Techniques for politely rejecting others

The art of rejection undoubtedly makes us more reserved and understanding. If everyone could embrace the art of saying no, there would be less arguments and hatred in our lives. Below is a collection of tips on how to politely reject others. You are welcome to learn from them.

1. Use silence to express? No?

When others ask: "Do you like so-and-so?" You don't like it in your heart. At this time, you can not express your opinion or laugh it off. Others will understand. A friend you don't know well invites you to a party and sends you an invitation. You don't have to reply. This itself shows that you do not want to participate in such activities.

2. Use procrastination to express your rejection

A girlfriend wants to date you. She asks you on the phone: "Would you like to go dancing at eight o'clock tonight?" You can answer: "Let's make another appointment. I will call you then." ?

A guest asks you to change a room for him. You can say: Sorry, this has to be decided by the manager on duty. He is not here now. ?

You and your wife were walking down the street together. Your wife saw a beautiful dress and wanted to buy it. You can pat your pocket and say: Oops, I forgot my wallet. ?

Someone wants to talk to you, you look at your watch: Sorry, I have to attend a meeting, can it be done another day?

3. Use avoidance to express? No?

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You and your friends went to see a bad martial arts movie. After leaving the theater, your friend asked, "How was the movie?" You can answer: "I prefer more lyrical movies." ?

You have a fever but don’t want to tell your friends to avoid worrying. The friend asked with concern: "Can you try your body temperature?" You said: "It doesn't matter, the weather is not very good today." ?

4. Use rhetorical questions to express your opinions

You talk about state affairs with others. When the other party asks: ?Do you think prices are growing too fast? You can answer: ?Do you think the growth is too slow?

Your lover asks: ?Do you like me? You can answer: ? Do you think I like you?

5. Reject politely

When someone gives you a gift and you cannot accept it, you can politely refuse: 1. It is to say polite words; the second is to express that you are flattered and dare not accept it; the third is to emphasize that the other party will have more uses if you keep it.

6. Use diplomatic language to say? No?

When diplomats encounter questions that they do not want to answer or are unwilling to answer, they always use one sentence to prevaricate: "No" Can be informed. In life, when we are temporarily unable to say yes or no, we can also use this sentence. There are also some words that can be used to prevaricate: ?God knows. ?The facts will tell you. ?This? It’s hard to say. ?etc.

It is not difficult to learn to refuse tactfully and say "no" appropriately. As long as you understand the above method, express your negative thoughts in the most ideal way, and integrate it into your actual life, it will definitely help your interpersonal communication. I hope this art spreads into everyone's heart.