Women's love psychology

Women's love psychology, it is said that a woman's heart is the most difficult to understand, and a woman's heart is a needle in the sea. This description doesn't need to be too apt. If it is difficult to understand, there is no solution. In fact, if you want to know what a woman is thinking, you must study it carefully. The following is about women's love psychology.

Female Love Psychology 1 Female Love Psychology I. Love Cost

The reason why I start from this angle is because the cost of love is actually the main direction that this woman pays in the process of interacting with you.

Only by understanding these can we understand the psychology of girls in communication more accurately.

Many brothers and sisters don't respond well when chatting. This is because your chat doesn't arouse girls' emotions, which makes girls feel bored chatting with you, and gradually they won't reply to you or even hack you.

1, emotional input

For women as emotional creatures, their biggest investment in a relationship is not time and energy, nor money, but "emotion".

Yang Lan once said this in an interview:

Emotion is something that makes people get deeper and deeper, because its carrier is memory. Time can erase everything, but it can't change the memory of the loved one.

In many divorce cases, women would rather lead an honest and clean life than have more emotional entanglements with men, because they feel that the feelings are gone and the rest are not important.

Therefore, in the process of pursuing girls, don't be too eager to ask girls for emotional input.

Many frustrated men have just been in contact with girls for a few days, and they are anxious to know whether girls like themselves or not, and even ask around about her girlfriends.

This will only give girls a lot of pressure, and feel that this man is urgently demanding his contribution to him, leaving an unreliable impression on girls.

2. Opportunity cost

Opportunity cost means that when a girl has sex with a boy, she may miss a better and better boy.

Therefore, when determining the relationship, girls often struggle and will delay indefinitely. At this time, what we have to do is to bravely shoulder the responsibility of improving relations.

This requires us to take the initiative to break this window paper at the right time and open our hearts to girls.

3. Social evaluation cost

There are actually two sources of social evaluation of girls: men and women.

Everyone can feel this in their daily life. Men and women's evaluation of the same girl may give completely different results, and each thinks he is right.

"Only women can tell who a bitch is" directly negates men's point of view.

Therefore, we must take into account what kind of "public opinion" girls have to bear, especially the "gossip" between women.

A beautiful and cheerful girl is often called a bitch by other women because she has a good relationship with many men.

Female girlfriend:

The relationship between girls and girlfriends is complicated, basically "love each other and kill each other".

When you are in love, you are closer than your parents and sisters, and you are not soft when you kill each other.

For various reasons, women can't throw themselves into fighting like men when there is conflict, but more often through cold violence, which is often called ridicule, cold war, including jealousy and so on.

When we can't judge what kind of evaluation this will bring to girls, we must ask her for advice and respect girls.

The best way to get along with girls' girlfriends is to "know without knowing".

Many men are not trusted when they get along with women because they are too familiar with their girlfriends and even meet alone, which is naked betrayal in the eyes of girls.

In reality, there are also many situations in which girlfriends take the initiative to seduce, so don't fall into the sweet trap of girlfriends. If you only meet once or twice, you don't even need contact information.

4. The risk of breaking up

In a relationship, girls' feelings are gradually deepening, and the more emotional input, the more they can't let go.

Moreover, under the current social conditions, not to mention a married girl, that is, a girl who has talked about several boyfriends will be subjected to a lot of gossip.

So the risk of breaking up makes girls more willing to choose men who love themselves more, are more single-minded and more reliable.

Psychology of girls' love II. Women's needs

Women's needs are actually the values that girls want us to pay for.

1, emotional needs

In terms of sex and love, Seven Lonely Days is very different. Sex is very important to men, and the pursuit of sex is also very direct.

Girls are not. Girls pay attention to emotional communication, and the demand for desire is relatively not so strong, so more often, girls' physiological acceptance of a man should be based on emotional acceptance.

In the eyes of girls, the more emotions a man is willing to put into, the more he loves her.

Therefore, when we are in contact with a girl, we should not always try to get intimate with her, but try our best to make her feel safe.

There are many ways of emotional communication:

Can be talking to each other;

It can be talking about some deep-seated topics;

If together, it can also be a beautiful scenery;

All these will make girls feel spiritual satisfaction.

2. Women need company

After entering a relationship, a girl needs the company of a boy very much, which may be because of her natural insecurity. I hope boys can pay more attention to her.

Companionship is the longest confession, and girls will hope that their other half can rely on and listen.

This dependence is not necessarily the actual action, but the quiet listening.

Especially when a girl confides in us, we don't need to solve the problem for her, just listen to her story and feel her mood.

Most of the time, what a girl asks for is not that you are always by her side, but that you are by her side when she needs you.

When she is helpless, you give her a shoulder to lean on;

When no one understands her decision, you tell her, "I support you";

When the things she faces are too difficult to solve by herself, you tell her, "I will help you."

These are all things a man should do.

However, many boys misinterpret the meaning of companionship. It is understandable that they want to be around girls all the time and create occasional encounters. It's a bit too much to call all day with a girl's contact information.

Always focusing on girls, always thinking about expressing yourself and promoting relationships will only make girls think that you are unreliable.

In the process of getting along with girls, you still have to have your own work life and your own things.

3. Women need appreciation and affirmation.

Girls often "don't know themselves", and they prefer to know themselves from the eyes of others. The skills of "cold reading and constellation" are more suitable for girls, just because they use their psychology.

Cold reading meeting:

Sometimes you are extroverted, popular and get along well with friends, but sometimes you are more autistic. You will hide your worries or troubles in your heart and live in seclusion without telling others.

Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Although your appearance gives people a strong feeling, I can see that your heart is actually very sensitive and even a little fragile. You don't want much, just want someone to care more about you and find their own safe haven.

However, cold reading is only a small skill after all, and everyone can understand it, but don't take it too seriously.

These are some very old common cold reading skills. I suggest you refer to them, but don't be poisoned.

Expressing proper appreciation for girls is an ability worth learning for a long time. Your appreciation should be just right and tasteful, and you must not give a girl the feeling that you are catering to her.

4. Women need independent space.

Love is not possession.

Some boys have exhausted all kinds of tricks when chasing girls, and it is easy to have a strong possessiveness after determining the relationship.

Because they invest too much, eager to get the value of girls, and constantly ask for it, they will gradually want to occupy the full value of girls;

Taking each other as their personal belongings, girls have no private space at all, and it is difficult to maintain a long-term relationship.

In daily life, as long as the other party doesn't do anything beyond the moral bottom line, we suggest not to interfere too much in the other party's decision and private life, especially to respect the other party's privacy.

There is no need to be bored with each other every day in life. At the current pace of life, it is normal for boyfriend and girlfriend to date once or twice a week.

If you live together, you'd better plan to get married.

Girls' love psychology III. Basic Psychology

Women hate making decisions.

Girls' lives are inherently tangled, so they generally hate making decisions and hope to find a boy who can lead them.

Dating girls, what to eat, what to play and where to play are all issues that we should take the initiative to undertake.

If girls don't like it at that time, you should also have the courage to take responsibility and find something that suits her taste better.

Traveling with them, some people plan to leave with their bags on their backs, while others will carefully check the weather, plan their daily trips and purchase what they need in advance. At that time, girls just had to carry their bags and give everything to you.

Which of these two people do you think makes girls feel more reliable and more willing to go out with him?

This has nothing to do with our attitude of attaching importance to value, nor is it excessive, but it should be.

Because a girl travels with a boy, it gives the boy great trust and the possibility of intimate behavior, and also bears the pressure of social criticism. This is the value of a girl.

In the process of dealing with our sexual relationship, we should also bravely guide the girls, and don't let the girls decide the relationship with you.

Because in front of feelings, women always tend to be conservative. If we want to avoid falling into friendship circles, we must bravely change the relationship between you.

Step 2 be alert

The jealousy of girls is generally strong, especially among girlfriends. Our pre-selection often works through the jealousy of girls.

We usually put some photos with female friends, which will make other girls think that you are a popular person with girls.

Because they realize that it is difficult to know someone, and you can communicate well with other women, which shows that you are recognized by other girls and are a more valuable person.

It means that we use the values of other girls to set off our own values. The higher the value of the girl who sets you off, the higher your value will be.

Step 3 rationalize afterwards

Most girls are emotional, so they can't understand why they do something driven by emotions, and then they will find a reason for themselves.

This kind of psychology will be used in nurturing relationships and intimate relationships.

We hold hands with girls in an ambiguous atmosphere, and then girls will start to wonder why she holds hands with you. Does she like you?

The answer is generally yes, otherwise she will feel very casual.

The same is true after intimacy. Girls will think they like you, otherwise, how can they have sex?

Mentality of communicating with girls:

When teaching online, some keyboard instructors often say that girls should be treated with a mentality of letting them grow up, focusing on their own growth, and don't care too much about the gains and losses of girls. (×)

I think this idea is not comprehensive and disrespectful to girls.

When we associate with girls, we should aim at developing a good relationship. Any other thoughts will make our mentality deviate when we get along with girls.

You always want to have intimate relations with girls, and you will constantly expose your sense of need.

If you aim at training yourself, that girl will think that you don't value and respect her.

Therefore, it is suggested that girls should not have too strong a purpose, enjoy the process of being with girls, and treat every relationship sincerely.

If one day, you become a high-scoring man who attracts the attention of many girls, then you will gradually understand the unique psychological behavior of some high-scoring girls, thus attracting more high-quality girls. After all, bloom butterflies come naturally.

Psychology of female love II. Why do women fall in love gracefully?

He works hard when he doesn't answer the phone.

Because I miss him and worry about him, I can't get through a phone call. You called n times in a row, so crazy that you might scare him. Even if you always want to hear his voice because of love, men don't think so.

For example, he is attending an important meeting, hosting a symposium in the department, and watching football with friends ... If you have to call at this time, it will only annoy him. He won't think that you need him very much, but that you are really idle, bored and troublesome.

You are his mother.

You do his laundry and cook, and even wash his dirty socks. You think he will be moved by this. Yes, he will really appreciate you at first, but after a long time, you will be his nanny and even think that this is what you should do. Is this relationship really what you want? Have you ever thought about your image in his eyes?

Maybe a man says he needs a virtuous woman to take care of his life, but in his eyes, what's the difference between you and his big momma? Does anyone think they are fat mom's partner? It is absolutely different for a wife and a mother to do the same thing.

You can stand by him 24 hours a day.

One of his phone calls, you can call at any time, as long as it is related to him, you will have time. Men often don't know the meaning of the word "cherish" for things that are too easy to get, and even ignore your feelings, because you may have ignored yourself and all your eyes are on him. Do you expect others to care about you?

You may not get his attention. Don't say that men are bitches, women, or anyone else, and often don't think that what is readily available is precious. This is just a bad habit of human beings.

Always chasing the call of the soul

He is dating a friend. You ask his friend's name, gender and date place. He said he would work overtime, so you should call his office at eight o'clock in the evening to check the post. Dear, if there is "surveillance" in love, what happiness can this relationship have? If he really wants to escape, it may be useless for you to patrol your post from time to time. No matter how beautiful love is, it must have dignity.

If he shows signs of cheating, you are defending your rights and interests, and there is absolutely reason. However, it will only make him feel annoyed all the time. Although we all want to cheat, these are just embellishments in life.

We need to associate with people around us, we need to work, and we need to have something other than love. In Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Chow Yun Fat and Yang Ziqiong said, Calm down and think about it. Letting go is another way to persist. Did you get it?

Pestering him to accompany you.

Women are a group that can easily feel lonely, so they can't do without companionship and love. In a relationship, they are often swayed by considerations of gain and loss, fearing that they are not good enough to keep their lovers, so they try their best to hold each other tightly, and it is best not to be separated for 24 hours like conjoined twins.

So if lovers ignore them, they will start the melodramatic mode. Qiong Yao's protagonist is in the upper body, crying and making trouble, asking the lovers what they did wrong. Who can stand it?

Men's inner play: these signals show that I have been fascinated by you.

Who says that women are always led by love, and so are men? Once I fall in love with you, you are his wind, his rain, his sunshine and sunrise. The following picture is a signal that he loves you. After you receive the signal, you don't have to worry about rarity.

1, all kinds of small things, she and he began to report to you in detail, and they would call at least once or twice a day to say something.

2. Love me, love my dog, most of the things you like are beginning to like. Even if your friend needs help, he will not hesitate to lend a helping hand.

Every time he is alone with you, he always makes a careful arrangement. Even if you never use perfume at ordinary times, you will spray some at this time.

4, always praise you inexplicably, even if the clothes you wear today are the same as yesterday, he will pop up a sentence like "You are wearing beautiful clothes today".

In front of you, he becomes talkative and tells you all kinds of things about himself in a roundabout way, such as his parents' work, what kind of shower gel he likes, and who his buddies are. ...

6. After each meeting, he couldn't wait to agree on the time, place and activities of the next meeting.

7. When eating with you, he will look at your eyes and lips intently. If you are a girl who likes to eat hard, he will always help you with vegetables and even mix all kinds of sauces.

How to fall in love gracefully

Nowadays, it is a rare virtue for men to love jade, and it is hard to say that it has nothing to do with those active women. Men are inherently bad, and the harder the bones are, the more interested they are. The best and most effective way to keep them is to keep a certain distance from them so that they can never be sure of you.

Love is like this, just like Zhang Yu's song "Only when you love deeply can you let him go". The Buddha also said that without love, there is no delusion, no worry, no fear. If you love too much, you will suffer. It doesn't matter if you are tempted. Being tempted is actually beautiful. The key is not to strike first. Whoever starts first will lose the game.

Men really can't be spoiled. Spoiled is bad, worse than spoiled women. Women are spoiled and willful, while men tend to lose their sense of responsibility, lose patience and courage to their active emotions and bodies, and hold a utilitarian and practical attitude towards love. They think women are like computers. If they do, it's better to upgrade later.

I still like those classic plots where men create love and romance for women. Now it seems that it is time for women to learn to be cruel. Many things have proved that if a woman is a little more cruel, a man will be a little more gentle.

As the saying goes, "women come from the earth and men come from other planets". There are many differences between men and women, which makes the communication between the two sides full of resistance. But that's the beauty of relationships, isn't it? Get to know each other and attract each other. But in the process of communication, be careful not to let your behavior cause trouble to the other party.

Women's love psychology III. Four Kinds of Love Psychology of Modern Girls

First, egocentric psychology

People with this mentality only ask their lover to change, listen to themselves, serve themselves and cater to their individual needs, regardless of each other's needs, interests, hobbies and values. So it is difficult to get the love of the opposite sex. People with this mentality can only say that they have the basic conditions for successful love if they change their values and learn to care and respect others.

Second, inexplicable jealousy.

A woman is very sensitive to people or things around her, especially in love. She will constantly compare herself with others, and always worry that her value will not be recognized by the other party in her mind, so she will be jealous and sometimes she can't get rid of it. Jealousy is harmful, not only to people, but also to their physical and mental health.

Third, too realistic psychology.

Due to social pressure and the temptation of money. "Suitable for the right family" is naturally the first choice for love and marriage, which can avoid many unnecessary troubles after marriage. But it's too "pragmatic", and the smell of copper is too strong, which will make another monk, Zhang Er, very confused, wondering whether he loves money or his lover. Maybe you can't even tell where your love is. If you have love in your heart, simple tea and light rice can make you strong and beautiful.

Fourth, duplicity.

Men must know when women are duplicitous. This is very important. We often quarrel about it. And women usually become very duplicitous when they desire, and dare not say it if they want to.

So when I asked my girlfriend to go to the movies, my boyfriend wanted to buy a ticket. If the girlfriend says no, the boyfriend won't go. If I wait for my girlfriend to buy it, the movie will definitely fail. This strange psychology of women is actually a self-protection strategy, and of course, sometimes it is also the expression of women's true heart.

Second, four kinds of love psychology of girls

1, a girl who lowers her head when she sees a boy on the road. In fact, knowing a girl, looking at her eyes is the most accurate. Most oriental women bow their heads involuntarily when passing the opposite sex, but they also have different secrets. If she looks at you with normal eyes, it means that she has no special feelings for you, but if the other person looks at you with pleasant eyes, don't get too excited. She may just be in a good mood and meet you unexpectedly!

When a girl meets a man she likes unexpectedly, she will bow her head involuntarily at first sight, but she will glance at him from time to time. If you keep looking at her, she will usually keep looking down or elsewhere until you stop paying attention. Of course, some girls will generously give it back to you, but this is a minority! Because most women are afraid that I will show a good impression on boys, giving people a feeling of being casual and frivolous.

2. It is a very interesting phenomenon that girls who have a poor sense of direction and often go wrong have a poor sense of direction! The most common situation is to get lost and have no sense of direction at all. If she just gets lost in an unfamiliar place, it is understandable if she is not familiar with the route around her home or school.

This kind of woman is generally very dependent on others in character, especially those who like to ask for directions directly instead of looking at the map or can't understand the road map at all. If they encounter something, they often ask for help, lacking autonomy and subjective ideas. If she is your girlfriend, her boyfriend must take good care of you. Don't let her think you are unreliable, or there will be endless quarrels and even affairs!

3. Girls who often mention other men in chatting with their boyfriends. Many girls will seize the psychological weakness of boys and make them stick to her more dead set. One of the most common tricks is to casually mention the names or things of other irrelevant boys when chatting with your boyfriend.

In general, men and women in love try to avoid mentioning their ex-boyfriends or the opposite sex in order to prevent each other from getting suspicious or hurting unnecessarily. However, if they have been in contact for a period of time, some girls will inadvertently mention the names or things of their middle school classmates when chatting. Although the woman may only be an understatement, the man may have no reaction, but the heart is undercurrent!

3. What kind of man do women like?

1, sincere and considerate

A thoughtful and rational woman will not blindly pursue the family background or future status of boys. What she is looking for is a man who can understand and take care of her. Even if this man cries occasionally and is a little timid, it doesn't matter that he will fail. Men can show their brave side, but also their weak side, so that women feel real!

2, will not blindly cater to

Men who are independent and respect women will be popular, but first of all, they should know the real needs of women, not the disorderly cooperation or self-righteous love. Although considerate men are charming, if men answer "whatever!" Every time. ","yes.

"You decide." ..... this will make women feel very tired. Everything is centered on women, nothing is decided, and there is no idea. Really too indecisive! In addition, if men are afraid that women will be unhappy, they will always say "everything you wear looks good" and "everything you do is delicious!" ..... This kind of ambiguous words will gradually make women feel that you have no idea.

When a man comforts a woman, he can become a cheerleader, and you will say, "It must be all right!" " ""Don't worry, you can do it! " "Should be passed smoothly. "... these words have a certain comforting effect on women, but after a long time, you need more * * * skills.

3. Men and bad women don't necessarily love men, and the era when women are not bad and women don't love is over. More precisely, mature women like men with personality, ideas and opinions, not bad people. The kind of man who looks cool and inconsiderate is harmful to young MM, which is not a good choice for an adult who is about 25 years old and intends to get married.

4. Honesty and loyalty

Many men will see other women in front of their girlfriends, and even flirt with other women. Even if the woman is generous and willing to appreciate other beautiful women with men, she will still feel strange over time. Therefore, men had better not look around too much. Many men can't speak their minds honestly. When they are secretly jealous, they pretend to be generous, but the whole behavior is embarrassing. Note that your behavior has been seen through, and women already know that you are jealous.

If you have seen through it, why don't men just say what they think and feel? Otherwise, women may deliberately give you more material, leaving you speechless. A man who doesn't know how to tell a woman properly is doomed to internal injuries.

5, clean and refreshing

The fishy smell on a man who doesn't take a bath for a few days, or the sweat on a T-shirt, is the most terrible, and the taste of his feet is disgusting. Although some men can take a bath, they don't wash their hair, they are greasy and dandruff ... just looking at them is terrible. Men who don't like cleanliness will remind women of bacteria, so men with oily skin had better wash them frequently, as well as nose hair on nails, hands and feet.

Four, three reasons why women are unwilling to break up.

First, if you fall in love with a habit, you will lose the courage to choose again.

A woman with this kind of psychology can be said to be persistent and loyal, but only if she meets a good man. But more often, we have to say that she is stubborn and cowardly. There is such a woman whose marriage is not generally miserable, but she still stubbornly waits for that hell and refuses to give up. On the surface, she is brave and can risk her life for marriage-"I would rather die than divorce".

But really think about it, she is the most timid and cowardly woman. Her marriage has no future, and her husband treats her like a human being, but she is still immersed in those short-lived beautiful dreams and can't get out of those humble habits. What terrible loyalty and cowardice! Her cowardice has reached the bone, so that her man can't see her minimum dignity as a woman.

Secondly, work is the weakness of most women.

The better the woman, the more afraid of breaking up. In fact, this has a lot to do with a weakness in their hearts. They like to show their good side everywhere. They are used to showing people with artificial faces. Many people even put this kind of work in their bones, not only for others, but also for themselves. No matter how difficult it is and how inhuman it is, she will stick to it.

She can do anything in order not to get divorced. As long as she doesn't break up, she can do anything for anyone without any reason, just to make herself feel "good" and become an elegant and happy woman, a perfect and happy woman in everyone's eyes. In fact, there are quite a few women who do this. They are terrible and have no self. Work is their greatest pursuit in life, almost crazy and morbid.

Third, crows in the world are generally black, so what branches can you rely on to walk around the tree three times?

In real life, a considerable number of women, after experiencing some kind of emotional failure, will subjectively blame this failure on all men in the world. They can't ignore all the men in the world because of one person's fault. They simply subjectively think that the world is as black as crows!