Characteristics of women and men

The characteristics of female men are that girls don't like coquetry, are independent, have self-pursuit, don't like makeup, don't like dressing up, are informal, are brothers with boys, and don't want to ask for help at will.

Nowadays, many girls are proud to be women, which is in line with Karen Horney's point of view: Women want to be men because they want to have the qualities or privileges that our culture thinks belong to men, such as strength, courage, success, sexual freedom and the right to choose a partner.

In fact, due to the complexity of the social environment, it is sometimes difficult for us to really give a definition of "female essence" or "male essence". While trying to explore the essence, it is important to promote the perfection of human personality. Courage, health, generosity, independence, gentleness, carefulness, thoughtfulness and patriotism are not the patents of a certain kind of people, but the qualities that everyone can have.

Undeniably, the popularity of female men has its positive side, which shows the spirit of women's pursuit of self-improvement and self-consciousness. There is a unique beauty in their works, only external temperament. However, we should also calmly think about the popularity of female men. If it is overheated, it is an abnormal phenomenon.

The popularity of female men has a great relationship with the influence of society and family, which is shaped by social competition and survival pressure, influenced by the inertia of family cultivation since childhood, and worshipped by the trend of social feminization. It can be said that the popularity of female men is accompanied by the feminization or even pseudonymization of some men, and it is not normal for these two tendencies to reach the extreme.

The word "female man" was born with the traditional concept, in order to implement the so-called "equality between men and women". In some people's eyes, sexy, feminine and other words are downright derogatory to women. They think that women are despised by men because of their gender charm, so to reverse men's views, they must act like men.

Girls who are straightforward, open-minded, informal, independent and capable are directly nicknamed by the opposite sex, sometimes ridiculed as boys, and even some girls who do not have these qualities will be treated like this. Girls who really have masculine hairstyles, wear men's clothes and love to pretend to be men will be defended by other women.

The whole society should reflect on how to treat gender equality better, instead of developing gender equality into gender exchange or gender indifference. It is impossible for society to form values that only men can survive. The charm of a woman lies in that you are gentle but powerful. Women's independence, autonomy and atmosphere can exist, but it is not a means of protest, and it cannot be considered that only such girls are the "good girls" type of equality between men and women.