My friend is unhappy, please tell a philosophical story? hurried ...

Hello! Friend! The following is the information I found for you online! I hope it helps you! 1) Simple happiness

There is a little girl who walks from home to school every day.

One morning, the weather was not very good and the clouds gradually thickened. In the afternoon, the wind blew harder, and soon there was thunder and lightning and heavy rain. The little girl's mother is worried. She is worried that the little girl will be scared by thunder, or even hit by it.

Thunderstorm is getting bigger and bigger, and lightning pierces the sky like a sword. The little girl's mother drove along the route to school to find her. When she saw her little daughter walking alone in the street, she found that every time there was lightning, she would stop, look up and smile.

After watching for a long time, the mother finally stopped the child and asked her, "What are you doing? 」

She said, "God just took my picture, so I want to laugh! 」

(2) Loss and possession

An entrepreneur has made amazing achievements in the shopping mall. When he reached the peak of his career, one day he accompanied his father to a noble restaurant for dinner, and a violinist with extraordinary piano skills was playing for everyone.

While listening to the music, the entrepreneur remembered that he had studied the piano and was almost crazy about it. He said to his father, "If I had studied the piano well, I might be playing here now. 」

"Yes, son," his father replied, "but in that case, you wouldn't be eating here now. 」

Meditation: We often sigh for lost opportunities or achievements, but often forget to appreciate what we have now.

(3) Know your "limited" intelligence

There is a clever boy. One day, his mother took him to the grocery store to buy things. When the boss saw the lovely child, he opened a can of candy and let the little boy take a handful of candy by himself. But the boy didn't make any action.

After several invitations, the boss personally grabbed a handful of sugar and put it in his pocket.

When I got home, my mother asked the little boy curiously, why didn't I grab the candy myself and let the boss do it?

The little boy replied beautifully, "because my hands are smaller!" Moreover, the boss has bigger hands, and he must take a lot more than me! 」

Meditation: This is a clever boy. He knows his own limitations, and more importantly, he also knows that others are better than himself.

Learning to rely on others in a timely manner, rather than relying on your own strength, is a kind of humility and intelligence.

(4) The art of listening

Linklater, a famous American host; One day I visited a child and asked him, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" ? 」

The child naively replied, "Well ... I want to be an airplane pilot! 」

Linklater then asked, "What would you do if one day your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean and all the engines died?" ? 」

The child thought for a moment: "I will tell the people sitting on the plane to fasten their seat belts first, and then I will hang up my parachute and jump out." 」

The audience at the scene laughed and thought the child was a smart-ass and inconsiderate guy.

At this moment, linklater continued to stare at the child. Unexpectedly, two lines of tears welled up in the child's eyes, which made linklater realize that the child's sympathy was true.

So linklater asked him, "Why did you do this? 」

The child's answer revealed a child's sincere thought: "I'm going to get fuel, I want to come back!" " ! 」

"I want to come back! 」。

When you hear someone talking ... do you really understand what he is saying?

You got it? If you don't understand, please listen to others. This is the art of listening.

1. Don't listen to half the words.

In addition, don't project your meaning on what others say.

(5) Enlightenment of walking

God gave me a task to take a snail for a walk.

I can't walk too fast, the snail has tried his best to climb, always moving a little at a time. I urged it, I bluffed, I blamed it, and the snail looked at me apologetically, as if to say, "I have tried my best!" " 」

I pulled, I pulled, and I even wanted to kick it. The snail was injured, sweating and panting, and crawled forward.

It's strange, why does God want me to take a snail for a walk?

"God! Why? " The sky is quiet.

"alas! Maybe God went to catch snails? 」

All right! Let me go.

God doesn't care anyway. What do I care?

Let the snail crawl forward, and I will sulk in the back.

Huh? I smell the flowers. There used to be a garden here.

Wait! I hear birds, I hear birds singing, and I see how bright among the stars in the sky. Huh?

Why haven't you had this experience before? It occurred to me that I was wrong!

It turned out that God asked snails to take me for a walk.

Did you find your snail?

Go for a walk once in a while!

(6) You can be really comfortable.

Milan Kundera has a book called "Living on the other side", and I think of these five words very well:

Our life is always far away, and we are all thinking: if I have money tomorrow, I can.

But if you earn less money now and are unhappy, even if you have more money, I guarantee that you will not be happy;

If you don't enjoy it when you are alone, even if you marry someone and marry a wife, others will be as unhappy as you;

If you don't know how to enjoy life now, you won't enjoy life in the future.

Someone asked what is freedom? Freedom means that you can refuse a person's date without any reason. You have the right to live your life and go where you want to go.

In fact, life is very simple.

Both men and women like to set a time limit for their lives. For example, I have to get married at the age of 25, have children at the age of 26, have a man and a woman at the age of 30, and have a house at the age of 3 1, so many decisions are hasty.

If the person you are looking for is wrong from the beginning, no matter how hard you try in the future; Sometimes, we often feel that when we get married, all our problems are gone. If we still have problems when we get married, we should give birth to the baby as soon as possible. In fact, your problem is not solved at this stage, and it will only become bigger in the next stage. You don't have to expect too much from the future.

If you expect too much, to be honest, your frustration will be deep. It is better to see what you are doing now, which will make you feel very comfortable and absorb a lot of things. At that time, you will feel that life is really full.

In addition, if one tries too hard to show others, it will be extremely painful. Today, if you believe that you are doing well and don't care what others think of you, you can really feel at ease.

1, the story of the mowing boy

A boy mowing people's grass called a Mrs. Chen and said, "Do you need mowing?" Mrs. Chen replied, "No, I already have a lawn mower."

The boy added, "I will help you pull out the weeds in the flowers." Mrs. Chen replied, "I have done my lawn mower, too."

The boy added, "I'll help you cut the grass around the aisle." Mrs. Chen said, "The person I invited has already done it. Thank you. I don't need a new lawn mower. " The boy hung up the phone.

At this time, the boy's roommate asked him, "Aren't you mowing the grass where Mrs. Chen works?" Why are you calling this number? The boy said, "I just want to know how I did!" " "

Moral: Only by constantly asking customers' comments can we know our own advantages and disadvantages. Don't follow the rules, think clearly about the cause of everything and ask "why?"

2. The old gentleman in the oasis

A young man came to the oasis and met an old gentleman. The young man asked, "How is it here?" The old man asked, "What's your hometown like?" The young man replied, "It's terrible! I hate it. " The old man went on to say, "Then you should go quickly. As bad as your hometown. "

Later, another young man asked the same question and the old man asked the same question. The young man replied, "My hometown is very good. I miss the people, flowers and things in my hometown very much ..." The old man said, "It's just as good here."

The observer was surprised and asked the old man why his statement was inconsistent. The old man said, "What are you looking for? What will you find! "

Moral: If you look at one thing with appreciation, you will see many advantages; With a critical attitude, you will see countless shortcomings. As the saying goes: people are right and the world is right.

3. "Smart" boy

A little boy asked God, "How long is ten thousand years for you?" God replied, "like a minute."

The little boy asked God again, "How much is 1 ten thousand yuan to you?" God replied, "Like a dollar."

The little boy asked God again, "Then can you give me 1 10,000 yuan?" God replied, "Of course, just give me a minute."

Moral:

1, everything is not easy to get, it takes time and cost.

There is no such thing as a free lunch. You must have the concept of investment, and even need to invest perseverance and patience.

4. The story of the frog

I remember that in a biological experiment, I put a frog in a cup filled with boiling water, and the frog jumped out immediately. But when I put a frog in another cup filled with warm water and slowly heated it to boiling, the frog would swim comfortably in the cup at first, but when it found it was too hot, it lost its strength and could not jump out.

Moral:

1, the change of environment can determine your success or failure. Changes in the general environment are sometimes invisible. We must always pay attention, learn more, remain vigilant and welcome changes. As the saying goes, "Born in sorrow, died in happiness!" .

2. Too comfortable environment often contains danger. Habitual lifestyle may be the biggest threat to you. To change all this, we must constantly innovate and break the old model.

3, aware of the slight changes in the trend, we must "stop" and think from different angles, and learning is the best way to find changes.

A mother and daughter live in a remote hut in a small village in the country. Her mother is afraid of being stolen, and always puts three locks on the doorknob at night. My daughter hates the boring and unchanging country life, just like a landscape painting. She yearns for this city and wants to see the gorgeous world she imagined through the radio. One morning, my daughter left her mother in pursuit of that illusory dream. She sneaked away from home while her mother was sleeping.

"Mom, you just don't have my daughter. Unfortunately, the world is not as beautiful as she imagined. Without knowing it, she got off the road and got stuck in the mud, and then she realized her mistake.

"mom! Ten years later, my grown-up daughter dragged her broken heart and clumsy body back to her hometown.

When she got home, it was already late at night, and a faint light was shining through the door. She tapped on the door, but suddenly she had a bad feeling. My daughter got a fright when she twisted the door. "It's strange that my mother never forgot to lock the door before. Mother's thin body curled up on the cold floor and fell asleep distressfully.

"Mom ... mom ..." Hearing her daughter's crying, her mother opened her eyes and put her arms around her tired shoulder without saying a word. After crying in her mother's arms for a long time, her daughter suddenly asked curiously, "Mom, why didn't you lock the door today?" What if someone breaks in? " 」

Mom replied, "Not just today. I'm afraid you can't get in at night, so the door hasn't been locked for ten years. 」

The mother waited for her daughter to come back for ten years, and the decoration in the room was the same as that of that year. That night, the mother and daughter returned to the way they were ten years ago, locked the door tightly and fell asleep.

1. Father and son passed the gate of a five-star hotel and saw a very luxurious imported car. The son disdainfully said to his father, "People who take this kind of car must have no knowledge in their stomachs! The father replied airily: "People who say such things must have no money in their pockets! 」

(Note: Does your view of things also reflect your true attitude? )

After dinner, mother and daughter wash dishes together, and father and son watch TV in the living room. Suddenly, there was a sound of breaking dishes in the kitchen, and then there was silence. It was the son who looked at his father and said, "Mom must have broken it. 」

"How do you know? 」」

"She didn't call names. 」

Note: We are used to judging others and ourselves by different standards, so that we are often strict with ourselves. )

3. There are two Taiwan sightseeing groups traveling to Izu Peninsula in Japan. The road conditions are poor, and there are potholes everywhere. One of the tour guides repeatedly apologized and said that the road was just like pockmarked. On the other hand, another tour guide said poetically to the tourists, "Ladies and gentlemen, the road we are taking now is the famous Aotu Avenue in Gu Liang." . 」

(Note: Although it is the same situation, different ideas will produce different attitudes. How wonderful it is to think, how to think is up to you. )

Students who are also in the third grade of primary school said in their composition that their future wish is to be a clown. China's teacher denounced it as: "Without ambition, you can't teach a boy!" ! Teachers who bring foreign countries will say, "May you bring laughter to the whole world! 」

(Note: As elders, we not only tend to demand more than encourage, but also have a narrower definition of success. )

In the Palace Museum, a lady said impatiently to her husband, "I asked you why you walked so slowly. So you always stop to look at these things. 」

(Note: Some people only know how to run on the road of life, and as a result, they lose the opportunity to see beautiful flowers on both sides. )

My wife is cooking in the kitchen. Her husband has been nagging: slow down. Watch out! The fire is too big. Turn the fish over quickly. Shovel it up quickly, there is too much oil! Level the tofu! "Well," the wife blurted out, "I know how to cook." "Of course you know, madam," the husband replied calmly. I just want you to know how I feel when I am driving and you are chattering around. 」

(Note: It is not difficult to learn to be considerate of others, as long as you are willing to seriously look at the problem from the other side's perspective and position. )

7. A bus full of passengers is driving down the hill quickly, and a man is running after it. A passenger stuck his head out of the window and said to the car chaser, "Dude! Forget it, you can't catch up! " "I must catch up with it," the man panted. "I am the driver of this car!"

(Note: Some people must work hard, because otherwise, the consequences will be tragic! But it is precisely because of the need to go all out that the potential instinct and unknown characteristics will finally be fully displayed. )

1 1, a: "The new neighbors are so hateful. Last night, in the dead of night, he knocked on my doorbell. 」

B: "How hateful! Did you call the police immediately? 」

A: "No, I think they are crazy. Keep playing my trumpet. 」

Everything happens for a reason. If you can see your mistakes first, the answer will be different. When you face contradictions and disputes, first think about whether you are lost in your heart, and maybe you can let it go soon. )

12, one day, Zhang San was driving on a mountain path. While he was enjoying the beautiful scenery leisurely, suddenly a truck came in front of him, and the grinning driver rolled down the window and shouted at him, "pig!" " Zhang Sanyue thought more and more puzzled, more and more angry, so he rolled down the window and turned to curse: "You are the pig!" " No sooner had he finished cursing than he ran into a group of pigs crossing the road.

Don't misinterpret the kindness of others, it will only hurt yourself and humiliate others. Before unknown so, you should learn to hold back your emotions and observe patiently so as not to regret it afterwards. )

13. The little boy asked his father, "Does the father always know more than his son?"

Dad replied, "Of course!"

The little boy asked, "Who invented the electric light?"

Dad: "It's Edison."

The little boy asked again, "Then why didn't Edison's father invent the electric light?"

Strangely, people who like seniority are particularly prone to get into fights. Authority is often just an empty shell that can't stand the test, especially in today's pluralistic and open era. )

14, Xiaoming accidentally swallowed a small piece of soap in the shower, and his mother called the family doctor for help in a panic. The doctor said, "I still have a few patients here." It may take half an hour to get there. " Xiaoming's mother said, "What should I do before you come?" The doctor said, "Give Xiaoming a cup of boiled water, and then jump hard, so that Xiaoming can blow bubbles with his mouth to kill time."

Relax, relax, there's no need to be too nervous in life. Now that it has happened, why not face it frankly? It's better to rest assured if you are worried, and it's better to be poor and happy if you are nervous. )

15, there is a strong lock hanging on the gate, and an iron bar took a lot of effort, but it still can't be pried open. The key came and his thin body got into the lock hole. With a slight turn, the big lock opened with a bang.

Die-hard asked strangely, "Why can't I open it after all my efforts, but you open it easily?"

The key said, "Because I know his heart best."

Everyone's heart is like a locked door, no matter how thick the iron bar is, it can't be pried open. Only by caring can we turn ourselves into a delicate key, enter other people's hearts and understand others. )