Natural temperament-the key to raising children

My child is the most typical of the following two innate qualities.

Melancholy: (task-oriented, aiming at pursuing truth, goodness and beauty), thoughtful, highly sensitive, idealistic, pursuing truth, goodness and beauty, picky, versatile, good at introspection and fond of being alone.

Disadvantages: stubborn, indecisive, pursuing perfection, self-stressed, pessimistic and passive, sensitive and suspicious, divorced from reality, emotional fluctuations, easy to bear grudges.

Parenting keywords: psychological nutrition, emotional management, interpersonal communication, positive thinking.

Suitable occupation: writer, professor, thinker, philosopher, artist, psychological counselor (research, thinking, concentration)

Language of love: unconditional acceptance and concern help him build up his self-confidence, pay attention to honesty, loyalty and respect for his rhythm, give him independent space, actively appreciate, encourage and assist emotional management, and enhance the initiative of communication and expression.

Calm type: (task-oriented, harmony-oriented) characteristics: slow, cautious, gentle and steady, pursuing harmony, accurate and calm, and doing things in an orderly way.

Advantages: easy to get along with, happy-go-lucky, thoughtful, tolerant, calm and reliable, realistic and good at analysis.

Disadvantages: slow and lazy, not easy to repent, not expressive, indifferent, complacent, closed and stubborn, conservative and boring.

Parenting keywords: accept the slow pace, give affirmation and encourage the expression of feelings.

Suitable occupation: scientist, engineer, counselor, teacher, diplomat, researcher, theorist.

Parenting keywords: love language, appreciate his peace and stability, do more emotional precipitation, drive him to learn to express love, respect his work style, and not force him to make decisions and take responsibility.

Just as raising flowers requires knowing the nature of flowers and fish, raising children also requires knowing the nature of children. I thought people's personality would be influenced by heredity, but I didn't expect such a big difference.

My baby, the more you raise it, the clearer it becomes. After understanding, everything will get better and better!