Why is action the best way to realize your ideal?

People who fantasize about not taking action will never succeed. And action is the only way to realize the ideal.

There is an American girl named Sylvia. Her father is a famous plastic surgeon in Boston and her mother is a professor in a famous university. Her family has given her great help and support, and she has every chance to realize her dream. Since middle school, she has always dreamed of becoming a TV presenter. She thinks she has this talent, because whenever she gets along with others, even strangers are willing to get close to her and have a long talk with her. She knows how to extract the truth from people. Her friends call her a "close personal psychologist". She always said, "As long as someone is willing to give me a chance to be on TV, I believe I will succeed."

But what did she do to realize this ideal? Actually, it's nothing She is waiting for a miracle, hoping to become a TV host at once.

Sylvia looked forward to it unrealistically, but the miracle didn't happen.

No one will ask an inexperienced person to be the host of a TV program. And the director of the program is not interested in looking for a genius outside, others are looking for it.

Another girl named Cindy realized Sylvia's dream and became a famous TV presenter. Cindy will succeed because she knows that "there is no such thing as a free lunch" and all success depends on her own efforts. She doesn't have a reliable financial source like Sylvia, so she didn't wait for the opportunity to appear in vain. She works during the day and goes to night school in the department of stage art at the university. After graduation, she began to look for a job and traveled to every radio and TV station in Los Angeles. However, the manager in every place gave her the same answer: "We won't hire people without a few years' work experience. "

However, she didn't want to back down, nor did she wait for opportunities, but went out to look for opportunities. After reading radio and television magazines carefully for several months, she finally saw a job advertisement: a small TV station in North Dakota wanted a girl who predicted the weather.

Cindy is from California and doesn't like the north. However, it doesn't matter whether there is sunshine or not. She hopes to find a career related to TV and do anything! She seized the job opportunity and set off for North Dakota.

Cindy worked there for two years and finally got a job in a TV station in Los Angeles. After another five years, she was finally promoted and became the host of her dream program.

Why did Sylvia fail and Cindy get what she wanted? Sylvia's view of failure runs counter to Cindy's view of success. The difference is that Sylvia has been in fantasy for 10 years, waiting for the opportunity; On the other hand, Cindy took action and finally realized her dream.