When you get married, a woman becomes a fish on the hook.

When you get married, a woman becomes a fish on the hook.

Every time I see reports about naked marriage, I always feel sorry for these sensible girls and worry about their fate and future: will these girls who value their feelings over their lives feel disappointed and regret after many years? Can boys who get cheap be consistent and unchanging?

Love is like riding a roller coaster, which is exciting and beautiful, and you can enjoy different scenery by the way.

Marriage is like climbing a mountain, one step at a time. There is no shortcut, and there is no room for carelessness. We must also face the test of many factors such as bad weather and sinister environment.

Love is like a promise, and marriage is fulfillment.

One is easy, the other is heavy; One is short and the other is long.

Young girls are always full of romantic feelings, mistaking the moment for eternity and the game for life, so they will go forward bravely for love!

Discounted wedding, discounted life.

The wedding I attended a few years ago left a deep impression on me.

There are no rainbow doors and speakers. As the relatives of the groom, our hearts are full of doubts: the family is obviously not deliberately decorated, and the family's calm is even more unexpected.

It turns out that the bride is already at her husband's house and has just added a fat son. As a foreigner, she has lived here for several years and is not going to spend more money on the wedding. Helpless, the family was "too difficult" to agree, and had to make up a ceremony to perfunctory the child's full moon.

I was surprised at that time: the bride was already at her in-laws' house. Which kiss did she marry?

The groom's father said: Yaoyao (the bride's name) also went back by wedding car today. She will go back half an hour early, and the troops will have a rest on the side of the road before going to her house to meet relatives. Save trouble.

I asked: Just after the full moon, the wedding will be held. Can the bride eat? Can the family agree?

The other party's mysterious reply: Yaoyao has given birth to a baby, and it will not happen if she insists on not having a wedding.

The implication: This step is enough to flatter them. What else do you want?

I asked again: how can I hide when my mother's family comes today?

The groom's father is very proud: what do they know thousands of miles away? Let's shut up. They know nothing about it. Besides, they don't care if Yaoyao doesn't go home for a year or so.

Although I attended the wedding as a relative of the man, I deeply sympathized with the bride and hated the elder and the new father-in-law.

Who doesn't burn money now? I'm afraid such cheap brides are rare. I'm more worried about the tragic discount life in the future, which comes down in one continuous line with this discount wedding!

On the way to the wedding, the bride had to get off to find the bathroom and use the breast pump to solve the problem. High heels don't seem to support the bloated and obese body after childbirth. She walks with a limp. I'm worried that there will be sequelae in the future.

How do her parents feel when they know that the girl has suffered so much? Careful and expensive parents may not be able to raise this unruly child! I want to know, whose parents have such a big heart?

Two hours' drive to a remote mountain village. Sure enough, the honest bride's parents can't compare with the shrewd in-laws. They stammered and explained, "The main reason is that they are afraid of the villagers' comments. It would be nice to have a wedding. "

As far as I know, the poorer the place, the higher the bride price, and they have to "sell their daughters" to save the principal for their sons.

It is really rare to see such a practice and people who are contrary to the world.

Unfortunately, kind people don't often meet their peers. On the contrary, I often meet enemies-the groom's family is not stingy at ordinary times, but it is cautious in this big event: refusing to accept bride price, refusing to send red envelopes to parents and relatives, refusing to kneel on one knee when proposing marriage, and even refusing to say "I love you".

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The poor bride gave in step by step.

I don't know how broken and helpless this poor girl is, but I'm sure she must be very aware of her situation ―― is there any other choice at this time? Disagreement can only make yourself and your family more embarrassed.

I suddenly remembered a cartoon.

The wife complained to her husband: You gave me a present before, why didn't you give me anything after you got married?

The husband casually replied, have you ever seen anyone feed bait to the fish caught ashore?

The reality is so cruel.

When you get married and have children, a woman becomes a fish.

I have always despised the unrealistic behavior of the woman asking for a bride price, but after the wedding, I suddenly changed my mind.

Since you can't eat bait when you go ashore, why not have a big meal when you take the bait? Is it ridiculous and stupid to go to sea hungry?

The wedding is far from solemn, and the groom is quite casual from beginning to end. He muttered a few times in a low voice: "It's really troublesome ... tossing people ..." The groom's parents gave the impression that they were not online.

Under normal circumstances, the groom's family is more excited.

How can adding more food to the home not be exciting?

When preparing to exchange red envelopes at home, relatives said "999" "1001",and my father-in-law smiled: "I have been calling my parents for years, and I can't run without red envelopes. There is a meaning, not so much attention! "

In my heart, I cried for the poor bride again and again.

However, who let her belittle her life?

As the old saying goes, chaos begins and abandonment ends. A solemn beginning is not necessarily a good beginning, nor is it necessarily a good end. But it must be difficult to have a happy ending at first.

Song Dandan burst into tears when attending a star's big wedding: "Why have I been married three times? Because I have never had a decent wedding! "

Therefore, every girl should not only respect herself, but also experience a grand princess wedding, no matter whether the other party is rich or poor.

In the blessings of relatives and friends, it appeared beautifully; Solemnly swear under the witness of relatives and friends; Such a sense of ceremony will make the bride and groom unforgettable and awe-inspiring.

Every daughter should know her own preciousness. Marriage is not a bargaining chip, and you can't rob each other of poverty overnight; But don't be too accommodating and patient and degrade yourself into "discounted goods"-the discount is too big for your future.