Hefei 165438+ October weather

0 1 It's early June in Hefei, and beginning of winter has passed, but the weather still doesn't mean to get cold. The temperature at noon is about 20 degrees.

Ginkgo biloba leaves on both sides of the road have already turned golden yellow, and there is a yellow leaf under the plane tree. When the wind blows on you in the morning and evening, you will feel a little cold.

Recently, I read a news that when people reach middle age, various crises follow.

This topic says: there is no stable job in the world.

A child's father said, you should never wait until one thing can't be done before thinking about the next.

Many people suffer from passive transformation at work.

For example, when a person is in his forties, the company fires you, and you suddenly become stupid, because you never thought that you would be fired, and you didn't make any preparations.

You think your current skills can support you for a lifetime, but they are gone.

And you feel particularly stable because you have an iron rice bowl.

But the thing about the iron rice bowl is that when people say yes, they say no.

So it's important to plan ahead.

What you are doing now, one is related to work, and the other is related to passion.

People must have passion when they are alive, that is, there are some things you are willing to do.

Such as Confucius.

As the leader here, Confucius slaughtered everything and became a great shepherd. This is Gao Qian. It stands to reason that this is an iron rice bowl. But Confucius left a skill: teaching.

If the country has a way, I will come out to be an official; If the country has no choice, I will go back to teaching.

Advance or retreat, always walk on two legs.

This is the π type talent.

So don't wait until one thing can't be done before thinking about the next.

At least you should think about it. At least leave yourself a passion-oriented skill.

I'm impressed.

02 people are not as good as dogs in middle age.

There are old people in the world and young people in the world, so we dare not be careless in our work. Even if I am scolded by my boss, I still dare not resign because I have to support my family.

The financial crisis will become the sword of Damocles on many middle-aged people.

However, middle age is a period that everyone must bear.

Because I am no longer young and strong, I often feel exhausted because of the decline of my physical function.

I once dreamed of going to the ends of the earth with a sword, but often before I went out, I was eaten away by the pressure of reality and the chicken feathers of life.

Zhang Ailing once wrote in the book: A middle-aged man often feels lonely, because when she opens her eyes, she is surrounded by people who depend on him, but there is no one he can rely on.

This is the most quoted passage to describe middle-aged men.

But I like this passage of Zhang Ailing better: the happiness of middle age-many people think that youth is the best period of life, in fact, because they have forgotten many unpleasant things in youth-had not found themselves at that time, even in their twenties. I would rather in middle age, especially in the early middle age, people gradually mature and have an inner peace, which I didn't know before.

I believe this is what Zhang Ailing really thinks: middle age is better than youth.

03 35 years old, medium rare.

Everything is just right, my mind is gradually mature, my heart is gradually peaceful, and I know myself better than before.

Although I feel anxious sometimes, I will wake up full of energy.

At this age, only one survival skill is not enough. As I said before, besides work, you must find something that can ignite your passion.

When we love life, we will find it has infinite charm: the noise of the day, the tranquility of the night, the dizziness of alcohol, the gentleness of the piano … and the incredible happiness and a lot of time when we wake up alive.

Middle age, in fact, is not as terrible as imagined.

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Towards Tanggula: a middle-aged girl who races against time to pursue her dreams, a writer who can switch between short stories and long stories at will.