Boyfriend always sighs when chatting, how to reply in an interesting and ingenious way?

This shows that your boyfriend has formed a habit. Maybe his living environment and family situation were not very good since childhood. When children always listen to their parents sigh, they will gradually form this habit.

Besides, it also shows that your boyfriend's personality is a bit pessimistic. Pessimists always see the bad side of problems. Besides, I always thought the result would get worse and worse. After a long time, I will form a kind of self-suggestion in my mind, thinking that I am unlucky and will not succeed in anything. There is a famous psychological book Murphy's Law that says so.

So when chatting with them, don't laugh or make fun of them. Because the more they are like this, the more sensitive they will be and the more they feel bad about themselves. Maybe you think it's just a joke with them, but they are a pessimistic group and they can't stand a mocking joke. So be sure to see each other's personality clearly before joking. We can tease and laugh at those who are careless and heartless at ordinary times, but people with sensitive hearts should not do so.

In order to encourage them, you can give some interesting examples to encourage them. When you speak, the language should be vivid and lovely, not too sharp. If they have any ideas, they should be encouraged to take action first. Don't be afraid even if they fail, because failure is the mother of success. As long as they don't give up, they will succeed in the end.

Also, you can tell him some inspirational stories, because the protagonists in inspirational stories are all small people at first, and then gradually break through their own cognitive level and strive for success all the way. It sounds like donating blood to others, but in fact, people who are pessimistic need to donate blood. If they don't even donate blood, how can they have the courage to know themselves again?

It takes courage and action to change yourself. Many people dare not act all their lives, not because they don't want to, but because they really dare not.