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Three realms of psychological counselors

The psychological counselor in the first realm, when you get along with him, you will feel that he is very confident, has a more flamboyant temperament and is very energetic. He will be happy to talk about his achievements: professional titles, published articles or works, classic cases, colorful in the discussion, and sharply criticize different views and despise colleagues who have made mistakes. He has a strong sense of social role, and you can feel that he is really proud of being a consultant. At the same time, this role also fetters him, making him pay special attention to his clothes, his performance in public, and other people's opinions or criticisms. Psychological counselors at this stage also have an obvious external behavioral feature, that is, they can't help pointing out the psychological and personality problems of others, including relatives, friends, or peers. Their views are insightful most of the time. You can feel that he really hit the point, but somehow it just makes people feel uncomfortable. Perhaps, you intuitively know that he didn't say these things to help you, just to prove his ability and superiority. Often such behavior affects his interpersonal relationship. In the process of consultation, this kind of consultants often adopt inquiry and control consulting methods, and are willing to use all kinds of "immediate" simple and quick methods, as well as more "barbaric analysis".

In the field of psychological counselors, self-study is constant, and the personal realm is often constantly improving. This is the charm of psychology-everyone who is committed to this field will eventually benefit a lot.

In the second realm, the psychological counselor has greater psychological energy and his own complex has been solved a lot. They become healthier people than the average person, or self-fulfilling people. Their bellies are full of more knowledge and wisdom, and they become calm. When you are close to him, you can feel his inner self-confidence, but this self-confidence no longer puts pressure on others. He will not take the initiative to talk about his achievements, showing a low-key and steady. He is introverted and kind to others. When he is near him, he wants to be as warm and comfortable as the spring sunshine. He understands the boundary between his professional role and his true self, and also understands his limitations. He never wants to describe himself as a perfect man without faults. He is free to talk about his shortcomings. Knowing his weakness can no longer make him feel threatened.

He will never suddenly point out what others call psychological problems, although he can clearly feel the personality characteristics of everyone around him. At an appropriate time, perhaps, he will let you know in some euphemistic ways that you may still have a psychological complex to solve. However, his way is so subtle and gentle that you can't get any harm, let alone embarrass you in front of many people. You will be grateful to find that what he says and does is basically not to prove himself, but out of sincere concern and love for others. Such a psychological counselor will often be loved and admired by many people, and even his peers can't help showing respect and appreciation to him. Their interpersonal relationships are much better than those of the first realm. In consultation, no matter what school method he adopts, the spirit of humanism will run through. His consultation process is steady and steady, and the quality of seeking consultation is better than the speed of seeking consultation.

At this point, it should be said that it has reached a height that ordinary people can't reach. However, I was surprised to find that there is a third realm. Laozi said, "Tao can be Tao, but not surprising." How can I describe such a consultant? I can only try to describe this infinite experience with my limited words ... just like a hill, I envy the elegance of the mountain!

The third kind of psychological counselor, he has lost the concept of role, the whole person is harmonious and unified, and does not deliberately dress himself up. When he appears in front of you, you may think that this is a particularly simple and ordinary person. At this time, after practice and epiphany, he lost his self-confidence, inferiority complex and inferiority complex. When you are close to him, you can't feel any outward breath, only feel his heart, as deep and calm as the sea. Whether directly or euphemistically, you will never hear his conclusions or judgments about others, and he will never point out anyone's problems. Even if he just stays there wholeheartedly, you can feel his compassion for all mankind. This kind of extensive, completely impartial, subtle and invisible love silently affects people around and makes sinners feel ashamed in front of him. Just as a child will never be ashamed of showing his genitals in front of loving parents, you will never be ashamed of showing weakness naturally in front of him. Although he has never told you your weaknesses and problems, he is so deep and calm. When you get close to him, you will naturally reflect your own shadow and clearly know that you still have those ugliness.

At this height, his existence is a kind of treatment! All schools and technologies are gone, only the spirit of cultivating everything exists. ...

I can't come, I'm so envious!