How can life be happy?

Now most families can have plenty of food and clothing, but it seems that everyone's eyes can only see what they don't have and can't see what they have. So I kept running around after what I wanted. Contented people are always happy, so know how to be content.

Desire is endless. If everything in the world wants it, I'm afraid it's impossible for us all our lives. The more people want, the more tired they live, because they have to work hard to get it. So we should reduce our desires and cherish what we have.

Enrich your life, and you can accumulate more experience by doing one more thing. A person's life is only a few decades, and it is too long to muddle along.

I'm happy to answer your question. The following are some of my own understandings and opinions. I hope I can help you, and I hope you will like my answer.

First of all, I think people can live happily as long as they are open, rich and learn to find their own happiness. Do you think you will be happy if you are always quarreling with others about small and trivial things?

Secondly, we must establish a correct outlook on life and the world. Don't ask too much of yourself, but set your own goals according to your own abilities. Make it possible for us to achieve our goal, give us a sense of accomplishment, and your mood will be very happy. If your goal is too big and too wide, you may not be able to achieve it because your ability is limited, and then you will lose information and your mind will become negative! We should also learn to self-regulate emotions, eliminate negative emotions, and let ourselves live in a pleasant environment every day. If we are in a bad mood when doing things in life, it is possible that the efficiency and quality of doing things will not be recognized by the leaders and lead to criticism of ourselves, then you will not be happy!

Thirdly, if we want to live a happy life, optimism and positive attitude are the most important. Optimism can broaden your mind, make your heart develop healthily and better, make your interpersonal communication better and make your work smoother! With an optimistic and positive attitude, when you move towards your goal, you will increase your happiness and self-confidence, let happiness always accompany you, you can get the greatest happiness and happiness psychologically, and you will have a happy day …

Thank you for reading, I hope you like it, and welcome everyone to discuss it together!

Hello, I'm Tiger Brother, and I'm glad to answer your question!

First of all, I think as long as people are open-minded and generous, they can live happily and learn to find their own happiness. Do you think you will be happy if you are small-minded and always haggle with others and quarrel with others?

Secondly, we should establish a correct outlook on life and the world. Don't ask too much of yourself, set your goals within the range you can accomplish according to your own abilities. Try to make it possible for you to achieve your goal successfully, let us have a little sense of accomplishment, and your mood will be very happy. If your goal is too big and too wide, you may not be able to accomplish it, because your ability is limited, then you will lose information and become negative! We should also learn to self-regulate emotions, eliminate bad emotions, and let ourselves spend every day in a pleasant environment. If we do things with bad emotions in life, it is possible that the efficiency and quality of doing things will not be recognized by the leaders and will lead to criticism, then you will definitely not be happy!

Third, we want a happy life, and an optimistic and positive attitude is very important. Optimism can make your mind more open, your mental health can develop better, your interpersonal communication can be better, and your work can be completed more smoothly! With an optimistic and positive attitude, when you move towards your own goals, you will increase your happiness and self-confidence, so that happiness will always accompany you, you will get the greatest psychological happiness and happiness, and you will have a happy day. ...

Hello, everyone, I'm a soldier.

First of all, everyone may have a different definition of happiness. I'm here to express my views.

First of all, in life, food, clothing, housing and transportation are very stable, there is no need to worry, no economic pressure, and the family is harmonious and happy.

Secondly, everyone needs a job, a job they like, not a job they don't like for money, but a stable job without too much pressure.

Finally, to have a healthy body, the body is the most important. Only when you have a body can you live better.

Do the first and sixth points, I believe you will become happier! !

enough is as good as a feast

2. Desire is endless. The more people desire, the more tired they live. You can't go back to the past and you can't reach the future. You can only do it and cherish it.

Gossip will never stop. Don't live for others, you will be very tired.

4. enrich your life. A person's life is only a few decades, and it is too long to muddle along.

Life is zero, and you can't take anything away at the end of life. So learn to face the gains and losses in life calmly. The more you gain, the more you lose.

6. People's pain is nothing more than missing. The more they think about it, the more annoying they get. Please don't pretend to work hard, and I won't play with you as a result! Think less and do more, and be sure to take practical actions!

Seeing this title, I knew that the topic was how a person who loves life can be happy. That's a good question.

How can life be happy? Different people will have different opinions, so let me say some of my own understanding.

First, spend some time watching some funny jokes every day. By watching these funny jokes, we can broaden our mood and become very optimistic and cheerful with the changes of the characters in the plot.

Second, ask friends to go out to play together. When we take our friends out to play, we can forget some troubles and sorrows behind us. The scenery we see outside will broaden our minds and make us happy.

Third, you might as well play games in your spare time. In the game, after we can kill the biggest boss, those entanglements in our hearts will be completely gone, and we will definitely become happy.

The above three points are my ways to make my life happy, and I hope they are useful to everyone.

Today is 20 19 New Year's Day; Just in the morning, I saw this topic-how to live a happy life?

So, I found an old article.

This text was written on 19 17 New Year's Day; I recorded the activities and feelings of this day and named it "New Year's Day Miscellanies".

I have been wandering outside for nearly twenty years; 19 17 I returned to my former unit-Yueqing Hongqiao Middle School from Ningbo.

In Hongqiao town, I reunited with old acquaintances and learned the use of WeChat. Everything, all the places, are full of joy and have a freshness to the old place.

Miscellaneous notes on new year's day

After lunch in the canteen, I walked towards Qunzhi Bookstore and met Brother Wu on the way. He was surprised at me, why I rushed back to Hongqiao from Ningbo.

I answered: I asked a teacher a few days ago and I have to go to work today.

He smiled and charged:

"Ask me more in the future."

Care is beyond words.

It suddenly occurred to me that my brother who lives next door has made many achievements in business and has become the deputy secretary of our school. Hosting an old friend of mine is still as kind and sensitive as before; I'm getting confused every day.

Feeling backward and insensitive, I got a limerick as follows:

You can't tell the north from the south, and the road is always in a hurry.

How can young people become heroes if they are old and wise?

If everyone is as clear-headed as this brother at this age, young people will have less opportunities to get ahead; So, I am also very confused.

I am so confused, but since I returned to school, my life has been very happy; Old friends and colleagues all know my confusion, especially how to live, and always take care of me everywhere.

I just had lunch in the canteen and saw Brother Ni wearing a sweater. It looks good. I want to buy one too.

He said the buyer was an old neighbor and wanted to accompany me.

I know he has a lot of things to do and don't want to disturb him; He took a pen and paper, drew a detailed map, and pointed out the buyers in that street and that alley.

I went to the bookstore first, and only the proprietress was there. I took out the map drawn by Brother Ni-I have been away from Hongqiao for many years, and I can't remember what and where that "street" is.

The proprietress said that I wouldn't buy clothes that fit me, and suggested that my boss accompany me at night.

She said, let's walk together. This is not a waste of time.

At that time, Tao Yuanming returned to his hometown and often interacted with old friends and neighbors, feeling warm everywhere.

When they meet, they will discuss the growth of crops: "In the revival of the market, grass is full of grass." Meet each other without gossip, Sang Ma long. "

Sometimes I will go to the door to chat: "It is better to call the other party when I come to the door. If there is wine, I will consider it. Acacia wears clothes and laughs endlessly. "

Sometimes I get together with many people to discuss the gains and losses of poetry: "The neighboring songs come from time to time, and the words have passed. Wonders are appreciated and doubts are analyzed. "

Since I returned to school, I also like to sit in the bookstore and chat with my neighbors. There are many well-informed neighbors, which make me feel novel from time to time.

However, what we said is very different from what Teacher Tao said: Is business good this year? Corrupt officials and people's livelihood, as well as the problems of the United States, Taiwan Province Province, South Korea and North Korea; These topics are equally interesting.

As for caring and helping each other, it makes people feel very interesting.

I agree with the proprietress:

Tonight, when her husband can leave the bookstore, he will inform me to go shopping; Go back to your place and take a nap.

Shortly after waking up from a nap, Brother Ni called and told me how to buy a sweater.

I asked some questions about the operation of WeChat, and he patiently gave me some suggestions.

Recently, I learned to play WeChat with my mobile phone and watch news online, which is very interesting.

Wang Wei wrote a poem "Traveling in Zhongshan, Opening a Zen Temple", and the last four sentences of the poem were intercepted, which can be used as my portrayal:

In unexpected places, birds can't feel the wind when the song rings.

At this time, I love the internet and am still welcome.

Wang Wei's poem "Love Net" means that he suddenly felt detached (beyond the secular "net") under the influence of Buddhist atmosphere when he was traveling in a Zen temple.

I misinterpreted the meaning of these three words: "I especially like the internet"; Even the birds turned a deaf ear, and the breeze brushed their faces, as if they were drunk. Isn't it also very accurate?

After receiving the phone call from Brother Ni, I felt fresh and pleasant near the evening weather. I got up and went for a walk near my residence.

I remember a poem written by Wang Ji, which wrote:

After a hundred years of harassment, everything is known.

The sun goes down casually, and the river flows casually.

Rites and music imprison Ji Dan, while poetry and books bind Kong Qiu.

It is better to sit back and relax and get drunk when you are sad.

("Gift Chu Shi")

I am now strolling along Honggang Road and the nearby fields and rivers. Isn't it also a leisurely state of "the sunset is random and the river is random"?

Ji Dan and Kong Qiu are both tired of music and etiquette, bound by poems and books, and unable to enjoy the pleasure of comfort and natural life.

I hate leaving Confucianism and ignoring the rules of the world, but I only like the word "play".

I often tell jokes with some old colleagues in the canteen.

Occasionally, I can squeeze into the dining table of female colleagues. They pity me for being lonely and more tolerant. What is particularly gratifying is that I also won the benefit of walking with them.

Wang Ji converted to Buddhism in his later years, but the poem said that he still wanted to drown his sorrows with "drunkenness", which shows that his Zen enlightenment has not been fully understood.

I have had gout and don't drink, but fish still stutter. Fortunately, I am not a Buddhist, and I have no concept of vegetarian food. Life is much happier and more comfortable than Ji Wang.

At this time, Qiu's old friend called and said that he had set off from Songao. Today is New Year's Day. Invite me to town to eat noodles in the evening.

I wanted to write more, but since there is free food to eat, let's call it a day.

(Written on New Year's Day on 20 17)

Today, I am very grateful to be here to answer this question at this beautiful moment. Let me take you into this question. Now let's discuss it together.

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