You can’t choose your origin, but you can choose your destiny - reading notes

? A few days ago, I read the book "You in the Future Will Be Thankful to Your Desperate Self Now", and there was a very good article:

We cannot choose the environment in which we were born. , because the starting point is different, the results will inevitably be very different. Some people are born with a happy family, while others have to live a hard life, and they can only accept it silently. The moment a person emerges from the mother's womb, a person's birth level is determined. Is this fair? Of course it's not fair. However, although fate determines the moment you are born, a series of choices you make thereafter determine your life after birth.

? Although a person's origin cannot be chosen, other than that, everyone has other choices.

You can't change the weather, but you can change your mood. You can't choose your birth, but you can choose your destiny.

Human life is a process of choice. This sentence expresses the simplest, simplest and most important philosophy of life. Because everyone has their own ideas about life, love, marriage, friendship, career, work, career, etc. When they take action to realize what they want in their hearts, whether they succeed or fail, they all have their own ideas. There is an option.

Everyone has their own dreams of career and wealth, but most people only dream about it. They attribute the success of successful people to luck, opportunity, high IQ or high education, etc., and then Taking advantage of his poor situation, he sighed and blamed everyone.

? Different thinking brings different behaviors. If he has been with a group of cycling friends, then he may be thinking about how to change to a famous brand mountain bike, or to change to an electric vehicle. Not cars, there are many such examples. Your destiny is in your own hands, and the key to your destiny is not what you can do, but who you are with.

If you want to change your destiny, your mentality is very important. It is said that character determines your destiny. A good character does not necessarily lead to a good life, but if you want a good life, a good character is essential. You must be confident, positive and optimistic , don’t lose courage and hope in life. As long as there is a glimmer of hope, you should fight hard, because when you choose to accept your fate, you are actually escaping from reality. You feel that you will face heavy pressure in the future, but you ignore that when you are appointed, you have already carried a heavier burden, and this burden will make you feel suffocated and avoided as the years go by. How can one escape a lifetime?

Don’t avoid problems, don’t say, “I don’t have wealthy parents.” “This is my fate.” The so-called fatalism is a product of ancient times. In this highly civilized scientific era, it is still Believing in fate is such a thing. It will make people laugh their teeth out. Now everyone is fighting for freedom, and you are still shouting about fate. Not only did it go in reverse, it actually drove the train onto the platform. Learn to solve problems. What kind of view you have on something is what kind of fate you think is easy. It will be easy. If you think about it being difficult, it will become difficult. All of this is your own choice, so before you act , it will be much easier to do without setting many negative conclusions for yourself first.

? You can't choose your birth, but you have the right to choose the life you want to live. Most people who make brave choices can maintain a happy mood - even if you can't change your destiny, you You can also have better and better luck because of your own efforts and growth!