Say hello to strangers.

In daily life, many people have social phobia, and it will be unnatural to face strangers. To share a related content about greeting strangers. Let's have a look!

Say hello to strangers. Opening remarks 1 First, the expression opens.

To put it bluntly, the opening of an expression is to open it with an expression, but what expression is generally appropriate?

Xiao Bai, smiling, naughty, shy (simple and ordinary expression, fake smile is better, I don't know if anyone hates smiling as much as me, and the expression is cute, but if the other person replies to you with the same expression, it's even harder to say the next sentence)

No brains, seduce, kiss and hug (well, people either don't give you back or give you a dirty look, giving others the impression that you are strange and unreasonable)

Veteran (a special expression that can show your positive guiding side. It is recommended that novices don't use it, or they will think you are vulgar.

In fact, there are many funny expression packs that are very suitable for the opening, at least to make the other party think that you are a humorous person. When you start with an expression, girls will generally respond to you, indicating that they are interested in you, and you can continue to talk.

Second, just pick a topic.

There are many ways to find a topic from a girl as an opening remark, which can be a compliment, but don't exaggerate. It is easier to attract goodwill. For example, avatars, data and expressions can all be topics or simple descriptions of relevance.

If you are too stupid, give two more detailed examples.

1, praise the opening, praise should be practical, don't praise everything, at least believe it yourself.

You, your head is really beautiful. Is it me?

Sister paper, no, just pictures on the internet.

If you don't believe it, even if you don't, you are definitely not bad. Generally, your favorite avatar is similar to your favorite dressing temperament.

Girls may reply to you "hahaha" or say that they are ugly (humorous reply) "I bet ten bags of spicy strips, but I can't add two wangwang crushed ice."

2. Introduction of correlation description

You, do you like the sunset very much? Many sunset photos are still so beautiful.

Woman, haha, my friend also said it was a good shot.

There are many related openings, such as friends circle, signature, avatar and expression pack.

Third, curious opening.

The opening with high response rate, as long as you are not the kind of image that looks bored and doesn't want to reply to your message. For beginners, it is still very easy to use.

take for example

1. Hey, I really want to see you.

2. Guess who I am

The egg collided with the stone, but the stone was broken. Do you know why?

I feel as if you were classmates in primary school.

Girls may give you a higher response, but their ability to chat with you will be higher, which is quite suitable for boys with active thinking.

Fourth, interesting opening remarks.

As the name implies, your opening remarks are very interesting. You must make yourself feel interesting after reading them.

take for example

1, find out that you are the object assigned to me.

2. Is the fairy busy protecting the earth by not talking?

My mother has a crush on you and wants you to be my wife.

I am the first man to seduce you today, hahaha.

5, so beautiful, I want to get a little fairy.

Most people dare not say these words, only men who are confident in knowing what to say next dare to say them.

Because these words are special in greetings, they can make girls interested and curious about you.

Relatively difficult, boys are required to be humorous and active.

Fifth, the temperament is open

The beginning of temperament is to show your excellent high-end side, which is suitable for high-value men, in short, rich people. Of course, you can't make people feel too deliberate and fake. Even if it is true, you will feel that you are deliberately showing off.

Give a few examples.

1. I just won a big account. I am very tired, but I am in a good mood.

2. Send a "valuable" picture, high-profile food photos, hotels, luxury cars, etc.

In the back, you should appear unintentional, and don't let people think that you are pretending. Don't use it until you decide how to solve the problem.

The place you visited is very beautiful. After that, go to Maldives to relax (who can go to Maldives to have a successful career)

High value openings must be used with caution. If you are really rich, you can talk all the time, and most of your affections will be exposed.

In addition, you should think clearly when using it, so as not to appear deliberate, and feel that it can only be counterproductive.

What should you do, especially if you want to save time and develop relationships quickly?

First, select the software. Even if you usually chat with ordinary chat software WeChat qq, you can only say that the contact information is not a good place to strike up a conversation. It is best to use Momo, a software that makes friends with people near the same city, to explore this kind, but it is not recommended that Momo explore many old fritters, because there are many resources for girls but the competition is fierce. The "honey circle" I have been using can be introduced by software. It's a date with a stranger. Most girls play with the idea of dating and falling in love. On purpose, it won't be too slow.

It is important to choose the right person who is easy to strike up a conversation.

1, the dynamic always sends some sad words or pictures (it is absolutely endless to want to chat with people and talk about emotional topics)

2. Write down directly that you are bored and want to talk to someone (you will usually reply, but you are certainly not the only one who wants to talk to her).

3. Send photos of work or take photos casually (this is actually because you are bored at work before you move or are in a good mood outside).

4, directly want to invite people to play together (see luck, there must be many people talking about her privately. If you are her type, you can choose any place and think about doing something. Tonight is destined to be unusual)

The next step in finding a good partner is to use the chat method mentioned above. As long as you are not stupid and inflexible, it is not a problem to meet a girl every day.

Say hello to strangers 2. Five skills to communicate with strangers,

Any language communication is absolutely indispensable for a prologue. A good prologue is a lubricant for interpersonal communication and a slippery road to maintain good communication between people. An appropriate prologue can always shed a ray of sunshine on your's interpersonal relationship and warm each other's indifferent hearts. So how do you communicate with strangers? You must know and learn how to find the key to the chatterbox.

First, choose the topic wisely.

If you want others to find you attractive, the best way is to speak sincerely and clearly, which means choosing the topic wisely. When you talk to someone you just know or don't know the details, the best way to avoid silence is to keep changing the subject. You can explore it by asking some questions. If one topic can't go on, change it. You can also talk about an interesting article you read recently, or a wonderful movie you just watched, or describe something you are doing or thinking about. If there is a short pause in the conversation, don't worry, don't have nothing to say, and it doesn't hurt to be silent for a moment. Conversation is communication, which can be a trickle, not rushing to the finish line like a race.

Second, express your feelings.

For example, you may whisper to yourself at a dinner party that I am too shy for this kind of party. Or on the contrary, you think many people hate this kind of party, but I like it very much. Anyway, you should tell the first person who is willing to listen how you feel. This person may be your confidant. Frankly speaking "I don't know anyone here" or "I don't know what to say" is much better than being stiff and indifferent-the most talkative person is the one who dares to confess.

For example, at a dinner party, Xiao Zhang was introduced to a computer expert by a friend. Xiao Zhang is also a well-known figure in a company, and he is also very handy for such visits at ordinary times, but when he found out that he didn't know how to speak this time and why he stuttered so much, he was shocked. Finally, Xiao Zhang said, "I don't know why I'm a little afraid of you." The computer expert laughed, and then they chatted naturally.

Third, talk about the surrounding environment.

If you are curious, you will naturally find the topic of conversation. Once, a stranger looked around, then broke the silence and said to the people around him, "You can see life at the waiting station!" " "This is a good opening remarks.

Fourth, take each other as the topic.

People often try their best to make others pay attention to themselves, but most of the time it is disappointing, because he won't care about you and me, he will only care about himself. Therefore, taking the other person as the beginning of the conversation can often make others feel good. Compliment strangers with "your clothes match well" and "your hairstyle is fashionable", which can make them happy and ease the gap between them. Perhaps, most of us don't have the courage to say so, but we can say, "The book you read is my favorite." Or "I saw you walking past the convenience store, I thought"

Fifth, ask questions.

We can think of this conversation as throwing and catching the ball, and many unforgettable conversations also start with a question. The method of asking questions is very effective. You don't have to cooperate with different environments to find different topics. As long as you remember the word "consult", you can immediately let the other party start talking.

Sixth, many greetings. Greetings are when people meet. Generally speaking, people greet each other to show politeness and care. Greeting is the lubricant of conversation, which can build a bridge of friendship between two people. Because greeting can produce identity psychology and meet people's affinity requirements, greeting can produce identity psychology and meet people's affinity requirements. Therefore, greeting is also a way to open a topic.

10 sentence is the most practical opening remarks for communicating with strangers.

1, "Miss, how was your day?"

A sincere greeting and a warm three-second smile are the most basic and useful opening remarks. We always ignore some simple things and don't realize that the simplest things can play the biggest role in life.

Think of people who say "good morning" or "hello" to their neighbors. This simple greeting is usually answered with "How are you" or "How are the children". Soon, the two sides began to talk about their families and even their favorite teams.

2. "Your earrings are really nice!"

This evaluation represents a very useful classic skill in the opening remarks. No matter who you are chatting with, sincerely praise their clothes, accessories and even their mood, they will usually be happy to accept it.

People who accept your compliments will thank you and even give you some compliments in return. In this way, a dialogue began. If you want to continue the conversation, you can ask the question "Where did you buy the earrings? I like it very much. "

3. "Is there always such a long queue at the door of this shop?"

In the surrounding environment, it is also a useful opening strategy to simply evaluate some unpleasant or uncomfortable situations that you two have experienced together. You can complain about the long queue in front of the bathroom or the rocking chair in the waiting room.

Pay attention to an unpleasant scene. You are in the same place, complaining casually, and you cleverly pull the other side and yourself into a front against an enemy.

4. "Chicago is really a windy city!"

Yes, talking about the weather. This may sound a bit old-fashioned, but it really works in reality. People are always talking about the weather-this is a topic where everyone can express their opinions. You can consider how to dress in different weather.

Once the other person responds, you can easily continue the conversation, such as "the wind is too strong, it will blow me away!" " "

"Did you hear that ..."

Describe an interesting, entertaining or funny story as the opening remarks. After telling the story, ask the other person to comment or share their views on the story.

If your story is interesting enough, as long as your new friends are attracted by your story, there is no need to worry about how long the your dialogue will last.

6. "What do you drink?"

People like to eat and drink. If the person you want to chat with is drinking a good drink or eating a hamburger that looks delicious, you can evaluate how delicious (or unpalatable) the hamburger is. Or you can ask her what she is drinking.

If she answers you, you can continue to ask, "Do you really like it?" Or "can I buy you another drink?" Introduce yourself and don't forget to show your most charming smile.

7. "That's a nice name. Is it named after someone? "

This prologue is especially suitable for workplaces, business meetings and other occasions where people wear name badges. If her name is interesting, go up to her and say, "Camille, a lovely name, what is its origin?"

She may tell you her French name excitedly, and before you know it, a conversation has begun. But if her name is common, you may not ask any interesting questions.

8. "Hello, do you work here?"

This sentence also applies to workplaces or business occasions where people wear famous brands. Even if you know the answer, ask him if he works here. If you know people who work in the same company or retail store, you can mention their names.

Then you can ask some related questions, such as "What do you do here?" "Have you worked here long?" "Do you like it here?" "What do you like/dislike most about this job?"

9. "People call me David, but you can call me tonight."

Indeed, telling jokes is easier said than done. It's not easy to tell jokes, but when you meet someone for the first time, jokes are the best opening remarks. You can let the other person see the humorous, interesting and lovely side of your personality.

Nevertheless, unless you are very confident in your jokes, you'd better not tell them, especially self-deprecating jokes. Can't offend yourself too much?

10, "Excuse me, I think I should come and talk to you."

Sometimes the best and most interesting opening remarks are the truth. Frankly, walk up to her. Tell her you want to talk to her. Tell her that this situation is embarrassing and funny for you, and you should make good use of it.

Say hello to strangers. The opening remarks of strangers should pay attention to the following points. A boy will suddenly chat with a girl, and the girl will be very nervous, so she basically doesn't listen to you. At this time, the opening remarks are no matter how good. At this time, you should give the girl a spiritual buffer stage and give her enough sense of security.

Try to tell others the purpose of your visit, and then talk for the next 5- 10 minutes after "hello". This conversation is like a tense interview. You are the examinee and she is the examiner. If you pass the interview, you will have a chance to communicate with her further. Before that, your identity was not equal in the interview stage. It's important to say or not to say anything. We can use the three-second rule, and we must be fast. Hesitation will only make you more nervous, so start now.

Nowadays, the pace of life is so fast that many single men and women have no time to take care of their emotional problems. In the end, you can only end your single life quickly through blind date. But blind date doesn't necessarily mean success. The previous blind date has been a failure, which shows how embarrassing it is. I also happened to read the secret book of soaking holy old fish, which made me change dramatically. After a week, I successfully took off the order, and I met five or six girls in the first month, not to mention how cool it was. If you have a single brother, you can also learn to change yourself. There are tips for picking up girls and picking up holy old fish on the internet. It's easy to find them by looking them up.

How to strike up a conversation with a girl's opening remarks?

1, you are really nice. You should be able to chat with me, right?

2. Do you look cool? But judging from your eyes, you should be gentle.

3. (If a woman gives you eyes) Wow, don't look at me like that. I'm really worried that I will fall in love with you.

If you keep looking at me, you might as well talk to me! such as

5. Are you really a shy person?

(They answer) But we have been in this place for 10 minutes, and you still haven't said hello to me.

6. Your glasses may be XXX.

7. Do you often come here?

Let's get to know each other. You are not a bad person.

Hello, my friend, my name is * *

After one question, you can move on to the next step.

Did you come to the movies by yourself?

I bought many things. Can I get it for you?

Shall we get something to eat?

Are you thirsty? Shall we go to the coffee shop next door?

For example (shopping in the same place and going downstairs at the same time)

Hi! "Hello"

"Have you finished buying it?"

"yes."

"Now is the time to eat. Let's get something to eat. "

"Yes, I know there is a XXX downstairs. Let's try it. "