiu

I'm going to talk about the date of return before I respect you. I want to talk about spring first. Ah, there is love in life, and love is in the depths of madness. This is not irrelevant to hate-the wind overhead, the moon in the sky.

Before the farewell party, Mo sang a new tie. This song has a sad feeling. It's easy to see all the flowers in Los Angeles at first.

Before opening the bottle, I plan to set a return date and long for a drink. When I want to say something, the beautiful woman has nothing to cry, like the charming face of the spring breeze, I will mourn myself first. Ah, life is sentimental, and it doesn't matter if you don't hate it-the breeze on the roof and the bright moon in the sky.

Don't sing new songs and clear songs before farewell, which has made people sad. Ah, at this time, you only need to see all the peonies in the city, and then you can travel with me, so that you can bid farewell to the spring breeze less sadly.

5, "butterfly lovers, tears wet Luo Yi powder full"

Song Dynasty: Li Qingzhao

Tears wet Luo Yi powder full, four stacks of sunshine, singing all over Qian Qian. The humanity mountain is long and broken, and the rain smells loneliness.

Say goodbye to the injury, never forget to leave, the wine is deep and shallow. It's better to read books in yan zhen than Penglai in the east.

When I broke up with my sisters, my clothes and cheeks were wet with parting tears. The parting "Yangguanqu" was sung over and over again, even though there were thousands of words, it was difficult to express my feelings. Now I am in a foreign land, looking at Laizhou Mountain. Boarding home, drizzling autumn rain, can not help but make people feel infinite sadness.

Parting makes me sad. I don't know how the two sisters drank the farewell wine when they left. I don't know whether the wine in that cup is deep or shallow. Finally, I ask my sisters that you should send the news to the past geese to comfort my heart. After all, Donglai is not as far as Penglai.