Is there anyone who is kind enough to do bad things?

Yes, because we have been influenced by the belief system of "helping others, serving others and caring for others" since childhood, we have a strong desire to help others, so there are always many things that do bad things with good intentions in life. As a party, I have the following embarrassing experiences:

first time

When I was a child, I took a bus. There were many people at that time. I sat in a separate chair not far from the back door of the bus. It happened that an old lady came up to me and I gave her my seat. She didn't accept it. I thought she was just embarrassed, so I gave it to her and made her miss her stop.

To outsiders, it was actually my own cleverness. However, I am very grateful to my grandmother for her understanding. Even though I let her walk a little longer, she didn't blame me. Instead, she eased my confusion by joking. But don't be forgiven for doing something wrong with your kindness. After all, you may bring irreparable mistakes to others.

second time

In primary school, I had a friend who played well with me. One day, we made an appointment to do homework together and supervise each other. After we did it for a while, I saw that she stopped writing and stayed there for a long time, so I asked her what happened. She said she was stumped by a question. At this time, without saying anything, I picked up my eraser and erased the traces of her answer. I said to her, let me help you think together. In the end, I found that all her answers were right, but I'm not sure what she did was right.

Although this is my good intention, it is actually very wrong to let others' efforts go to waste because of my own impulse. It makes me understand that when others don't take the initiative to ask you for help, you must restrain your impulse to help others. Really ask the other person's thoughts before you want to help, otherwise you are likely to do bad things with good intentions.

All the above events tell us that there is a lot of knowledge in the process of daily help and being helped. If it is not fully valued and understood by us, it will eventually lead to the trouble of "doing bad things with good intentions".