After the divorce, the mother-in-law asked her son to give up custody. The older the wiser. What should I do?

The tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a common problem in marriage, but it is not insoluble. In addition to the mother-in-law, there is also the most critical factor-the son (husband). As a man, there is a balance between mother and wife, and it is unwise to lean too much to either side.

Xiao Li comes from the countryside. Her family situation is not very good. There is a sick old mother and a sister in high school at home. Her father died when she was very young, and she spent all her savings to treat her mother. Xiaoli's study has always been among the best, but in order to meet her mother, she resolutely dropped out of school to work in the south, shouldering the burden that should not be her family!

Xiaoli and her boyfriend Jianguo met at work. Jianguo's family situation is much better than hers. His father has his own company and is surrounded by rich girls. But Jianguo didn't like dealing with these rich girls. Instead, he was deeply impressed by a down-to-earth girl like Xiaoli.

Jianguo took Xiaoli to see her mother, who was very satisfied with Xiaoli, but talking about Xiaoli's family background at dinner made Jianguo's mother a little puzzled. His mother thinks that Xiao Li's sick mother is a bottomless pit, and a younger sister is going to college soon. If she gets married, her son will definitely use the money she earned to subsidize the Xiao Li family, so she refuses them to get married. But Jianguo made it clear that he would always like Xiaoli, and unless she married someone else, he would always be with Xiaoli. Jianguo's mother loves her son and knows his stubborn temper. She had no choice but to agree to their marriage.

Although Xiaoli and Jianguo are married, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very bad. Worst of all, no matter what Xiaoli does, her mother-in-law makes things difficult for her. Although she is diligent, diligent and diligent, taking care of the life of a large family, her mother-in-law always has a bad face. In winter, when the weather is cold and the temperature is low, her mother-in-law won't let Xiaoli wash clothes with a washing machine, but let her wash them by hand. The frozen Xiaoli's hands are covered with chilblains.

The mother's strength and his wife's forbearance made Jianguo see it, but he was also in a dilemma. He knows his mother's character, so he always lets Xiaoli bear it privately. Jianguo believes that as long as they have children, they can let their mothers put down their prejudices. However, Xiaoli's position at home has not changed at all since she was pregnant. Although Xiaoli gave birth to a son, her mother-in-law is as lukewarm as before.

Faced with this situation, Xiaoli feels that she can't find any feeling of home in her mother-in-law, and there is no warmth. She pinned all her hopes on her son. Sometimes Xiaoli feels that she is about to collapse. On the one hand, she misses her sick mother and sister in her hometown, on the other hand, she has to take care of her newborn son. The most terrible thing is that she has to look at her mother-in-law's face. No matter how powerful a woman is, she also wants her husband to rent a house outside and move out, but her husband is busy with promotion recently and has no time to take care of this mess at home!

Under the pull of her mother-in-law, Xiaoli has been unable to go back to her hometown to visit her mother and sister, but her mother's condition has been deteriorating. Because my sister had to go to school and was busy taking care of her sick mother, she couldn't go to college, and her mother's condition deteriorated to the extreme and finally died.

Xiao Li's heart has died since her mother died, and she doesn't want to live like this anymore. She has been disappointed in her husband and finally filed for divorce. Xiaoli said, "Although I love you, I really can't stand this family."

After the divorce, the mother-in-law took the initiative to ask her son to give up custody. She wants Xiaoli to taste the pain of raising a child alone! To say the least, this child will be our grandson even if he grows up in the future. Blood is thicker than water, and affection can't be taken away!

Finally, Jianguo couldn't help saying, "Mom, are we really short of money? That's your grandson. Do you really miss him at all? If you hadn't been unkind to Xiao Li, would she divorce me? All this is your fault! "

Love is always happier than marriage. Because two people love each other, there is nothing to worry about, but after marriage, there will be more troubles. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between husband and wife, and parents' support for the elderly are one after another, and the marriage exam is coming soon.

In fact, I have never understood what mothers who encourage their sons to divorce think. Do they think their son can meet a better woman after divorce? Is there such a case around you? Talk about it in the comments section!