Whose business is study?

Whose business is study? This is a problem that seems to be not a problem but puzzles many people. Among the participants, some people think that students are the main body of learning, and learning is of course their business; Some people think that a famous teacher makes a noble apprentice; Some people think that joint efforts can achieve success ... in fact, this is a multiple-choice question, and the answer is not unique. I hope this topic can inspire students, parents and teachers in contradiction. Parents should not put the blame on their parents. This autumn, my daughter went to primary school. My life picture has become like this: I am busy with complicated work at work every day, dragging my tired body home, and I have to start another "part-time job"-completing the "homework" assigned by the teacher! Every night, I will dictate words to my daughter according to the teacher's arrangement, work out dozens of arithmetic problems for her, then check and correct the wrong requirements, without pointing out the maze, and finally sign to prove that all this is true! Repeatedly, it is really too tired! I told my difficulties to several colleagues who have children at school, but I didn't expect them to be experiencing such troubles. A colleague said that his children are in the fourth grade of primary school, and he helps them with their homework and teaches them to draw every night. Even though he knew nothing about English, he was asked to correct his child's English pronunciation. "This is not coming? The teacher delegated the task of educating children to parents. What are they doing? " Colleagues are quite complaining. It is true that parents are duty-bound to educate their children, but if teachers blindly "evade responsibility" and "amplify" their parents' functions and want to train their parents as "tutors", is the teacher suspected of being "lazy"? It is not necessarily a good thing for children that parents are forced to "intervene" without training for no reason. I hope teachers can understand parents' difficulties and take on more responsibilities themselves. (Yu Wen, Zhengzhou) Teachers responded to the question of cultivating habits. If parents can cultivate their children's habit of consciously learning from an early age, they can cultivate their children's interest in learning. Of course, children can learn on their own initiative without parents. However, this is too difficult! Most parents prefer to spend time with their children reading books and attending classes instead of thinking about how to cultivate their children's habit of self-study. So I can only passively accept the tasks assigned by the teacher. I hope parents can change their mentality, don't take these jobs as a burden passively, and can they take it as an opportunity to cultivate their children's study habits and abilities with teachers? Indeed, parents are uneducated and have little contact with their children. So the requirements for teachers may be a bit difficult! But it can't solve the habit problem of children's conscious learning, and the fatigue of parents may really become a "dead knot." (Zhengzhou Zhang Huaixin) Teach children to change their stories. After watching the weather forecast, my son is still watching boring advertisements. I said, "It's time to do my homework!" Hearing the ultimatum, my son reluctantly went to do his homework. Half an hour later, I opened the door and found my son asleep at his desk. I picked him up and gave him a good beating. My son was awakened by my sudden behavior. He tried to break away from me, crying and asking, why did you hit him? I pointed at him and asked angrily, did you learn it for me? "As soon as my son heard it, he turned against me." I'm sleepy, why not take a nap? You gave me English and Olympiad. I'm not going! "My son simply stayed. I froze. I can't help asking myself, is it wrong for me to enroll my son in remedial classes for his bright future? I go home after a day's work to urge him to do his homework, check his homework, sign his homework and supervise his study. Is it wrong? I wonder, what role do parents play in their children's study? Is it an ugly supervisor or a loving father like a teacher and friend? I suddenly realized that learning is a son's business, and it is not good for parents to take care of it too much. As parents, we should not only provide more convenience and opportunities in material and learning conditions, but also give him more care and love in physical and mental health. In particular, don't make decisions for growing children, respect their wishes, give them their own space, and cultivate their subjective initiative in learning. From then on, I began to change my concept and way of thinking about children and live in harmony with my son. (Fang Fei, Luohe Heart Grass) The teacher's point of view is that he is willing to play a supporting role. The soul of quality education is to take students as the main body and let students get vivid development. In other words, the protagonist of learning is the student, and any external intervention can't play a decisive role. However, as our teachers and parents, we must never act as shopkeepers. We are the supporting role of children's learning, which is to create a good environment for children's learning. In school, teachers are hard-working gardeners. They should teach children how to learn, cultivate their interest in learning and stimulate their curiosity. At home, our parents are hard-working gardeners. It is necessary to cooperate with the teacher to complete the children's learning tasks and urge the children to complete their homework. Only in this way can our education receive good results. (Nanyang Li Rui) As the saying goes, "the master leads the door, and the practice depends on the individual". In learning this matter, children's efforts are of course the first, but it is also inseparable from the correct guidance of teachers and the strong cooperation of parents. The so-called internal and external combination, the three parties have their own responsibilities, so that children's learning progress. (Zhengzhou Yang) Teachers and parents must fulfill the obligation of supervision until children develop good study habits. In fact, if parents watch TV and play mahjong at home at night and let their children do their homework at home, will he feel at ease? It is not enough for us to "hope" our children to succeed. There are still many things to do. Behind successful children, there must be parents and teachers who have devoted themselves silently for many years. (Zhengzhou Lu) Students are internal factors, teachers are dominant and parents are the backing. Only when the three parties form a joint force and twist into a rope can we realize our ambition of becoming a talent. (Sun Lihong, Zhengzhou) Teachers are sacred, and it is their job to teach and educate people. As guardians of children, parents should set an example and give their children a healthy learning environment. (Zhengzhou Pan Qingju) A person's growth is inseparable from family, school and society. Parents have certain obligations and responsibilities to help their children successfully complete their studies. Children's learning is not only the responsibility of teachers, but also the assistance of parents. Everything parents do is just to serve their children's learning and provide them with an effective learning platform. Therefore, learning is a child's own business, but it is essential for parents to provide children with learning conditions. (Wang Weifeng, Yan Ling) Students need teachers to stimulate their enthusiasm for learning. Therefore, the role of teachers is very important for students' autonomous learning. Teachers should carefully design courses so that students can acquire knowledge and cultivate their learning ability and interest. Teachers' ideas need to be changed, as well as nanny-style teaching methods, so that students can truly become the main body of learning and experience the fun of learning. (Shangqiu Chen Wei) Although learning is a student's business, students' academic performance, hobbies and ideals are closely related to their parents. Frequent and effective communication, correct guidance and help are essential. Parents should always keep in touch with school teachers to keep abreast of students' study at school. For parents, it is important to create a happy learning environment for their children, stimulate their interest in learning, make them realize the importance of knowledge and get happiness from learning. (Pingdingshan Yan Mingtao) Learning is a matter for students, but it needs the assistance of parents and teachers. Therefore, students should consciously study hard, teachers should care about guidance, and parents should worry about their food, clothing, housing and transportation. (Shangqiu Deep Sea) Party B's view is that the key to children's learning is autonomy. If teachers and parents do everything for children everywhere, children's autonomy in learning will be lost instead of helping them. Parents and teachers should dare to let go and give their children the initiative to learn. Let children know that learning is their own business and needs to be done by themselves. Give children free space, reasonable time and appropriate difficulties, let them arrange their own study and life, and let them exercise and grow. This is what parents and teachers should do. (Chen Yunfei, Xinxiang) When the master enters the door, he practices in the individual. Students are the main body of learning. The key to the enhancement of comprehensive quality and the improvement of academic performance lies in their own efforts, their own scientific learning methods and accurate learning goals, as well as their willingness and initiative to learn. The teacher's task is to solve doubts and teach methods and skills. The task of parents is to give study guidance and life security. (Shang) Third-party views make great teachers. A western philosopher once said that even an ordinary child can become a genius with proper education. Confucius also said that "teaching is different" and "teaching students in accordance with their aptitude". It can be seen that teachers play the most important role in children's learning. Teachers are the people who lead children to walk in the maze of knowledge.