Every difficulty will pass

Before the National Day holiday, I was thinking about going back to attend Tomato’s wedding. I found it quite difficult in all aspects. But I went back and now I'm back to work. A few days have passed in a flash, and all the difficulties have passed. It turns out that any difficulty will pass.

It is very difficult to buy high-speed rail tickets during the National Day Golden Week. They are either the earliest or the latest. I chose the latest one, so I took the early morning ticket and arrived in Zhanjiangxi at around two in the morning. It was late at night and it was not safe for girls to take the bus, so I chose to stay at the station and wait for dawn before taking the bus home. After leaving the station, I followed the flow of people and walked to the parking lot. Many people were taking cars to go home. I looked around, trying to find a place with seats to sit down and wait. The last time I took the high-speed rail to Zhanjiangxi was a few years ago. At that time, Zhanjiangxi was still desolate. After leaving the station, I only saw a large open space, with only the morning sun waving to me, and no other public transportation facilities. It’s another journey home alone, but I’m used to it. I walked to a place where there were many seats, and I sat in the middle. The dim light didn't make it too dark, so I felt it wasn't that dangerous. Not long after I sat down, I heard a solicitor next to me asking a boy where he was going. The boy said he was going to Yingzai. As soon as I heard that they were going to Yingzi, I listened carefully to their conversation. Because I also have to go back to Yingzai and go to my uncle’s house, and my parents happen to be at my uncle’s house too. Not long after the solicitor left, I walked up to the boy and said, "You want to go back to Yingzai, right? So do I." In the dim light, I couldn't see clearly what the boy looked like, but I didn't think he was a bad person. He told me how to take the car back to Yingzi after dawn, and then I said, don't you close your eyes and rest your mind, right? Then I'll take a rest and you can watch over me and don't let me be carried away. He said yes. So I lay down, and soon I felt sleepy and fell into a deep sleep.

I probably had no defense against him or the people around me, so I slept soundly. Of course, I woke up sometimes during this period. The boy said that there were mosquitoes and ants and he couldn't sleep. He said that it would be difficult to stay up until dawn and that chatting would make the time go by faster, so I chatted with him. We didn’t talk about much, we just talked about work and the epidemic. He works in finance, in a bank, and he is a few years younger than me. But I was really sleepy, and I fell asleep while chatting. When I woke up, it was already bright, and I jumped up with a bang. Later, we took the car back to Yingzai and parted ways. Before getting off the bus, I said to add WeChat. Because he took care of me and didn't let me be carried away by others, I was very grateful to him.

When I returned to my uncle's house, I met my uncle, aunt, uncle, grandma, and cousins. I was still excited to go home, especially when I saw my family members. They didn't ask me questions, but said some lighthearted things. topic, quite happy. I drank two bowls of porridge to fill my stomach and then went upstairs to sleep. It was already one o'clock in the afternoon when we woke up. My parents had finished their work and had finished their meal. We quickly drove back to our hometown. My hometown is still the same as in my memory, with that gate, those chickens, those flowers and fruit trees. This left only my parents and me. I thought my parents would talk to me about some topics I didn't want to talk about, but they didn't. I taught my mother how to use the mobile phone to monitor the surveillance at home. My mother also planted three small papayas on a tree that had a lot of papayas. When they were yellow and ripe, I cut one open and ate it. It was so sweet and delicious. . Dad didn't say much. He sat on the chair and looked at his mobile phone for a while before falling asleep. Seeing a lot of fallen mango leaves and chicken droppings on the floor, I picked up a broom and started sweeping. My mother said it was too hot and told me not to sweep. I said it was okay. After a while, two big geese came to the house. They were a little noisy. I asked my mother whose family they belonged to. She said she didn’t know. She thought they were noisy, so she drove them out of the gate. At the gate, I saw my mother driving the geese with both hands. I picked up my phone and recorded the video and sent it to the family group. I thought the way my mother was driving the geese was very simple.

Sure enough, my mother planted a small vegetable patch in the yard with lettuce and some small vegetable seedlings. Mom and dad don't eat much, but because of the existence of this vegetable patch, I feel like it feels really good. I saw how convenient it was for my mother to pick up the water pipe and put water on them. In the past, when growing vegetables in the fields, I had to go to the pond to carry water and water the vegetables. It was too hard. There is a money tree on the left and right sides of the front door of our house. It has not grown very tall yet, but if we come back next year to see it, it will definitely grow very tall. Looking around at the gate, you can see slopes, ponds, orchards, etc., giving you a panoramic view of the pastoral scenery. I like my hometown and the pastoral style with a fresh breath in the air.

Later I went to the house next door, my grandma’s house, and chatted with her for a while. Since the monitoring was installed at home, I would turn on my mobile phone every day when I was not at home, and I would see my grandma coming to the house every day to sweep the floor and count chickens. Grandma lives alone and leads a leisurely life. As we get older, the topics we talk about always revolve around family members. I asked how my boyfriend was doing, how her daily life was, how she was communicating with her family, and her physical condition. She said she couldn't sleep at night, so she would turn on the TV to watch the dawn and take a nap during the day. She said she was old and her blood supply was low, so it was difficult to fall asleep. I told her not to think so much and live her own life. It’s good to be healthy.

Before I left, I left my grandma’s phone number and said that I could chat with you for the rest of the day when I was free to relieve my boredom. Sometimes I see my grandma alone in the mobile phone surveillance. I feel that she is quite lonely. No one talks to her. Her parents leave early and come home late. Grandma also said that she doesn’t usually see them. Even if she does, she can’t say anything. In fact, many elderly people are like this, and the company of family members is indispensable.

At around three o'clock in the afternoon, my father drove me to Qingping to attend Tomato's dinner party in the town. Then my father drove to another town to attend his classmate's dinner party. So my mother was left alone at home, and it happened to be her birthday again, so I told my mother that I could go to the new house in town to celebrate her birthday with her at night. My mother said no, don’t bother. Fortunately, my father came back in the evening. At home, otherwise my mother would be left to celebrate her birthday alone. I find more and more that there are really fewer and fewer important people around me. So I can understand that as children, we are usually not at home. When our parents come home, apart from facing the TV, if we don’t call them or send WeChat messages, they are really lonely.

I attended Tomato’s dinner party and met a few old classmates. We all ate together, chatted and laughed, which was great. Some classmates hadn't seen each other for many years and thought the atmosphere would be awkward, but it was actually fine. Fortunately, there won't be those famous scenes, nor will we touch on those difficult topics. Probably everyone understands the sadness of adults, so talking about some light-hearted topics just makes the day more satisfying. Among the group of sisters gathered around the table, one of the classmates was married and brought a baby. The married ones looked really different from the unmarried ones. I wonder what it will be like when we reunite in a few years? There are a large table of dishes, 19 pieces per ***, really big fish and meat, and of course my favorite nuts. I didn't move my chopsticks very much and just drank many bowls of duck soup.

After the dinner, we returned to the hotel and began to decorate the wedding room. Those who have never decorated a wedding room really don’t know. It turns out that decorating a wedding room is not a trivial matter. Fortunately, there were enough people, and all kinds of activities including balloon popping, Double Happiness hanging, and wall paintings were started. I wasn't particularly excited when I saw the tomatoes. Maybe she was tired these days. I heard that she hadn't eaten much in the past few days and had lost a lot of weight. I have been looking forward to the day when Tomato gets married, and it has finally arrived. It’s such an honor to be Tomato’s bridesmaid. In fact, these days Tomato said that since she decided to hold a wedding and hold a banquet, she has encountered various things that made her embarrassed and sad, and she regretted having to hold a wedding and hold a banquet. But the day finally came. I saw that her family was also very happy, preparing for this and that. Seeing how happy her family was, I thought that if I got married, my family would probably be so happy too. It probably feels like I'm finally married. After a busy night, when it was almost done, we went back to the room to wash up and go to bed. It was already eleven o'clock when I lay down in bed after applying the facial mask. After a busy day, I realized that my body was also shouting that I was tired. Before going to bed, I made a video call with Xiaopang. Xiaopang also lay down on the bed. He said that I was on duty again.

It was so lively when the wedding group came, and the scene was a bit intense. I was always in the room with Tomato, not outside, but we turned on the live video broadcast and could see the scene outside. They played three small games and then broke in. The groom is also a junior high school classmate and is very familiar with him. When he saw him kneeling down, holding a bouquet of flowers, he said loudly, wife, I am here to take you home! The newlywed atmosphere really came. A wedding shoe was hidden. They searched everywhere but couldn't find it. Later, it was discovered by a child. It was actually quite hidden and a little high. They didn't expect it to be discovered by a child. It was quite touching to see the groom put a bracelet and ring on Tomato, and finally put on her wedding shoes. As the bridesmaid, I carried Tomato's bag, took the red umbrella, and held it for her when she went out to get in the car. All the etiquettes were followed. In fact, I was a little nervous when I was in the hotel because it was Tomato's wedding. When my cousin got married, I was not nervous when I was the bridesmaid for the first time.

The ride back to the groom’s house went smoothly. The wedding decoration was very romantic, with many balloons and fireworks. There were many guests, including relatives and friends, and there were about 30 tables at the banquet. I saw smiles on many people’s faces, and the children were all jumping around and were very happy. Tomato said before that the wedding of two people is actually a wedding that satisfies both families. There was an incident when I went to worship at the ancestral hall. There was a short section of the road I drove on that was muddy. I heard that a family refused to allow the road to be repaired. The car suddenly got stuck in the mud and could not move forward or backward. And the car was splashed with mud. Several people shoveled some mud and added some bricks to fill the road, and then the car barely passed. So down to earth. When I got into the car after the ceremony, I found that the wedding dress and dress were stained with some mud.

At the wedding scene, after the host warmed up, we entered one after another, and finally Tomato and their parents entered. They were the groom's parents and Tomato's grandparents. They stood on the stage. The groom's father gave a speech as a representative. It could be heard that he was particularly touched because his son got married and took a wife. I guess I have been looking forward to it for a long time. Tomato also spoke a long paragraph. Listening to what she said, my tears flowed. Especially when she talked about how they had gone through ups and downs and came together, I was really touched. Going through ups and downs is really not something you can talk about casually. Only those who have been through it together know that it is sad and touching.

They have been together for seven years and will be together for many more seven years. When listening to Tomato say those words, I thought of Xiaopang. The relationships that truly reach the end have gone through ups and downs. I used to think about having such a wedding, with flowers, balloons, blessings from relatives and friends, and my lover and I getting married together. Then I told my parents, I’m getting married, don’t worry, I will be happy. I can imagine that my parents shed tears of excitement at that time. No matter what life will be like after marriage, at least the first half of life is a happy ending.

After Tomato changed into a Chinese dress, we went to toast together. Every table had to toast. I couldn’t see clearly because of my short-sightedness, but I knew that there were many junior high school classmates and high school classmates. However, everything is gone in the past, and those who had no intersection before probably will not have much intersection in the future. Tomatoes cannot drink alcohol. The wine in the glass is water in the glass. No matter how much you drink, you will not get drunk. After toasting, we went back to eat. I ate a few pieces of meat without moving my chopsticks. The plain-cut chicken at home was really fragrant and delicious. The fried noodles at home were also top-notch and cannot be found in Guangzhou. After everything was over and everyone dispersed, Tomato gave me a big hug, which lasted for a long time. I told her that she must be happy. Well, Tomato will definitely be happy.

As I don’t usually take photos, my friends took some photos. There was one photo that I liked very much. I smiled very happily and naturally. After I returned home, I showed it to my mother. She actually asked me if it was me and didn't recognize me. In the evening, two aunts came to the house, and we went to the new house in town to have dinner together. There was a little sister who was very cute. She had grown up a lot and had a lot of experience. Seeing them talking and laughing, the atmosphere was so good. It's a wonderful time for family members to get together, especially when they talk about some lighthearted topics. That night before I went to bed, I went down to the second floor to boil some water. My parents were still awake. Finally, my mother spoke up and asked about her boyfriend. This was the first time my mother had spoken about my boyfriend since I came home, and I knew their concerns. I answered them at that time. I was afraid that they would think too much, so I gave them the answer quickly. Being a parent is really heartbreaking. I woke up very late the next day because I was so tired from traveling and traveling these past few days, so I could finally sleep peacefully. The breakfast that my aunt bought from outside was very rich, and it was all the delicacies that I had eaten when I was a child. After I was full, I started to clean the house, mainly cleaning the fifth and sixth floors. The floor was a little dirty. When I was cleaning, I was thinking that I might rarely have the opportunity to clean my home in the future.

I originally wanted to go to Uncle Yingzai’s house to meet my grandma and have a chat with her, because my grandma is getting older and needs someone to talk to her, and I only come back very few times a year. But because of time constraints, I didn't go to see her. I hope I can call and chat with her more in the future. My uncle and aunt still treat me the same way as before. Even though I have done some wrong things and made mistakes, they will not look at me differently. I am very grateful to them. I really feel the warmth in this big family. My family's love for me has always been there.

I chose to take the sleeper train because I was afraid of traffic jams on the return trip. It was the first time I took the sleeper train. The upper berth was so close to my head that the space was too narrow. But I fell asleep not long after lying down, and suddenly woke up half an hour before the stop. My ability to live anywhere also shocked me. I got off the bus early in the morning again, this time at four in the morning. Shortly after leaving the station, Xiaopang’s short number popped up on the phone screen. I was surprised that he would call me at this hour. Later, he said that he stayed up all night, waiting to call me, and he was very moved.

Before going home, I really anticipated a lot of problems, such as how to face family and friends. Only after I returned did I realize that these were not problems. Even if some problems persist, just work hard to solve them. Maybe love resolves many problems.

I was riding to work this morning. I accidentally left my bag on the spot. After riding for a long time, I realized that I had left my bag behind. I thought for a moment that if someone took the bag away, my phone would also be lost. , I couldn't contact Xiaopang anymore, and I had to buy a new mobile phone to apply for a card, and a series of trivial and troublesome things. I suddenly panicked and became anxious. I quickly turned around and hurried back, thinking that if the bag was still there and the phone was still there, I would go back and hug the little fat guy. I also prayed that I still had my bag and my phone, because it was like losing something very precious and precious all of a sudden. It turns out that modern people are so worried when they lose their cell phones. When I ran back to where I was, I saw that the black bag was still there, and my phone was still there when I unzipped it. At that moment, I calmed down. It feels like a good intention. If something precious is recovered, the tens of thousands of dollars I was defrauded will soon come back.

Everything will be fine, any difficulty will pass.