What's the short story about looking at the problem from another angle?

There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail in the fence in the backyard.

On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails.

Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail.

Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.

My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. This fence will never be repaired. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever.

It is not so easy to look at a problem or disaster from another angle. This requires wisdom and courage. When Thomas Edison, the great inventor, was 67 years old, his laboratory was reduced to ashes in a fire, with a loss of more than $2 million. At the height of the fire, Edison's son found his father in the fire. His father watched the fire calmly, and his white hair fluttered in the cold wind ... One morning, Edison looked at the ruins and said, "Disaster has its own value. All our previous fallacies and mistakes have been burned clean, and we can start all over again. " At the age of 67, I watched my life's hard work go down the drain. In the face of this major disaster, others will feel the ruthlessness and even despair of fate. Edison had the courage to face the disaster with dignity, and he had the wisdom to look at the disaster from another angle. He saw the value of his existence, "starting all over again" and new hope from the disaster.

Someone did an experiment, put a group of bees in an open bottle, and the bottom of the bottle was aimed at the sun. Unfortunately, these bees can't fly out. Because they don't know how to look at the problem from another angle, they just want to fly to a sunny place, thinking that they can get out, but they ignore the slightly dim open bottle mouth and eventually die at the bottom of the bottle.

Cai Zhizhong, a famous cartoonist in Taiwan Province, said: If oranges are compared to life, one is big and sour, the other is small and sweet. Some people complain about acid when they eat big ones, and complain about small ones when they eat sweet ones; And some people will be glad that they are sweet when they get small ones, and they will be glad that they are big when they get sour ones.

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Tell four short stories about this problem from another angle.

There was an old woman. Her eldest daughter bought an umbrella and her youngest daughter opened a dye house. When the weather is fine, the old woman is worried about her eldest daughter, afraid that the umbrella will not be sold. On a rainy day, the old woman nursed her little daughter, fearing that the clothes drying cloth would not work. So the old woman is worried every day. A man saw it and said to the old woman, "You are so lucky, old woman. When the weather is good, the little daughter's dye house is in full swing, and when it rains, the eldest daughter's business is extremely good. " The old woman was very happy to hear that. I am happy every day from now on. There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail in the fence in the backyard. On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails. Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail. Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails. My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. This fence will never be repaired. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. It is not so easy to look at a problem or disaster from another angle. This requires wisdom and courage. When Thomas Edison, the great inventor, was 67 years old, his laboratory was reduced to ashes in a fire, with a loss of more than $2 million. At the height of the fire, Edison's son found his father in the fire. His father watched the fire calmly, and his white hair fluttered in the cold wind ... One morning, Edison looked at the ruins and said, "Disaster has its own value. All our previous fallacies and mistakes have been burned clean, and we can start all over again. " At the age of 67, I watched my life's hard work go down the drain. In the face of this major disaster, others will feel the ruthlessness and even despair of fate. Edison had the courage to face the disaster with dignity, and he had the wisdom to look at the disaster from another angle. He saw the value of his existence, "starting all over again" and new hope from the disaster. Someone did an experiment, put a group of bees in an open bottle, and the bottom of the bottle was aimed at the sun. Unfortunately, these bees can't fly out. Because they don't know how to look at the problem from another angle, they just want to fly to a sunny place, thinking that they can get out, but they ignore the slightly dim open bottle mouth and eventually die at the bottom of the bottle. Cai Zhizhong, a famous cartoonist in Taiwan Province, said: If oranges are compared to life, one is big and sour, the other is small and sweet. Some people complain about acid when they eat big ones, and complain about small ones when they eat sweet ones; And some people will be glad that they are sweet when they get small ones, and they will be glad that they are big when they get sour ones. Hope to adopt, thank you.

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Different angles of thinking will lead to different things. Learn to solve difficult problems from different angles. Thinking patterns hinder changing angles. Everyone has his own perspective. To change the perspective of seeing things is to change the way of doing things. It will be easier to think about success from different angles. Put yourself in the other's shoes. A Dream of Red Mansions ... Scholars see Yi, Tao sees Yin, gifted scholars see lingering, revolutionaries see rows of people, gossips see palace secrets. -Lu Xun regarded the hillside as a mountain peak, and the distance was different. Su Shi sometimes needs to leave the usual avenue and dive into the forest. You are sure to find something you have never seen before. If a match burns in your pocket, you should be happy because your pocket is not a powder keg. If you have a thorn on your finger, you should be happy, because the thorn didn't go into your eye. If your wife changes her mind about you, you should be happy because she betrayed you, not your country. -Chekhov When we stand, our specific attitudes towards various specific things will happen. Like praise or exposure? This is the attitude problem. -A thousand people in Mao Zedong have a thousand Hamlets in their eyes. -belinsky Although the pessimist is still alive, the optimist is always young. -British proverb An optimist sees hope in a disaster, and a pessimist sees disaster in hope. -British proverb The measure is short and the inch is long. As the saying goes, separated by a river, everything has two sides. -Happiness of bearers (don't judge others from your own point of view) Russell, the most influential British thinker in the 20th century, came to Sichuan, China on 1924. At that time, China was divided by warlords, and the people were in dire straits. It was summer and it was very sultry. Russell and several people accompanying him went to Emei Mountain in the kind of bamboo sedan chair carried by two people. The mountain road was steep and steep, and several porters were so tired that they were sweating. This situation makes Russell not in the mood to see the scenery, but to think about the mood of several bearers. He thought, the bearers must hate their sedan chairs, and they have to carry them up the mountain in such hot weather. Even they may be thinking, why are they sedan chair people and not sedan chair people? Arriving at a small platform halfway up the mountain, Russell got off the bamboo sedan chair and carefully observed the expression of the sedan chair bearer. He saw the bearers sitting in a row, taking out their pipes, talking and laughing, and didn't mean to blame the weather or the people in the sedan chair. They also told Russell jokes about their hometown with great interest, asked Russell some foreign things curiously, and laughed happily from time to time during the conversation. Russell told this story in his article The Character of China People. And he came to the conclusion that it is wrong to look at other people's happiness with self-righteous eyes. Hawking's fate (optimistic angle) When I think of Hawking, I see the eternal deep eyes and quiet smile of this outstanding master of science. The world admires Hawking not only because he is a hero of wisdom, but also because he is a fighter of life. Once, at the end of the academic report, a young female reporter jumped onto the podium, deeply admired the great scientist who had lived in a wheelchair for more than 30 years, and asked without mercy, "Mr. Hawking, Luger's disease has fixed you in a wheelchair forever." Don't you think fate has cost you too much? " This question is obviously abrupt and sharp, and the lecture hall suddenly becomes silent. Hawking's face is still full of quiet smile. He tapped the keyboard with his fingers that could still move, so with the standard London accent issued by the synthesizer, the following words were slowly but conspicuously displayed on the huge projection screen: my fingers can still move, and my brain can still think; I have an ideal that I have pursued all my life. I love and love my relatives and friends. By the way, I still have a grateful heart ... after my heart trembled, the applause thundered. People flocked to the stage and gathered around this extraordinary scientist to pay sincere respect to him. Jump out of the dead end (from the usual point of view) Abbott, a famous mental arithmetic scientist? Camilo has never miscalculated. On this day, he was performing, and someone came to the stage and gave him a question: "A train with 283 passengers entered the station, 87 people got off and 65 people got on; At the next stop, 49 people will go down and 1 12 people will come up; At the next stop, 37 people go down and 96 people come up; At the next stop, 74 people went down and 69 people came up; At the next stop, 17 people went down and 23 people came up ... "After that, the mental arithmetic master replied disdainfully," Pediatrics! I'm telling you, there are other things on the train-""No, "the man stopped him and said," I'm asking you to figure out how many stops the train stopped. " Abbott? Camilo was stunned, and this group of simple addition and subtraction became his "Waterloo". Napoleon, the real loser of Waterloo, also has a story. After Napoleon was exiled to St. Helena, one of his smooth close friends secretly brought him a chess set made of ivory and nephrite. Napoleon couldn't put it down. From then on, he silently played chess, killing lonely and painful time. The chess was erased and his life came to an end. After Napoleon's death, this chess set was auctioned many times. Later, a master accidentally found that the bottom of a chess piece could be opened, which contained a detailed plan on how to escape from St. Helena! Two stories, two regrets. In fact, all their failures are in their mentality. Mental arithmetic only thinks of stale figures, while military strategists only think of entertainment. They ignored counting and chess. It can be seen that a genius can't walk out of a dead end if he spins around in his own mindset. The paintings of the two masters (different angles, different right and wrong) were commissioned by the Grand Duke of Florence, Italy. Finch and Michelangelo each painted a picture showing the scene of the ancient Florence war. After painting, both paintings caused great repercussions. Michelangelo's paintings show the brave and tenacious fighting spirit of Florence soldiers and the heroic spirit of standing up to defend the motherland, which has won unanimous praise. Da? The Florence soldiers in Finch's paintings are all crazy, and their faces are deformed. These soldiers seem to be in fear and despair. This painting caused people's disappointment and even dissatisfaction. Some people think this is an insult to the glorious Florentine. It was not until later that an art critic asserted that this was Da? Finch "failed once in his life". In fact, this is a wrong judgment. Michelangelo's painting is The Battle of cassina, which depicts the historical facts of ancient Florence's victory over the barbarian invader Babylon. The Battle of Anjali painted by Finch is a war between nobles in 1400. Da? Finch called it "animal madness" in disgust, and his paintings wanted to reveal the cruelty and evil of this war. The last week's food (solving problems from the perspective of changing thinking) In ancient Greece, cruel wars often occurred between city-states. In one of the wars, the Athenian city-states were besieged by rival city-states for half a year. At this time, the Athens Supreme Chief ordered the officials in charge of rations to carefully calculate how much food they had left and how long Athens could last. Before long, the officials panicked and reported that our food was only enough for a week. After a week, the whole city would starve to death. Some officials who first heard the news were also panicked, and they advised the chief executive that instead of being besieged and starved to death, it was better to surrender in Kaesong and save the lives of a city's people. At this time, the officer stood up, his face full of confidence and optimism. He said, we still have a week's food to support, which is great. Can't we make use of this week's breakthrough? Will the enemy's rations last for a week? Can't we think of a better way in a week? Yes, there is still one week, one week, maybe the enemy can't hold on, and we won without fighting. As the chief predicted, when their food could last for three days, the besieged enemy began to retreat, because their military food had been exhausted, and Athens defeated the enemy with confidence and hope. Many times, there are two diametrically opposed views on the same issue. From one point of view, this is a dead end, from another point of view, this is a hopeful sunshine avenue. Use of Pencils (Divergent Thinking from Different Angles) There is a school for the poor in Richmond, new york. 1983, when a Czech doctor of law named Prigerov was doing his graduation thesis, he found that the criminal record of students in this school in new york police station was the lowest in the past 50 years. Przherov launched a long investigation on this. Q: A saint? What did Beinert College teach you? In the past six years, he received 3756 answers. Of these answers, 74% replied that they knew how many uses a pencil could have. He first visited the owner of the largest fur shop in new york, and the owner said, "Yes, Pastor Beinert taught us how many uses a pencil can have. The first composition we entered school was on this topic. At first, I thought that pencils had only one purpose, and that was writing. Who knows that pencils can be used not only to write, but also to make rulers and draw lines when necessary, and also as gifts to express friendship; Can make a profit when selling goods; Pencil lead can be used as lubricating powder after being ground into powder; It can also be temporarily used for makeup during performances; Wood chips can be made into decorative paintings; A pencil can be sawed into several parts, made into a chess set, and used as the wheel of a toy; When there is danger in the wild, the pencil can be used as a straw to drink the water in the crevices; When encountering bad people, sharpened pencils can also be used as self-defense weapons ... in short, a pencil has countless uses. Pastor Beinert made us poor children understand that people with eyes, noses, ears, brains, hands and feet have countless uses, and any use is enough for us to survive. " Preeg rove later interviewed some st? Students who graduated from Beinert University found that no matter their status is high or low, they all have a job and they all live a very optimistic life. Besides, they can all name at least 20 uses of pencils. Listen attentively to people (think and act from each other's point of view) Joe, the king of American automobile sales? Gillard has a deep understanding. Once, a celebrity came to him to buy a car, and he recommended the best model to him. The man was satisfied with the car and took out $65,438+00,000 in cash. It was almost a deal, and the other party suddenly changed its mind and left. Joe has been worried about this all afternoon and can't figure it out. At night 1 1, he couldn't help calling the man: "Hello! I'm Joe? Gillard, I introduced you to a new car this afternoon. You were about to buy it, and suddenly you left. " "Hey, do you know what time it is?" "I'm very sorry, I know it's already 1 1 o'clock in the evening, but I can't think of anything wrong after reviewing it all afternoon, so I'm calling you for advice." "Really?" "heartfelt words." "Very well! Are you listening to me attentively? " "It's very hard." "But you didn't listen to me this afternoon. Just before signing the contract, I mentioned that my dog Jimmy was going to study medicine at the University of Michigan. I also mentioned my dog's academic performance, athletic ability and his future ambition. I am proud of him, but you have no response. " Joe doesn't remember the other person saying these words because he didn't pay attention at all. Joe thinks the deal has been settled. Not only is he not interested in listening to what the other party is saying, but he is also listening to another salesman telling jokes in the office. That's why Joe failed: that man needs to praise an excellent son besides buying a car. Joe? Gillard just didn't "think and act from each other's standpoint." He just took it for granted that it was a deal. Everyone knows that "thinking and acting from each other's standpoint" is a golden saying, but it is really difficult to do it. This is what successful salespeople do. Teach you a lesson with praise (it would be better to look at it from another angle) Among the Babumba people in Africa, there is still an ancient life ceremony. When someone in the clan makes a mistake because of improper behavior, the patriarch will let the person who made the mistake stand in the middle of the village and make a public appearance as a punishment. At this time, the whole tribe will put down their work and come from all directions to "teach" the wrong person with praise. The besieged people will automatically separate the old and the young, and then start with the oldest person and tell the wrong person in turn what good things he has done for the whole tribe in his life. Every nation must describe the merits and good deeds of the perpetrators in sincere language. You can neither exaggerate the facts, nor swear words, nor repeat compliments that others have already said. The whole ceremony of praise should last until all the people have finished their positive comments. Babumba people are very smart. Their attitude towards people who make mistakes is "Although you have made mistakes and shortcomings, we still love you, care about you and accept you." . Since you have done so many good deeds and good deeds for the whole tribe and have so many advantages, please seriously reflect on it and sincerely correct your mistakes. Our whole tribe firmly believes that you must have the confidence and ability to become better. "Yilin story gold coins will be melted? In chemistry class, the teacher took out a gold coin, pointed to the solution in the glassware and asked the students, "I just talked about the nature of this solution." Now, I throw this gold coin in. "Do you think the gold coins will melt?" Son, look at me, I look at you, and no one can answer. Suddenly, Holt, sitting in the first row, stood up and said loudly, "Of course not." "You answered very well," the teacher said approvingly, touching little Holt's head. "You must have understood today's lesson." "I don't know anything." Little Holt looked down and said. "Then why do you know that gold coins will not be melted?" Little Holt quickly replied, "If this solution can dissolve gold coins, how can you put it in?" A scrap copper A father and son saw a scrap copper on the road. The father asked his son how much the copper scrap was worth, and the son said it was worth 3.5 cents. Father said no, it's worth $3.50. Can be made into copper door handles for sale. He also said that others think that 1+ 1 = 2, but in many cases 1+ 1 > 2. Later, my son started the copper processing industry with this idea of 1+ 1 >: 2. Once, after the renovation of the Statue of Liberty, a lot of rubbish was left behind. The city government offered a reward of tens of thousands of yuan, but no one wanted to hire someone to clean it. My son, who is engaged in the copper processing industry, volunteered to clean up the site for free. He classified all kinds of metals, including copper powder, made small tourist souvenirs such as the Statue of Liberty for sale, and even sold dust to flower shops. As a result, he made millions of dollars. Look at waste, waste or waste with the conventional thinking of 1+ 1 = 2. Think about waste with 1+ 1 > 2 from different angles. Waste can be turned into wealth. On the other side of the map, a priest plans to prepare his nagging sermon under very difficult conditions. His wife is out shopping. It was raining that day, and his little son was noisy and annoyed. Finally, in disappointment, the priest picked up an old magazine and turned it page by page until he found a big color picture-a map of the world. He tore the page from the magazine, tore it into pieces and threw it on the floor of the living room. He said, "Little John, if you can put these pieces together, I'll give you 25 cents." The priest thought it would take little John all morning. But within 10 minutes, someone knocked on his door. This is his son. The priest was surprised to find that John spelled out a map of the world so quickly. "Son, how did you get it done so quickly?" Asked the priest. "Ah," said little John, "it's easy. There is a picture of a man on the back of the map. I'll put the picture of this man together. Then turn it over. I think if this person is right, then the world is right. " The priest smiled and gave his son a quarter. "You also prepared a sermon for me tomorrow." He said: "If a person is right, his world will be right." In the well, I chatted with a China student and friend studying in the United States about the changes in their horizons. Because of his excellent grades in primary school, he was admitted to the middle school in the county. He found that he could no longer hold the first prize as he did in elementary school, so he became jealous: all the students who were better than himself had six-edged pencils, but he didn't. This is unfair in heaven! After several years of hard work, he actually became the first in the county middle school. And he thinks: people are still unequal, why don't you have a good pen? After graduating from high school, he was admitted to a university in Beijing, but the good times did not last long, and his academic performance could not even be maintained at the middle level. See the classmates in the city are piles of good pencils and pens, cakes and milk in the morning, fragrant tea and fruits in the evening, think about yourself. I still can't bear to eat a steamed bun in the morning, and I have to leave half at night. "Reasonable" and where to start? ..... Five years later, he studied in the United States and saw the colorful western world with his own eyes, but all his jealousy, inferiority and resentment were suddenly swept away. The comparison standard I choose has changed. What I see is no longer my classmates, colleagues and neighbors, but the whole world. Some people fight on the snail's horn, while others walk hand in hand in space. There is only one result in the struggle of standing by, and that is standing still. When you look at problems from different angles, you may find a whole new world. The secret of not getting angry In ancient times, there was a man named Aidiba. As soon as he got angry, he ran home and ran around his house and the ground three times. Later, his house became bigger and bigger, and more and more land was available. When he is angry, he still has to run around the house three times and land three times, even though he is panting and sweating. Grandson asked, "Grandpa! When you are angry, you run around the house and the land. What's the secret? " Aidiba said to her grandson, "When I was young, when I quarreled, quarreled and got angry with others, I ran around my house and land three times. As I ran, I thought-my house is so small and there is so little land, how can I have time and energy to be angry with others? When I think about it, my anger disappears, and I have more time and energy to work and study. " The grandson asked again, "Grandpa! Why do you run around the house and land as soon as you get rich? " Aidiba said with a smile, "I thought as I ran-my house is so big and there is so much land, so why bother others?" When I think about it, my anger disappears. One day, a doctor called a group of alcoholics together. He did an experiment in front of them: the doctor put two cups on the table, one filled with water and the other with alcohol. He first threw a caterpillar into a glass full of clear water, and everyone watched the caterpillar swim around in the clear water, and then slowly climbed out. Then, the doctor caught the caterpillar again and threw it into a cup full of alcohol. The bug struggled in alcohol for a few times and then died. After watching the experiment, the drunkards looked at each other and there was a long silence in the room. Just as the doctor was about to explain to them that alcohol is harmful to human health, a voice came from the last row of the room: "Doctor, I understand that as long as you drink more, there will never be bugs in your stomach!" "Even if it is a correct concept, there are always people who understand it from a negative perspective. For these people, too much persuasion is useless. Don't waste time on "useless work". Solve the problem from another angle. When a company recruits employees, there is a test question like this: on a stormy night, you drive past a station and find three people waiting for the bus to arrive: the first one is an old woman who looks dying; The second is the doctor who once saved your life; The third is the girl of your dreams. But your car can only accommodate one more passenger. Who would you choose? This is a personality test. Everyone's answer has his reason: maybe you will choose the old woman, because she is going to die, and we have to save her life; Maybe you will choose a doctor, because he once saved your life, and now is your best chance to repay him (but maybe you can repay him continuously in the future); Maybe you will choose the girl of your dreams and miss this opportunity. Maybe you will never find her (him) ... What is the final answer of 200 candidates? "I gave my car keys to the doctor and told him to take my old lady to the hospital quickly, while I accompanied my beloved and waited for the bus to come ..." Sometimes, we can get more without the help of the inherent thinking mode. The story of the new Gong Yu and Zhizuo Gong Yu's family lived here for generations, and the two mountains at the door, King Wu and Taihang, blocked the way. Life is pathetic! It seems isolated from the world. What is new in the city has long been "old news". This life really needs to change. The foolish old man thought, I have to find a way to move Taihang Mountain and Wu Wang. On this day, Gong Yu found his old friend Zhizuo and told him that he wanted to move mountains. Zhisou smiled, touched his beard and thought about it. You know, Gong Yu, even if your son has grandchildren, what's the use of children and grandchildren moving together? A mountain is a mountain after all. How many years will it take to move out? Human and material resources have been invested, what about the benefits? No way! Zhisou is firmly opposed. The foolish old man thought, the mountain can't be moved, so what should I do? Zhisou is really a Zhisou. Soon he came up with an idea and told it to Gong Yu. As soon as Yu Gong heard that he was good, he went back. When he got home, Yu Gong called his family for a meeting. At the meeting, he put forward a wise old method. The whole family thought it was wonderful after listening to it, and they split up the next day. It turned out that Zhisou suggested using these two mountains to develop resources and introduce funds, which not only saved manpower, but also produced economic benefits. Isn't this a good way to kill two birds with one stone? No wonder home is called Miao. In the next few years, Gong Yu personally went up the mountain to explore resources and found many rare animals and plants on the mountain. So Zhisou went to the town to apply for establishing a nature reserve. Gong Yu's son came to town again and invited an engineering team to build a road leading to the mountain. Everything is ready, you should know that they are going to open a nature park. Finally, I have to give it a name. Zhisou thinks that Gong Yu has a high reputation, so it is better to call it "Stupid Garden", and the name is settled. Finally, Zhisou asked the advertising company to help him advertise. After so long, the "Idiot Park" finally opened. This time, Zhisou really contributed. People in the city were surprised to hear that Yugong had opened a park with the Royal Family and Taihang Mountain.