The weather warms people's hearts

"The qi of heaven and earth, temperature is born, cold is killed. Therefore, those who are cold will enjoy being cool and thin. Only those who are warm-hearted and warm-hearted will have heavy blessings and long-term interests. " This is the language in "Caigen Tan", which means: the nature's heaven and earth atmosphere, when the weather is warm, everything grows (such as spring returns to the earth), and when it is cold, everything withers (such as when it is cold in winter). Therefore, if the qi of the human body is indifferent, its blessings are also shallow; Only those who are kind and warm-hearted to others have deep blessings and long-term interests.

? So, how to be a warm-hearted person?

0 1 Speak enthusiastically.

As the saying goes, "a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts the cold in June." Don't be a villain and pick up ugly words when you speak. Such people are not lovable in the workplace and in love, and often inadvertently hurt colleagues and family members.

It is human nature to say more "nice words" when speaking. Friends who haven't seen you for a long time, it is better to be caring and attentive. On the contrary, it was an old classmate whom I hadn't seen for years. As soon as I met him, I said in front of others, "I didn't think much of you at the beginning ... such people are very common in life."

Speak enthusiastically, and it's best to give yourself three more seconds to filter before speaking.

The first second is to ask yourself, will it hurt each other? Don't keep telling fat girls that you can't get fat no matter how you eat. If you are fat, how do you feel when people say that to your face?

The second second depends on the occasion, whether it will embarrass the other party, and don't expose people in public. If you know that the other party is in a remote rural area, you also emphasize how rural people have no quality, and so on. Such people themselves have no quality. Although I didn't name names, everyone with a discerning eye knows that there is a suspicion of "pointing fingers at mulberry trees".

In the third second, think about the tone and whether the other party can accept it. No matter how reasonable it is, if you yell at each other, they won't listen. Like many parents, they like to scold their children's mistakes loudly. When the roar started, whatever they said was wrong.

Three seconds, the most direct thing is to put yourself in the other person's position and whether you can accept it happily. If you feel uncomfortable listening, there is no need to go on, and don't say anything if it makes sense.

Do things with enthusiasm.

Consistency in words and deeds is a person's best business card.

Some people, even if they speak well and do badly, will not warm others. People who are duplicitous will only make each other more disgusted.

How to do something that warms your heart?

(1) Do what the other party needs. Just like shopping, only choose the right one, not the expensive one. Sometimes, I may be very kind and do something for my family, friends and colleagues, but if I don't consider each other's needs, the result may be completely different. Send a bunch of precious flowers to a friend, but I don't know that the other person is allergic to pollen. This is a bridge that often appears in movies and TV series, and the result can be imagined.

(2) Keep your word. In life, we like to make promises too much, but when we keep our promises, most of us will find various reasons to refuse. No matter big or small, if the promises made are not fulfilled, the seeds of harm will always be planted, and the rift between friends, colleagues and family members will become bigger and bigger.

(3) Do something and do nothing. Icing on the cake is not as good as sending charcoal in the snow, but often human nature likes to hit a person when he is down, rather than helping each other in times of crisis. Therefore, when someone falls into the pit, don't follow suit, have your own judgment and help if you have the ability. This is the warmest thing.

On the road of life, swords and shadows may not be common, but there will inevitably be bumps and bumps. Doing more things that warm people's hearts will also yield a full sense of happiness and accomplishment.

When you shine with kindness, good luck will surely come and last for a long time.