Should I travel or go back to my hometown to work steadily?

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Recently, I spent all my time in my hometown.

On my first day home, I looked at the clean country roads. There are no traffic jams, no crowds, no tall buildings, only endless green wheat seedlings.

The country roads and streets in the village are very clean and tidy. Every village has garbage bins, which are cleaned every day. When I got home, I saw a spacious yard, so I no longer had to worry about finding a parking space. This is the real livable environment!

There are no high housing prices, no high-rise buildings and very low consumption.

There are household appliances in cities, but there is no shortage in rural areas. Housing prices in the city are very high. Why do you have to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to pay the down payment? The rest of the time is used to repay the loan.

10-200,000-300,000, which is enough to properly arrange your own farmhouse.

But among the villagers, some young people went to the city to buy a house.

Some people work in the town, that is, in the countryside, and go back to their hometown in the city at night.

Now that the rural economic conditions are better, they all go to the city to buy a house.

I would rather live in dovecote than in my spacious farmhouse.

Why do you want to live in the city?

A friend replied like this: because there is no natural gas and heating in the countryside, others have gone to live in the building and are not frozen. You can't let your wife and children freeze at home.

Isn't it possible to install radiators and burn coal to keep warm in rural areas?

It would be nice to have a central heating system.

How convenient life in the city is.

I wonder why they don't live in a single-family villa and climb stairs to squeeze the elevator. A friend asked me: Then why don't you come back from Zhengzhou and live in the countryside, or come to Qing Dynasty, or go to your husband's countryside? You don't want to go back, do you? We are just like you.

Is it the same?

I am just a daughter who has been married for a long time. Although I have memories, I no longer have my own home here. I have relatives and friends, and I can stay occasionally.

It is even more impossible to go to my husband's hometown. Most people in the village don't know, are unfamiliar, have no memory, and occasionally stay.

Only Zhengzhou is your home. Although there is no big yard, after all, you have your own nest and relatives there.

If I go back to my hometown from a big city, I am in a foreign land.

They are still different from us.

If I were them, I would like to live in the countryside.

I like the big yard in my hometown very much every time I come back. In the yard, I can see the moon counting the stars, especially at night. When the moonlight sets, dogs occasionally bark in the quiet night sky. This is the life we yearn for.

Although I yearn for it, I have been away from home for many years, but I never want to return to my hometown.

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Why don't you want to go home from the big city?

First of all, the convenience of big cities and small counties is incomparable, let alone the countryside.

Once I took the subway with a friend from other places who came to Zheng. I said: Every time I take the subway, I feel like I am in a big city, like Beijing and Shanghai.

A friend asked: isn't Zhengzhou a big city?

When it comes to big cities, it always reminds people of going north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen.

Taking Zhengzhou, a second-and third-tier city, as an example, the convenience of transportation, employment, life and big cities is particularly prominent.

In terms of transportation, Zhengzhou is the provincial capital. Every time I go back to my hometown, I have to check the time when I come back. The road from the county to the countryside at night is extremely unsafe, or it is too inconvenient to stay in a hotel.

It doesn't matter if you live in a big city, but it can be avoided in Zhengzhou. Whenever you get home, there will be a taxi, which is relatively safe.

Near the airport, there are many direct flights to the whole country. If you are in your hometown, you can only take a bus to Jinan and fly.

When looking for a job, online search information exploded. Employers can find many homes within a kilometer or two nearby. If the information in rural areas or county towns is blocked, finding a job will be one or twenty miles away from home or even more.

Besides, in terms of leisure and entertainment, cities, elegance and local culture all exist. Western food, Chinese food, Henan food and Shandong food can be eaten within two kilometers, but in rural areas, there are at most two or three cooking shops in a village, and there are few restaurants in the town. As for the county seat, you can't find a western restaurant or coffee shop without walking three or five blocks and walking a few miles.

In life, although it is convenient to buy things in the countryside now, daily necessities such as daily necessities such as rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea can be used in the village canteen. If you want to buy clothes and other things, you must wait until the market. Compared with the hustle and bustle of big cities, there is still a world of difference.

It is easy to spend in big cities, but it is convenient to save money in small villages.

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Although busy people in the city yearn for spacious courtyards and leisurely slow life in the countryside, few people who have been to the city are willing to return to the countryside.

Not only because of the change of living environment, but also because of the change of humanity.

A friend who is a teacher told me that relatives and friends will attend weddings and funerals. When you say that it is inconvenient to go to work, people will say that you are too arrogant. Please don't move. Some relatives simply don't understand the difficulty of your leave.

In the countryside, there are many manners. In particular, aunts, aunts, uncles and uncles have a lot of entertainment every month. Sons get married, daughters get married, children have full moon wine and so on. Anyone else who is ill in hospital must visit.

Especially when the old man dies, no matter whether the old man was valued or respected before his death, it is extremely beautiful after death. In the name of respecting the elderly, there are funerals, March 7, May 7, Silver, the first anniversary, the third anniversary, the fifth anniversary, ten years, fifteen years, twenty years, twenty-five years and thirty years.

In other words, besides farming time, you have to go to various parties for a large part of your time. It is impossible to go to the park on weekends, and it is impossible to travel to the suburbs. There are few parks, only one or two in the city. There's nothing to appreciate yet. Even if you travel a hundred miles in Fiona Fang, you may not find any interesting places.

It is even more impossible to arrange long-distance travel. It's okay. Who will spend money for fun? As my father said, whoever has spare money, let alone spare money. If you have money, you have to save it to build a house for your son and marry a wife. Those who have completed the task have to save money to help your son raise his grandson, or save money for his own pension.

Low consumption here is also due to low wages and low income. How can we go to high consumption again

There are not many employment opportunities in small counties or rural areas, and many young people have gone to work in other places.

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When the living environment changes, your lifestyle will also change.

You have adapted to the life outside and then returned to your hometown. The local customs here are unacceptable.

Although rural life is not as convenient and fast as urban life, this is not the main reason why we can't go back. The external environment is only a small aspect, and the most important thing is the change of ideas. It is difficult for us to adapt to the mode of getting along here.

Living outside is far from home, but the relationship is simple.

I often envy those who are away from home and have many relatives and friends, but if I really come back here, I think this relationship is extremely complicated, just like a huge net. If I am not good at dealing with complicated interpersonal relationships and don't like excitement, like me, it is best to live elsewhere.

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